Kim, I'm glad you guys are all together with your mom like this and you can talk
about Jimmy with her. I'm pretty close to my sisters, we see each other several
days a week, but even so, I have to remind them that Jason's birthday is coming
up, they never bring it up. His 21st birthday was just this past Saturday and I
was over at their house for awhile, my mom, older sister and younger sister were
there. It had snowed briefly that morning, and they were talking about that, I
said "Yeah Jason did that for his birthday, he did it last year too, he always
wanted it to snow on his birthday", so they said "oh yeah it is his birthday
today isnt it?" Well, last Monday when we all go to bingo, I brought it up, so
they were all reminded but then forgot. They never forgot when he was alive,
it's very sad. I know how your mom feels. Sometimes I think (know) that I'm the
only person in the world who grieves for my son and he deserves so much more
than that, for him to be remembered and
treasured would help my soul so much. It's pretty much the same with his death
day which is so much worse for me. I'm glad you all have each other. ~Dianna
Jason's mom

Kim <kciano@...> wrote: Hello to all. For those of you that are new
and don't know me...I am
Kim, I lost my brother James to AEA in Nov. 2000. He was 37 years old.
Things here are going ok. Today is actually Jimmy's birthday. I just
spent the morning with Mom crying her eyes out. She is struglling with
the idea that we ( me, my brother and mother...and maybe my father
however he never talks about it) are the only ones that remember it is
his birthday. No one elses even acknowledges it or talks about it. I
am sure a lot of you guys feel the same way too sometimes. it just
seems no one is affected like we are. We think of Jimmy every day of
our lifes and not everyone else does........that sucks.......
Mom also said she feels like everyone thinks she should just get over
it by now. Me, my mom and brother talk about Jimmy all the time. We
celebrate his life, laughter and sense of humor. I miss him so much





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please visit Jason's memory site:
http://www.geocities.com/angelmomfriends4/jason1.html page 1 Welcome; page 2
Birthday; page 3 His last years and death










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