I know as some don't understand & probably came in at the middle of the BS i guess u can call it anyhow this is how it went someone posted a question to the list i responded to that person's question then i start getting all kids of sarcastic remarks then of course a couple others had to jump on the wagon why? i have no idea i have gotton a few good hints & i gave a few good hints then ,not to mention any names,but people was e-mailing me in private ,by the way thanks, in support of me,i am a 28 yr old straight female married with 2 kids upper class white american group but i am also hot tempered the childish remarks i laughed off cause it was real funny watching adults acting like kids but when i get called a liar about something i know to be a well proven fact i do get real pissed i didn't mean to upset the ones not involved but i'd rather not associate with the trouble makers of the list & they know who they are i'm sure except for them i do apologize to the the rest & once again the ones who sent me e-mail in private i do appreciate ur support on the matter Linda