Dearest Friends; Canīt name you all because it would take me a while.I have met so many in this club.Want to send you all my best wishes for this New Year,to...
1. I decided I could handle drugs and or alcohol if other people would just quit trying to run my life. 2. I firmly believed that there was no Power greater...
Hey Everyone, Its been a long time since I have talked to everyone. Buried my dad over the holiday. spent the last three weeks taking care of him with Mom and...
Oh he's not gonna freeze on the street. Maybe he what he needs is a little time on skid row & the realization that his days of manipulating his family are...
Hi Jim......I agree with you...he knows his family will eventualy take him in and feel sorry for him...but if they just stand back and let him see what its...
Sorry about your Dad but he is not suffering anymore and in a better place. No matter what you do A drunk or addict will not get clean until they do it
for...
I remember well the time when my family told me that they loved me but they would no longer allow me to infect them with my insanity. The rule was simple. Your...
My family did many love things for me. I am so grateful for them all. As I look back the one I am most grateful for is that they loved me enough to say NO. Jim...
Hi Angel. So sorry about your Dad. It really does sound like he is in a better place. Stay safe in the home you are in...the atmosphere sounds kind of...
Thanks for the support. I got really angry this morning. We had some snow and he wasn't able to get to the treatment center about an hour and a half from his...
http://www.geocities.com/grannypistol/ A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches you heart. ... From: Lewie Date: Tuesday, January 06,...
Dear Kathy: I will pray for you and all your family.So sorry you are having so many problems.Your sister must be very strong.This situation is so familiar to...
Howdy, Kathy! Ya know, there's an old sayin', that comes t' mind, here! It's: "Ya can lead a horse to water, but, you can't make him drink!" However, in my own...
So far nothing Greg has done has really hurt me to cause any damage. It hurts me for HIM....but I've always known I can't do it for him. My sister flipped out...
Question to ask like I said it is silly or dumb to others I know but does any one ever get the want to just drop everything and go home? I know it sounds stpid...
Howdy, Kathy! PRAYERS - You need 'em, we got 'em, they've been said, an', more are headed Yer way!!! Love ya, "Doc" ... over ... true. ... a ... choice)....one...
Hey Cheff, My dad told me once that the only dumb question is the one you
don't ask. I have had the same feeling. Awhile back I would go to my home
group...
Kathy love ya girl, but for what its worth I think you need to let go. Try
some tough love. Except the things you can not change. He isn't ready yet.
maybe he...
Everything you've all said has helped in some way. Thank you!!! Hugs Lewie, Cheff, Elena, Doc and whoever I missed. I'm not going to worry (yeah right) about...
This isnt about me..its about US There is nothing more scary I can think of than growing. Over and over I tell myself I lock this in? This sober have it,...
Kath? Can I tell you a truth about enabling? We stay sick many of us out of a sense of guilt. Its like? If we had been better? Done better? Said the right...
"rhonda" I am always busy....not letting life get me down....not living in the past...accepting people for how they are and only trying to change me...not...
But what we owe others, I terminate when I think? of all the awful it took to get to today. I want to just say howdy and walk away fron this and I cant and I...
Hey Cheff....I know what the frustration you feel when a meeting has changed or in my opinion "gone bad". Well...bad for me. It's hard to give up and it's...
Hi Rhonda. I think my enabling of my sister was by ....mostly tip toeing around her "moods and instabilities". Over the last year I've tried to tell her she...
You are in my prayers Rhonda. I'm not sure where this came from or if it is truly an attack....or I'm missing something. We are all here for eachother. Lets...