Is it just me being jealous or is this completely wrong. My boyfriend
completely refuses to get his exes out of his life. He claims that
there not in his life and that if he sees them he sees them. Thats
not ture. Like right now instead of finding a job the dumb ass wants
to go shopping then go and waste gas going to take his friend to find
a job working with my boyfriends ex. Then going to a meeting that by
going will run in to his ex and a dozen other people hes slept with.
I can't stand his ex because she was the one he was with of years and
years. When we broke up a couple years ago he started dating her
again. When we where going to work things out he said he wasn't going
to break up with her until things went good with us. Then he did and
I told him because of the baggage that I didn't want her involed in
his life. She would call him and play that song by hinder Lips of an
angel. Ok playing games you think? In the past hes lied about
conversations with another ex before me. He would stop by her work
and he and she would call each other all the time, and he tells me it
was because she owned him money. He says I don't trust him and I
don't. Bottom line is i don't and he says he doesn't want to be with
some one that doesn't trust him. He also says that he tried of
defending himself and that he doesn't like being on the defence. Well
in my eyes only people who are guilty should be defencive. or not
want to answer. Am I right? I am trying not to call him back and get
mad and cuase more problems but it just angers me. I don't trust him.
I feel he still loves her. He says he doesn't. She is getting
married. But hes a flirt and he still is friends with alot of people
from his past. Is it wrong for me to say can't see them? Or should he
leave the past in the past. I am really trying not to call
him..........