... Dear Kathleen, Welcome to the group. I'm just now catching up with my e-mail as the kids and I have been on a long visit to my parents' in the states (we...
Hi Everyone, My son Alex is almost 15 and has drooled since birth. I would say that he drools less than before but he still needs to wear a bib all the time. ...
Are all of your boys in school? And is there a problem with aggression among the boys? My brother, Dakota, 13, got too agressive for us to handle, and he was...
jasmine jones
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Sep 3, 2003 9:43 pm
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Just curious Jasmine, what kind of aggression does your son have? My son is only 6 and I'm having a hard time with his aggressions too. Thanks, Myra ... From:...
Stephen Lodge
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Sep 4, 2003 1:29 am
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Well, he's my brother, but he bites, pulls hair, and pinches. But he will also kick. He's not only outwardly aggressive, but he also hurts himself. He will...
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Hi Jasmine, My name is Nancy Bradel and I have a 7 year old son Tommy which has not been yet diagnoised with ATRX, but has alot of the similar characterics of ...
Hi Jasmine, and Nancy, Thank you both for your response. I don't feel all alone now. My son too sounds exactly like what you both are going through. He will...
Stephen Lodge
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Sep 4, 2003 5:28 pm
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My brother has had the fundoplication, and we haven't had any reflux problems since then. One thing though is that scar tissue has built up severely, and we...
jasmine jones
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Sep 4, 2003 7:25 pm
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Yes, my brother does get aggressive when he is sick or feels bad. When my mother or someone in my family at home is tense, or angry, I think he senses it,...
jasmine jones
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Sep 4, 2003 7:28 pm
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Jasmine, I do spank my son, he understands that and usually gets very sad after I spank him. Most of the time he is just extremely tired so after a spanking...
Yes. We have our own ways of dealing with him, I was just wondering what works with other boys. My brother isn't very high functioning, and I think sometimes...
jasmine jones
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Sep 5, 2003 6:47 pm
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I'm confused, Nancy. Do you spank during aggression, hold him tightly, use a stern voice, or do all of the above? ... From: jasmine jones To:...
Don and Ann Allen
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Sep 6, 2003 12:35 am
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I can't bite my tongue any longer...Yelling or spanking will only add to the overwhelming sensory inputs and add to the stress causing the problem in the first...
Don and Ann Allen
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I agree with you. When my mom spanks my brother, it only makes him worse, and he gets more aggressive instead of less aggressive. And sometimes my dad will...
jasmine jones
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Sep 6, 2003 1:34 am
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Don & Ann, I first use a stern voice which sometimes will work, therefore no further action is needed. Other times, I first use a stern voice and hold him ...
Don/Ann, My son understands alot more then some of the other children effected with ATRX, and when my son is in danger of hurting himself, he has to understand...
Jasmine, I do not think spanking is the first thing you need to do to or spanking them until they cry, however it is very stressful to deal with a child with...
I know this seems too simplistic, and doesn't apply to everyone because some have feeding tubes, but it seems when I give my son Beano at the beginning of...
mis ery
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Sep 8, 2003 4:33 pm
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I agree w/ Ann. I do not spank or yell at my son. If people talk in loud, angry voices even around my son, it seems to upset him. My son has gone through ...
mis ery
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Sep 8, 2003 4:55 pm
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The only meds Tommy was on was propulsive for his reflex when he was an infant but he grew out of it so he stopped taking it. I think Tommy is a very bright...
I agree that all children are different and should be treated differently. Your son does seem *very* different from most of the ATR-X children I have read ...
mis ery
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Sep 9, 2003 5:44 pm
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Oh dear...I didn't mean to offend anyone. I think of this as an open forum in which we can all express our views regarding the variety of strategies we use...
Don and Ann Allen
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Sep 10, 2003 1:36 am
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Do any of your boys have birth defects? Dakota has only one kidney, and had to have one of his testicles removed and was also born with abnormally shaped...
jasmine jones
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Sep 13, 2003 12:38 am
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I will be out of the office starting September 12, 2003 and will not return until September 16, 2003. I will respond to your message when I return....
Wow! I found your msg very interesting. In my family, only the boys who have ATR-X seem to have any of these things. I had 2 nephews w/ it but I don't think...
mis ery
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Sep 15, 2003 7:50 pm
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I don't know exactally about his pupils. They look like little key holes. His vision is very poor, and has caused him to be legally blind. ... ...
jasmine jones
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Sep 15, 2003 10:13 pm
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Hello Mario, My name is David Hughes and I am the father of two son's both affected by ATR-X. They are not twins. My oldest is 10 and his brother is 8. Both...
Will the state help fund this School or is it all at the expese of the parents.--- In atr-x@yahoogroups.com, jasmine jones ... aggression among the boys? ... ...
Will the state help fund this School or is it all at the expese of the parents.--- In atr-x@yahoogroups.com, jasmine jones ... aggression among the boys? ... ...
We live in Oregon our son Justin is 8 yrs old and is starting to become very aggressive and is not doing as well in school he has in the pasthe has always been...