Hi everyone.

I need your help. I am having trouble finding Real Friends of late and

I seem to be finding the wrong ones. I have just recently been

involved in two personal situations which I don't fully understand nor

have any idea what the actual situation was really about I was just

dumped into it unexpectedly by one of my so called friends out of the

blue last Thursday afternoon when Browns Plains Police Rang me. My

So called friends always involve me unexpectedly mind you, always in

their Vandetta's against other friends of mine ( when they have had

a falling out) and when they ask me out somewhere they lure me

like a fish to a rod by bribing me by saying we are going swimming

which oddly enough is my favourite past time swimming and they use

this in the hope I would go with them unbeknownest to me on their

quest like Lord of the Rings to hit back at someone which most of

the time is very Illegal and against the law. Which always ends up

with the police being involved and me sitting in the back seat

very upset in some cases crying and shaking because I didn't want

to be invovled in this Vandetta or Illegal act against the law

in the first place. When I do get the courage to tell them this is

wrong they come back saying we are your Real Friends we treat you

well see what we have done for you and expect me to go out of my

way to stick up for them even though I have no idea what they are

talking about I usually stare at them with a blank stare due to

the fact i have no idea or understanding of what they are talking about

anyway. Personally I am very Scared and Frightened of these people

due to the fact they can do very nasty things to people and as I

said I have been with these people when they have done these nasty

things to people and I am just to scared to let go. I have to hide

myself in my Grannyflat and change my mobile phone and home phone

numbers and my Yahoo and Msn Addresses just so these people don't

Harass me nor Abuse me. These people come from UHF Radio, Cb radio"s

please anyone who is intending to take this up as a Hobbie or an

Interest I strongly suggest you don't. As in my case it isn't a

good place to make friends nor a place to talk to people neither.

I have now learnt my lesson and have given up Uhf Radio's and have

now taken up Meterology as a Hobbie instead of Uhf Radio's and I

now do not associate with anyone from Radio at all. But these

people still try and associate me with their lives even when I

or My Mum and Dad and the police have told them to leave me alone

due to my Disablity I am unable to understand nor Grip what is going

on and to leave me out of all their personal Vandetta's against

people. But the thing is I seem to be making the same mistake all

the time I have always ever since I was a little girl made friends

with the wrong people usually people, bad people, people who Use

people, Lie to people, people who are against the police and have

been involved in illegal things. These people seem to be attracted to

me my Real True friend says I'm an easy target for these people due

to the fact I am such a nice person they prey on your weakness they

get to and get as much out of you and then dump you and Use you.

I seem to thrive on people like that and I have no understanding

why. Why? I just don't understand. I have only one true friend named

John who has treated me like a human being and has been so supportive

and has Accepted me for who I am and Understands me he has been with

with me thick and thin and he is my backbone he is such a nice guy

he has no troubles in his life and neither has he ever

been in trouble with the police. All I want to find is a bunch of

people just like him but where do you find them?. Can someone out

there please be able to help me how to get out of this cycle and why

this keeps happening to me?. Where do I find other friends like my

friend John and how do I go about knowing whether these people

are nice or not.

From Annette