I am so sorry for all your losses and heartaches. I certainly feel alot of what you state. I too grew up with a alcoholic mother, and it seemed like her...
I like this...you're right the past is the past....dwell in it and it will trap you forever. When you get mad at people, is it from frustration like they can't...
I have had anger management most of my adult life. It has always been related to a job. I have never left a job a happy person. When I got passed up for...
"do you often try and do everything in a job, then get disappointed when no one seems able to do their job?--- " That is definitely part of my problem. I think...
My BF and I are also self employed and he is hard to work with most of the time and I too have troubles coping sometimes. ________________________________ ...
bond32086, I am not sure if what you wrote was to me but I do not want to control anything I am looking to be able to let go. I do not want to control anything...
I TRUST MYSELF The past has NO power over me! I can change my attitudes toward the past. I can refuse to think certain thoughts. Look how often I have refused...
Well Rachel that is longest post I think Ive seen on this group lol,That is good that you are puting a lot of effort in trying to control your anger,But I can...
ATTITUDES The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude to me is more important than facts. It is more important than the...
It really is that simple...too bad it's taken me so long to figure it out...great post! ... From: Cary Egbert <caryegbert@...> Subject: [angertoolbox...
wow you sound like me but I am younger, my wife is the same way your is...and I chose a really negative profession...but I am alert now that attitude means...
CULTIVATING HAPPINESS Happiness is a decision. It always was. Isn't it sad that so few people choose it daily? What we realize is that we love being around...
[Moderator comment: I couldn't agree more with Anne's words!] Hi there, I can see where you are coming from, and from your perspective you see things very...
Hi all, I am wondering if this really works? Can I just will myself to be happy , joyous and un angry? see,i have been angry & bitter for many months now, and...
Hi Superwoman from Texas, Yes, indeed, happiness can be cultivated! My dear wife is a natural at doing it while it has been a struggle for me for many years;...
FEELING GOOD It feels good to feel good, about yourself, about your world, about those around you. And feeling good, as simple as it sounds, can be a truly...
ATTITUDE by Charles Swindolf The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than the facts. It is...
WHAT GETS THROUGH Get in the habit of finding the positive aspects in everything around you. Then, when a new situation arises, you'll easily and naturally see...
ok i need a lot of input from different people please just short replys. Im not trying to be rude but i just need a straight short answer from all who reply.I...
You both are wrong people should never be violent with each other. Somebody needs to leave and leave now it will only get worse. Selena AKA Morena Azucar Sent...
I couldn't agree more...this is a disaster waiting to happen. Someone could end up dead. "She is insane, of course. The family history has become a mania...
Mr. Carey, thank you so much, Sir, for responding to me. I am a Christian, and I looked that scripture up and then prayed about this whole situation, and have...
Sara, Thanks for the expression of gratitude! Indeed, I pray that you gain the self-control I too have been seeking. Also, as you hopefully read following my...