I have a friend, she is nice, she is a real true friend. I met her through
running. She was very shy. I had a very strong crush on her. So I made a
website devoted to her, and gave he the URL. Thus I got her email.

I have this same trouble as you, that I know many people. But the only the bad
ones seem to draw themselves to me.

I think that somehow, if I where to learn to draw myself to others, the same way
bad people draw themselves to me, than I could draw myself to good people.

I think that those who I do not know are the good people.

I think that the world is mostly made up of good people.

Maybe we can work on this together.

I think the solution is to draw oneself to others.

Instead of letting others come to you.

Just like shopping. Often, the best deal is not the one that advertises it's
self.

Timothy

"dallasscowboys1" <dallasscowboys1@...> writes:

> Hi everyone.
>
> I need your help. I am having trouble finding Real Friends of late and
>
> I seem to be finding the wrong ones. I have just recently been
>
> involved in two personal situations which I don't fully understand nor
>
> have any idea what the actual situation was really about I was just
>
> dumped into it unexpectedly by one of my so called friends out of the
>
> blue last Thursday afternoon when Browns Plains Police Rang me. My
>
> So called friends always involve me unexpectedly mind you, always in
>
> their Vandetta's against other friends of mine ( when they have had
>
> a falling out) and when they ask me out somewhere they lure me
>
> like a fish to a rod by bribing me by saying we are going swimming
>
> which oddly enough is my favourite past time swimming and they use
>
> this in the hope I would go with them unbeknownest to me on their
>
> quest like Lord of the Rings to hit back at someone which most of
>
> the time is very Illegal and against the law. Which always ends up
>
> with the police being involved and me sitting in the back seat
>
> very upset in some cases crying and shaking because I didn't want
>
> to be invovled in this Vandetta or Illegal act against the law
>
> in the first place. When I do get the courage to tell them this is
>
> wrong they come back saying we are your Real Friends we treat you
>
> well see what we have done for you and expect me to go out of my
>
> way to stick up for them even though I have no idea what they are
>
> talking about I usually stare at them with a blank stare due to
>
> the fact i have no idea or understanding of what they are talking about
>
> anyway. Personally I am very Scared and Frightened of these people
>
> due to the fact they can do very nasty things to people and as I
>
> said I have been with these people when they have done these nasty
>
> things to people and I am just to scared to let go. I have to hide
>
> myself in my Grannyflat and change my mobile phone and home phone
>
> numbers and my Yahoo and Msn Addresses just so these people don't
>
> Harass me nor Abuse me. These people come from UHF Radio, Cb radio"s
>
> please anyone who is intending to take this up as a Hobbie or an
>
> Interest I strongly suggest you don't. As in my case it isn't a
>
> good place to make friends nor a place to talk to people neither.
>
> I have now learnt my lesson and have given up Uhf Radio's and have
>
> now taken up Meterology as a Hobbie instead of Uhf Radio's and I
>
> now do not associate with anyone from Radio at all. But these
>
> people still try and associate me with their lives even when I
>
> or My Mum and Dad and the police have told them to leave me alone
>
> due to my Disablity I am unable to understand nor Grip what is going
>
> on and to leave me out of all their personal Vandetta's against
>
> people. But the thing is I seem to be making the same mistake all
>
> the time I have always ever since I was a little girl made friends
>
> with the wrong people usually people, bad people, people who Use
>
> people, Lie to people, people who are against the police and have
>
> been involved in illegal things. These people seem to be attracted to
>
> me my Real True friend says I'm an easy target for these people due
>
> to the fact I am such a nice person they prey on your weakness they
>
> get to and get as much out of you and then dump you and Use you.
>
> I seem to thrive on people like that and I have no understanding
>
> why. Why? I just don't understand. I have only one true friend named
>
> John who has treated me like a human being and has been so supportive
>
> and has Accepted me for who I am and Understands me he has been with
>
> with me thick and thin and he is my backbone he is such a nice guy
>
> he has no troubles in his life and neither has he ever
>
> been in trouble with the police. All I want to find is a bunch of
>
> people just like him but where do you find them?. Can someone out
>
> there please be able to help me how to get out of this cycle and why
>
> this keeps happening to me?. Where do I find other friends like my
>
> friend John and how do I go about knowing whether these people
>
> are nice or not.
>
> From Annette
>
>
>
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