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#1757 From: anencephaly@yahoogroups.com
Date: Sun Oct 2, 2005 6:02 am
Subject: Reminder - danielle left for heaven 		anencephaly@yahoogroups.com
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We would like to remind you of this upcoming event.

danielle left for heaven

Date: Sunday, October 2, 2005
Time: 2:00PM EDT (GMT-04:00)

danielle's 2nd year up in heaven

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#1756 From: jessica cottrill <matsgirl19@...>
Date: Sat Oct 1, 2005 6:09 am
Subject: Re: Molly 		matsgirl19
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Did they say they wouldn't give you another one? Thats odd. You should ask them if maybe you could scehdule you one sooner, so your not so freaked out about it, I'd go nuts on them!!
 
I'm having a hard enough time making to 12 weeks to find out. I'll be 10 weeks on Monday, and when they did the ultrasound before, I was 7wks 1day. They couldn't see anything much more then a lump with a heartbeaat..... or at least thats what I saw LOL
 
Heres to the beans, may they be healthy, with lotsa hair.... or at least really cute and bald :D
 


Jessa
AHC Faith 2/25/05, Anencephaly
Payton 9/7/03
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#1755 From: Marie Blair <peaches03292000@...>
Date: Sat Oct 1, 2005 12:12 am
Subject: Re: The Silence of A Child 		peaches03292000
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This is very sweet. Thank you for sharing.  My aunt read a poem at my Brianna's funeral.  I thought I would share it with you

The Tiny “Rosebud” God Picked to

Bloom in Heaven

 

 

The Master Gardener

From Heaven above

Planted a seed

In the garden of love

And from it there grew

A rosebud small

That never had time

To open at all,

For God in His perfect

And all-wise way

Chose this rose

For His heavenly bouquet

And great was the joy

Of this tiny rose

To be the one our Father chose

To leave earth’s garden

For One on high

Where roses bloom always

And never die…

So, while you can’t see

Your precious rose bloom,

You know the Great Gardener

From the “Upper Room”

Is watching and tending

This wee rose with care,

Tenderly touching

Each petal so fair…

So think of your darling

With the angels above

Secure and contended

And surrounded by love,

And remember God blessed

And enriched your lives, too,

For in dying your darling

Brought Heaven closer to you!


Edward <edmollyrex@...> wrote:
This is a poem that one of my sisters sent to me to have read at
Treil's memorial services on Aug. 20. It is sad but touching.

The Silence of A Child

The gift of a childs love,
is that of one of a kind.
The gentleness of a childs touch,
is the wonder of our remind.
The voice of a child speeking,
is the sound of joy to us.
The beating of a childs heart,
made from love that day was.
The precious times we had shared,
from the life that was created.
Has been saddened of your departure,
the which we never anticipated.
The dreams of a new child,
we are left wondering what to do.
With a child we were blessed,
though taken when just a new.
Now we turn to our lord,
as we pray with saddened hearts.
We ask you to watch over our little one,
as their new journey starts.
It's time for you to rest now,
your job here on earth is done.
Forever in our hearts,
you were the chosen one.
Flown to heaven yet so free,
the innocence of a dove.
When we are missing you,
we will look to up above.




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#1754 From: Marie Blair <peaches03292000@...>
Date: Sat Oct 1, 2005 12:04 am
Subject: Re: Re: July 28 		peaches03292000
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Molly,
I am glad that you have found the group helpful and uplifting.  I am always here.
 
Thinking of you and your angel
Marie


Edward <edmollyrex@...> wrote:
Thank you Marie I need all the hugs that I can get. I do have other
dates that are associated with my sons birthday. I have a nephew that
his birthday is March 26 and the fact that my son was born on Easter.
Also thank you and all the others for being there for me. I told my
mom about this message bord and how that some of the moms on this
site have gone on to have healthy babys after loosing one. This helps
to easy my worries of it happening again.
Molly








--- In anencephaly@yahoogroups.com, Marie Blair
<peaches03292000@y...> wrote:
> Molly,
> Big hugs your way in regards to your pregnancy.  Anniversaries of
certain dates are always hard.  I have the one with my birthday and
my due date and then when my Brianna was actually born on March 17. 
That is St. Patricl's Day.  I look at that holiday differently now.
Also my nephew's birthday is on March 18.  I try to be happy for my
nephew on his birthday. Anyway, thank you so much for sending me a
message.  It means a lot to have others to talk with and we really
dont post as much as we used to here in this group.  I am always here
when you need to talk.
> 
> Marie
>
> Edward <edmollyrex@h...> wrote:
> Marie,
> Looking back through the messages I found this one. I have to say I
> fill the same way. You see my birthday is April 2 and my son was
born
> on March 27. That is only about 5 or 6 days before my birthday. I
> know this is going to be a hard thing to handle and it has been.
Now
> I find out that I am pregnet again and I am due on April 18. I pray
> that this one DOES NOT come on March 27. What is bad is my due date
> with Leo was Aug. 11 on Aug. 12 is when I took the home pregnetcey
> test and found out that I was pregnet again. That was a bitter
sweet
> day. I to think about what my son would be like today what he would
> be doing what sound that he would be making. It makes me smile
> thinking that he is up in heaven playing with his new best
> friend/cousin Trail.
>
> Leo's mom, Trail's aunt, and soon to be mom again Molly
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
> --- In anencephaly@yahoogroups.com, "Marie Blair"
> <peaches03292000@y...> wrote:
> > Hello everyone.  I just thought I would send a little post.  I
did
> > not get to post yesterday but yesterday was July 28. July 28,
2003
> > was my due date with Brianna.  Well I induced back in March of
that
> > year (still mixed feelings on this).  Oh how I wish I was
planning
> a
> > birthday party for a little girl turning 2. (ok I just
unexpectedly
> > teard up) *choke*  July 31 is my birthday.  When I first found
out
> > my due date I remember saying "oh that wouold really suck if I
was
> > in labor on my birthday."  Now I would give anything to be
sharing
> > my birthday with my daughter.  How can someone be so
emototionally
> > attached to someone they barely know and only seen for such a
short
> > time----only a mother.  I feel so empty inside and I think I will
> > bare that feeling everyday for the rest of my life.  I have not
> ever
> > really made a big deal about my birthday but as anyone I like to
> > acknowledge my day.  When my birthday rolled around in 2003 my
mil
> > wanted to have a get together for me and practically begged me. 
I
> > stood my ground and told her that I could not do it especially
that
> > year. 
> >
> > I cant find any other words at the
> moment............................
> > .................
> >
> > I celebrate her birthday the day she was born(March 17) but I
cant
> > stand the fact that she is supposed to be here with me right now
> > telling me all about her birthday party. 
> >
> > Well, I sit here now with a smile on my face wanting to tear up
> > again but I just keep picturing how she would look and I cant
help
> > but smile.
> >
> > Marie
>
>
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#1753 From: "Edward" <edmollyrex@...>
Date: Fri Sep 30, 2005 9:49 pm
Subject: Re: July 28 		cyedragon
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Thank you Marie I need all the hugs that I can get. I do have other
dates that are associated with my sons birthday. I have a nephew that
his birthday is March 26 and the fact that my son was born on Easter.
Also thank you and all the others for being there for me. I told my
mom about this message bord and how that some of the moms on this
site have gone on to have healthy babys after loosing one. This helps
to easy my worries of it happening again.
  Molly








--- In anencephaly@yahoogroups.com, Marie Blair
<peaches03292000@y...> wrote:
> Molly,
> Big hugs your way in regards to your pregnancy.  Anniversaries of
certain dates are always hard.  I have the one with my birthday and
my due date and then when my Brianna was actually born on March 17.
That is St. Patricl's Day.  I look at that holiday differently now.
Also my nephew's birthday is on March 18.  I try to be happy for my
nephew on his birthday. Anyway, thank you so much for sending me a
message.  It means a lot to have others to talk with and we really
dont post as much as we used to here in this group.  I am always here
when you need to talk.
>
> Marie
>
> Edward <edmollyrex@h...> wrote:
> Marie,
> Looking back through the messages I found this one. I have to say I
> fill the same way. You see my birthday is April 2 and my son was
born
> on March 27. That is only about 5 or 6 days before my birthday. I
> know this is going to be a hard thing to handle and it has been.
Now
> I find out that I am pregnet again and I am due on April 18. I pray
> that this one DOES NOT come on March 27. What is bad is my due date
> with Leo was Aug. 11 on Aug. 12 is when I took the home pregnetcey
> test and found out that I was pregnet again. That was a bitter
sweet
> day. I to think about what my son would be like today what he would
> be doing what sound that he would be making. It makes me smile
> thinking that he is up in heaven playing with his new best
> friend/cousin Trail.
>
> Leo's mom, Trail's aunt, and soon to be mom again Molly
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
> --- In anencephaly@yahoogroups.com, "Marie Blair"
> <peaches03292000@y...> wrote:
> > Hello everyone.  I just thought I would send a little post.  I
did
> > not get to post yesterday but yesterday was July 28. July 28,
2003
> > was my due date with Brianna.  Well I induced back in March of
that
> > year (still mixed feelings on this).  Oh how I wish I was
planning
> a
> > birthday party for a little girl turning 2. (ok I just
unexpectedly
> > teard up) *choke*  July 31 is my birthday.  When I first found
out
> > my due date I remember saying "oh that wouold really suck if I
was
> > in labor on my birthday."  Now I would give anything to be
sharing
> > my birthday with my daughter.  How can someone be so
emototionally
> > attached to someone they barely know and only seen for such a
short
> > time----only a mother.  I feel so empty inside and I think I will
> > bare that feeling everyday for the rest of my life.  I have not
> ever
> > really made a big deal about my birthday but as anyone I like to
> > acknowledge my day.  When my birthday rolled around in 2003 my
mil
> > wanted to have a get together for me and practically begged me.
I
> > stood my ground and told her that I could not do it especially
that
> > year.
> >
> > I cant find any other words at the
> moment............................
> > .................
> >
> > I celebrate her birthday the day she was born(March 17) but I
cant
> > stand the fact that she is supposed to be here with me right now
> > telling me all about her birthday party.
> >
> > Well, I sit here now with a smile on my face wanting to tear up
> > again but I just keep picturing how she would look and I cant
help
> > but smile.
> >
> > Marie
>
>
>
>
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#1752 From: Marie Blair <peaches03292000@...>
Date: Fri Sep 30, 2005 8:59 pm
Subject: Re: Re: July 28 		peaches03292000
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Molly,
Big hugs your way in regards to your pregnancy.  Anniversaries of certain dates are always hard.  I have the one with my birthday and my due date and then when my Brianna was actually born on March 17.  That is St. Patricl's Day.  I look at that holiday differently now. Also my nephew's birthday is on March 18.  I try to be happy for my nephew on his birthday. Anyway, thank you so much for sending me a message.  It means a lot to have others to talk with and we really dont post as much as we used to here in this group.  I am always here when you need to talk.
 
Marie

Edward <edmollyrex@...> wrote:
Marie,
Looking back through the messages I found this one. I have to say I
fill the same way. You see my birthday is April 2 and my son was born
on March 27. That is only about 5 or 6 days before my birthday. I
know this is going to be a hard thing to handle and it has been. Now
I find out that I am pregnet again and I am due on April 18. I pray
that this one DOES NOT come on March 27. What is bad is my due date
with Leo was Aug. 11 on Aug. 12 is when I took the home pregnetcey
test and found out that I was pregnet again. That was a bitter sweet
day. I to think about what my son would be like today what he would
be doing what sound that he would be making. It makes me smile
thinking that he is up in heaven playing with his new best
friend/cousin Trail.

Leo's mom, Trail's aunt, and soon to be mom again Molly















--- In anencephaly@yahoogroups.com, "Marie Blair"
<peaches03292000@y...> wrote:
> Hello everyone.  I just thought I would send a little post.  I did
> not get to post yesterday but yesterday was July 28. July 28, 2003
> was my due date with Brianna.  Well I induced back in March of that
> year (still mixed feelings on this).  Oh how I wish I was planning
a
> birthday party for a little girl turning 2. (ok I just unexpectedly
> teard up) *choke*  July 31 is my birthday.  When I first found out
> my due date I remember saying "oh that wouold really suck if I was
> in labor on my birthday."  Now I would give anything to be sharing
> my birthday with my daughter.  How can someone be so emototionally
> attached to someone they barely know and only seen for such a short
> time----only a mother.  I feel so empty inside and I think I will
> bare that feeling everyday for the rest of my life.  I have not
ever
> really made a big deal about my birthday but as anyone I like to
> acknowledge my day.  When my birthday rolled around in 2003 my mil
> wanted to have a get together for me and practically begged me.  I
> stood my ground and told her that I could not do it especially that
> year. 
>
> I cant find any other words at the
moment............................
> .................
>
> I celebrate her birthday the day she was born(March 17) but I cant
> stand the fact that she is supposed to be here with me right now
> telling me all about her birthday party. 
>
> Well, I sit here now with a smile on my face wanting to tear up
> again but I just keep picturing how she would look and I cant help
> but smile.
>
> Marie


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#1751 From: "Edward" <edmollyrex@...>
Date: Fri Sep 30, 2005 8:51 pm
Subject: Re: July 28 		cyedragon
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Marie,
  Looking back through the messages I found this one. I have to say I
fill the same way. You see my birthday is April 2 and my son was born
on March 27. That is only about 5 or 6 days before my birthday. I
know this is going to be a hard thing to handle and it has been. Now
I find out that I am pregnet again and I am due on April 18. I pray
that this one DOES NOT come on March 27. What is bad is my due date
with Leo was Aug. 11 on Aug. 12 is when I took the home pregnetcey
test and found out that I was pregnet again. That was a bitter sweet
day. I to think about what my son would be like today what he would
be doing what sound that he would be making. It makes me smile
thinking that he is up in heaven playing with his new best
friend/cousin Trail.

Leo's mom, Trail's aunt, and soon to be mom again Molly















--- In anencephaly@yahoogroups.com, "Marie Blair"
<peaches03292000@y...> wrote:
> Hello everyone.  I just thought I would send a little post.  I did
> not get to post yesterday but yesterday was July 28. July 28, 2003
> was my due date with Brianna.  Well I induced back in March of that
> year (still mixed feelings on this).  Oh how I wish I was planning
a
> birthday party for a little girl turning 2. (ok I just unexpectedly
> teard up) *choke*  July 31 is my birthday.  When I first found out
> my due date I remember saying "oh that wouold really suck if I was
> in labor on my birthday."  Now I would give anything to be sharing
> my birthday with my daughter.  How can someone be so emototionally
> attached to someone they barely know and only seen for such a short
> time----only a mother.  I feel so empty inside and I think I will
> bare that feeling everyday for the rest of my life.  I have not
ever
> really made a big deal about my birthday but as anyone I like to
> acknowledge my day.  When my birthday rolled around in 2003 my mil
> wanted to have a get together for me and practically begged me.  I
> stood my ground and told her that I could not do it especially that
> year.
>
> I cant find any other words at the
moment............................
> .................
>
> I celebrate her birthday the day she was born(March 17) but I cant
> stand the fact that she is supposed to be here with me right now
> telling me all about her birthday party.
>
> Well, I sit here now with a smile on my face wanting to tear up
> again but I just keep picturing how she would look and I cant help
> but smile.
>
> Marie

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#1750 From: jo falor <poohqabear@...>
Date: Fri Sep 30, 2005 7:57 pm
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I hope everything goes very well it is so good to see happiness  in the anencephaly even though there is a lot of sadness but my baby is 4 months old i have a 2 year also after my anencephaly angel she would be 4 in feburary then i have a five year old after Danielle they told me to take folic acid and that i think is a life saver hope everything goes well good luck Joann Danielle's mommy

Edward <edmollyrex@...> wrote:
Jessica,
congratulations! I hope and pray that every thing goes well for you
and your baby(lima bean). I like that nick name. With my little jelly
bean when they did the ulta sound I was only 8 weeks and 2 days. All
they could see for the head was that it was starting to curve the
full skull and brain had not finnished developing. From what I know
the skull and brain are sill developing. My dr said that I will not
need a nother ultra sound till I am 16-20 weeks. I would like one
every time till I know that the baby is not anencephaly. I pray every
night that jelly bean will be fine. I will pray for you and your lima
bean that evry thing goes well.

Leo's mom Molly









--- In anencephaly@yahoogroups.com, jessica cottrill
<matsgirl19@y...> wrote:
>
> Molly,
>
> I just found out I'm pregnant too. My first doctor's appointment
was today. We did do an ultrasound, because I have PCOS as well as
everything else going on, so the only way to tell how far along I am
is through an ultrasound. My little lima bean was to small to see
anything really, except for a strong heartbeat. My doctor told me
that the chances of this baby having anencephaly were accutally lower
then the chance Faith had. It helps that I have had a healthy child
before I lost Faith. I was told that its a 1 in 100 chance to have
another baby with it. Taking the 4mg of FA reduced that chance by
75%, leaving a .25% chance of the baby having it. I know its a tiny
number, but I still worry. I'm being sent to a speaclist at 12 ( I'm
7weeks right now.) for a full Level 2 ultrasound to check everything
they can. Heres to two healthy babies come April and May next year!
>
> Jessa
>
> Payton 9/3/05
> Faith 2/25/05
> Lima bean EDD 5/7/06
>
>
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#1749 From: "Edward" <edmollyrex@...>
Date: Fri Sep 30, 2005 7:53 pm
Subject: The Silence of A Child 		cyedragon
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This is a poem that one of my sisters sent to me to have read at
Treil's memorial services on Aug. 20. It is sad but touching.

The Silence of A Child

The gift of a childs love,
is that of one of a kind.
The gentleness of a childs touch,
is the wonder of our remind.
The voice of a child speeking,
is the sound of joy to us.
The beating of a childs heart,
made from love that day was.
The precious times we had shared,
from the life that was created.
Has been saddened of your departure,
the which we never anticipated.
The dreams of a new child,
we are left wondering what to do.
With a child we were blessed,
though taken when just a new.
Now we turn to our lord,
as we pray with saddened hearts.
We ask you to watch over our little one,
as their new journey starts.
It's time for you to rest now,
your job here on earth is done.
Forever in our hearts,
you were the chosen one.
Flown to heaven yet so free,
the innocence of a dove.
When we are missing you,
we will look to up above.

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#1748 From: "Edward" <edmollyrex@...>
Date: Fri Sep 30, 2005 7:28 pm
Subject: Re: good news 		cyedragon
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Jessica,
  congratulations! I hope and pray that every thing goes well for you
and your baby(lima bean). I like that nick name. With my little jelly
bean when they did the ulta sound I was only 8 weeks and 2 days. All
they could see for the head was that it was starting to curve the
full skull and brain had not finnished developing. From what I know
the skull and brain are sill developing. My dr said that I will not
need a nother ultra sound till I am 16-20 weeks. I would like one
every time till I know that the baby is not anencephaly. I pray every
night that jelly bean will be fine. I will pray for you and your lima
bean that evry thing goes well.

Leo's mom Molly









--- In anencephaly@yahoogroups.com, jessica cottrill
<matsgirl19@y...> wrote:
>
> Molly,
>
> I just found out I'm pregnant too. My first doctor's appointment
was today. We did do an ultrasound, because I have PCOS as well as
everything else going on, so the only way to tell how far along I am
is through an ultrasound. My little lima bean was to small to see
anything really, except for a strong heartbeat. My doctor told me
that the chances of this baby having anencephaly were accutally lower
then the chance Faith had. It helps that I have had a healthy child
before I lost Faith. I was told that its a 1 in 100 chance to have
another baby with it. Taking the 4mg of FA reduced that chance by
75%, leaving a .25% chance of the baby having it. I know its a tiny
number, but I still worry. I'm being sent to a speaclist at 12 ( I'm
7weeks right now.) for a full Level 2 ultrasound to check everything
they can. Heres to two healthy babies come April and May next year!
>
> Jessa
>
> Payton 9/3/05
> Faith 2/25/05
> Lima bean EDD 5/7/06
>
>
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#1747 From: Marie Blair <peaches03292000@...>
Date: Thu Sep 29, 2005 4:33 pm
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Ashley,
You have truly been through a lot.  I am sorry about your home.  Like you said, today is a new day.  I am glad that you are safe.  As for your Jacob, he was ready to go to Heaven.  Thinking of you and your angel, now and always
Marie

Ashley James <cosmoash84@...> wrote:
thank you so much for writing back it means so much to me. We also were told that Jacob would prob be overdue, but for some reason he was ready to go to heaven. I think this was god's will because i lived in stbernard parish louisana, and we evacuated for katrina and my house was completely destroyed, then we relocated to tomball texas, an rita hit so we evauated again after 30 hours of traffic we finally made it to slidell lousiana. when we got there my water broke. i left the hospital today , and have put on my folic acid so after a few months of grieving and taking the vitamins i think we'll try again, so please keep us in your prayers. Thanks agaim . today is a new day.  Jacob's mom and dad Ashley and Matthew

Marie Blair <peaches03292000@...> wrote:
Oh Ashely,
Jacob sounds lovely.  I am so sorry you had to experience having him this way.  Jacob is the name of my cousin's little boy and I have a Matthew.  So I love the name.  Most of what I have heard or read about those who carry to term, they are more apt to be overdue.  Hmm.  I am always here to talk or when you want someone to cry withor  when you feel like you can or that you need to. 
 
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Ashley James <cosmoash84@...> wrote:
hello everyone its me Ashley James Dier. i just wanted everyone to know that at 2:15 this morning I gave birth to the world's newest angel Jacob Matthew Dier. He weighed 3 lbs 1 oz , and was 14 inches long. Unfortunately he was stillborn, but everybit of the miracle I had hoped. My water bag broke at 5:00 pm on September 27,2005. After a long 37 weeks of pregnancy. It was time. about 30 hours later I he was here. I just wanted to tell everyone that he is in heaven now , and just needed some one to talk to. Thanks you guys, Ashley James Dier. Jacob's mom.

jessica cottrill <matsgirl19@...> wrote:

Molly,

I just found out I'm pregnant too. My first doctor's appointment was today. We did do an ultrasound, because I have PCOS as well as everything else going on, so the only way to tell how far along I am is through an ultrasound. My little lima bean was to small to see anything really, except for a strong heartbeat. My doctor told me that the chances of this baby having anencephaly were accutally lower then the chance Faith had. It helps that I have had a healthy child before I lost Faith. I was told that its a 1 in 100 chance to have another baby with it. Taking the 4mg of FA reduced that chance by 75%, leaving a .25% chance of the baby having it. I know its a tiny number, but I still worry. I'm being sent to a speaclist at 12 ( I'm 7weeks right now.) for a full Level 2 ultrasound to check everything they can. Heres to two healthy babies come April and May next year!

Jessa

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#1746 From: Ashley James <cosmoash84@...>
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thank you so much for writing back it means so much to me. We also were told that Jacob would prob be overdue, but for some reason he was ready to go to heaven. I think this was god's will because i lived in stbernard parish louisana, and we evacuated for katrina and my house was completely destroyed, then we relocated to tomball texas, an rita hit so we evauated again after 30 hours of traffic we finally made it to slidell lousiana. when we got there my water broke. i left the hospital today , and have put on my folic acid so after a few months of grieving and taking the vitamins i think we'll try again, so please keep us in your prayers. Thanks agaim . today is a new day.  Jacob's mom and dad Ashley and Matthew

Marie Blair <peaches03292000@...> wrote:
Oh Ashely,
Jacob sounds lovely.  I am so sorry you had to experience having him this way.  Jacob is the name of my cousin's little boy and I have a Matthew.  So I love the name.  Most of what I have heard or read about those who carry to term, they are more apt to be overdue.  Hmm.  I am always here to talk or when you want someone to cry withor  when you feel like you can or that you need to. 
 
Big hugs
Marie
 


Ashley James <cosmoash84@...> wrote:
hello everyone its me Ashley James Dier. i just wanted everyone to know that at 2:15 this morning I gave birth to the world's newest angel Jacob Matthew Dier. He weighed 3 lbs 1 oz , and was 14 inches long. Unfortunately he was stillborn, but everybit of the miracle I had hoped. My water bag broke at 5:00 pm on September 27,2005. After a long 37 weeks of pregnancy. It was time. about 30 hours later I he was here. I just wanted to tell everyone that he is in heaven now , and just needed some one to talk to. Thanks you guys, Ashley James Dier. Jacob's mom.

jessica cottrill <matsgirl19@...> wrote:

Molly,

I just found out I'm pregnant too. My first doctor's appointment was today. We did do an ultrasound, because I have PCOS as well as everything else going on, so the only way to tell how far along I am is through an ultrasound. My little lima bean was to small to see anything really, except for a strong heartbeat. My doctor told me that the chances of this baby having anencephaly were accutally lower then the chance Faith had. It helps that I have had a healthy child before I lost Faith. I was told that its a 1 in 100 chance to have another baby with it. Taking the 4mg of FA reduced that chance by 75%, leaving a .25% chance of the baby having it. I know its a tiny number, but I still worry. I'm being sent to a speaclist at 12 ( I'm 7weeks right now.) for a full Level 2 ultrasound to check everything they can. Heres to two healthy babies come April and May next year!

Jessa

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Faith 2/25/05
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#1745 From: David and Sabrina Tyndall <tyndall@...>
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Ashley -

I just read your message and my heart breaks for you.  I'm so sorry that you had to go through this as well.  I also went full-term with my Sarah, and it was truly bittersweet.  All I can say is to let the tears flow when they will, write when you need someone to talk with and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. 

Take care of yourself (and if you haven't heard this, when/if your milk comes in, cold cabbage leaves or frozen peas in small ziplock bags in your bra will help relieve the pressure - a girlfriend shared that with me when I became engorged and it was truly a life-saver).

Sabrina
Mommy to Matthew, Sarah in heaven, and Emma

Ashley James wrote:
hello everyone its me Ashley James Dier. i just wanted everyone to know that at 2:15 this morning I gave birth to the world's newest angel Jacob Matthew Dier. He weighed 3 lbs 1 oz , and was 14 inches long. Unfortunately he was stillborn, but everybit of the miracle I had hoped. My water bag broke at 5:00 pm on September 27,2005. After a long 37 weeks of pregnancy. It was time. about 30 hours later I he was here. I just wanted to tell everyone that he is in heaven now , and just needed some one to talk to. Thanks you guys, Ashley James Dier. Jacob's mom.



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Oh Ashely,
Jacob sounds lovely.  I am so sorry you had to experience having him this way.  Jacob is the name of my cousin's little boy and I have a Matthew.  So I love the name.  Most of what I have heard or read about those who carry to term, they are more apt to be overdue.  Hmm.  I am always here to talk or when you want someone to cry withor  when you feel like you can or that you need to. 
 
Big hugs
Marie
 
 

Ashley James <cosmoash84@...> wrote:
hello everyone its me Ashley James Dier. i just wanted everyone to know that at 2:15 this morning I gave birth to the world's newest angel Jacob Matthew Dier. He weighed 3 lbs 1 oz , and was 14 inches long. Unfortunately he was stillborn, but everybit of the miracle I had hoped. My water bag broke at 5:00 pm on September 27,2005. After a long 37 weeks of pregnancy. It was time. about 30 hours later I he was here. I just wanted to tell everyone that he is in heaven now , and just needed some one to talk to. Thanks you guys, Ashley James Dier. Jacob's mom.

jessica cottrill <matsgirl19@...> wrote:

Molly,

I just found out I'm pregnant too. My first doctor's appointment was today. We did do an ultrasound, because I have PCOS as well as everything else going on, so the only way to tell how far along I am is through an ultrasound. My little lima bean was to small to see anything really, except for a strong heartbeat. My doctor told me that the chances of this baby having anencephaly were accutally lower then the chance Faith had. It helps that I have had a healthy child before I lost Faith. I was told that its a 1 in 100 chance to have another baby with it. Taking the 4mg of FA reduced that chance by 75%, leaving a .25% chance of the baby having it. I know its a tiny number, but I still worry. I'm being sent to a speaclist at 12 ( I'm 7weeks right now.) for a full Level 2 ultrasound to check everything they can. Heres to two healthy babies come April and May next year!

Jessa

Payton 9/3/05
Faith 2/25/05
Lima bean EDD 5/7/06

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hello everyone its me Ashley James Dier. i just wanted everyone to know that at 2:15 this morning I gave birth to the world's newest angel Jacob Matthew Dier. He weighed 3 lbs 1 oz , and was 14 inches long. Unfortunately he was stillborn, but everybit of the miracle I had hoped. My water bag broke at 5:00 pm on September 27,2005. After a long 37 weeks of pregnancy. It was time. about 30 hours later I he was here. I just wanted to tell everyone that he is in heaven now , and just needed some one to talk to. Thanks you guys, Ashley James Dier. Jacob's mom.

jessica cottrill <matsgirl19@...> wrote:

Molly,

I just found out I'm pregnant too. My first doctor's appointment was today. We did do an ultrasound, because I have PCOS as well as everything else going on, so the only way to tell how far along I am is through an ultrasound. My little lima bean was to small to see anything really, except for a strong heartbeat. My doctor told me that the chances of this baby having anencephaly were accutally lower then the chance Faith had. It helps that I have had a healthy child before I lost Faith. I was told that its a 1 in 100 chance to have another baby with it. Taking the 4mg of FA reduced that chance by 75%, leaving a .25% chance of the baby having it. I know its a tiny number, but I still worry. I'm being sent to a speaclist at 12 ( I'm 7weeks right now.) for a full Level 2 ultrasound to check everything they can. Heres to two healthy babies come April and May next year!

Jessa

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#1742 From: Angel's mommy <angelmomlovesangel@...>
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I too have had a baby after I lost my Angel. He is now four and a half. I was so scared during his pregnancy. I had six ultrasounds with him, last one just for fun. I do understand your fears and they are very valid. We all kow the pain when the results come back that something is wrong. I took folic acid before I got pregnant and for like three months after I found out I was pregnant. My blood pressure was high until I was like five months along, but I never felt ok that he was ok until I held him in my arms. That was one of the reasons my doctor ordered another ultrasound so I could see again for myself that he was healthy. So my advice to you is listen to your doctor, don't stress,(because that was no fun), and try to enjoy this pregnancy.
 
Angel's mommy

I went to the doc on 9/8 and found out that I am 2 months pregnant. I
hope every thing goes well and I do not have a problem with this one.
I am realy scared that something will happen. The doc said that from
what she can tell from the ultra sound that the baby's head looks how
it should, but I still wory. On my first ulra sound with Leo he would
not stay still for them to get a good look at him. So I can not go
back to his ultra sound to see if there is a diffrence. Oh this baby
is going to be a ham for the camra the baby let the doc take as many
pitcher as she wanted to. My doc told me I can stop taking the fulic
acid, but from evey thing I have read that it is best to take it for
the first 3 months. This worys me because what if she did notce
something and is afraid to tell me in case she is wrong. Do you think
I should wory? I pray for jelly bean (my baby) every night that
nothing will go wrong. I will be happy in about 7 months when I am
taking home a happy healthey baby. Any advice from those of you that
have had a baby after loosing one that may help with the woring or any
thing elce. Any advice would be helpful.
Leo's mom Molly


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#1741 From: jessica cottrill <matsgirl19@...>
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Molly,

I just found out I'm pregnant too. My first doctor's appointment was today. We did do an ultrasound, because I have PCOS as well as everything else going on, so the only way to tell how far along I am is through an ultrasound. My little lima bean was to small to see anything really, except for a strong heartbeat. My doctor told me that the chances of this baby having anencephaly were accutally lower then the chance Faith had. It helps that I have had a healthy child before I lost Faith. I was told that its a 1 in 100 chance to have another baby with it. Taking the 4mg of FA reduced that chance by 75%, leaving a .25% chance of the baby having it. I know its a tiny number, but I still worry. I'm being sent to a speaclist at 12 ( I'm 7weeks right now.) for a full Level 2 ultrasound to check everything they can. Heres to two healthy babies come April and May next year!

Jessa

Payton 9/3/05
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#1740 From: Marie Blair <peaches03292000@...>
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Molly,
Congratulations!!!!  You should not have any problems this time around but I know your worries.  It would not hurt to keep taking your folic acid.  As far as I know it does not have any effect on the spinal cord after the first two weeks but I took it well therough my pregnancy after I lost Brianna to anencephaly.  I wish you all the best and I will be thinking of you
 
Marie

Edward <edmollyrex@...> wrote:
I went to the doc on 9/8 and found out that I am 2 months pregnant. I
hope every thing goes well and I do not have a problem with this one.
I am realy scared that something will happen. The doc said that from
what she can tell from the ultra sound that the baby's head looks how
it should, but I still wory. On my first ulra sound with Leo he would
not stay still for them to get a good look at him. So I can not go
back to his ultra sound to see if there is a diffrence. Oh this baby
is going to be a ham for the camra the baby let the doc take as many
pitcher as she wanted to. My doc told me I can stop taking the fulic
acid, but from evey thing I have read that it is best to take it for
the first 3 months. This worys me because what if she did notce
something and is afraid to tell me in case she is wrong. Do you think
I should wory? I pray for jelly bean (my baby) every night that
nothing will go wrong. I will be happy in about 7 months when I am
taking home a happy healthey baby. Any advice from those of you that
have had a baby after loosing one that may help with the woring or any
thing elce. Any advice would be helpful.
Leo's mom Molly


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#1739 From: David and Sabrina Tyndall <tyndall@...>
Date: Tue Sep 13, 2005 12:07 pm
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Molly -

Congratulations on your pregnancy!  Hi - My name is Sabrina and my
middle child was born with anencephaly.  My youngest girl is now 2 years
old and is a happy, healthy, thriving child.  I was much relieved after
my first ultrasound (which was at 10-11 weeks) - my doctor was also able
to point out the head/skull and do some other measurements which were
able to rule out anencephaly.  If they were able to see the entire head,
I'm thinking that's pretty definite because the head/skull would not be
fully formed if the baby had anencephaly.

I had a second (level 2) ultrasound at 20 weeks in which they were also
able to see the spine (to rule out spina bifida) and took other
measurements, which was even more reassuring.  I also took the extra
folic acid at least halfway through my pregnancy - I don't remember my
doctors saying to stop it until after that second ultrasound.  I think
it was psychologically a benefit for me because I felt like it was the
one thing I could do to help make sure she was healthy - the good news
is that folic acid is a water-soluble vitamin, meaning that what your
body doesn't need, it just expels.  So I don't think it hurts.  Most
doctors will give you the news straight, but you could always ask
point-blank - are they sharing everything they know?

All through that pregnancy, I just prayed a lot and kept telling myself
to relax and not worry - I didn't want my stress to affect the baby
either.  I never got around to it, but some of the pregnancy journals
they have out now (I've seen them at Target and Hallmark) might help if
you are one who likes to write.

Best wishes for a healthy pregnancy and feel free to email me if you
need a listening ear.

Sabrina
Mom to Matthew, Sarah in heaven (Jan 2002), and Emma


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> I went to the doc on 9/8 and found out that I am 2 months pregnant. I
>hope every thing goes well and I do not have a problem with this one.
>I am realy scared that something will happen. The doc said that from
>what she can tell from the ultra sound that the baby's head looks how
>it should, but I still wory. On my first ulra sound with Leo he would
>not stay still for them to get a good look at him. So I can not go
>back to his ultra sound to see if there is a diffrence. Oh this baby
>is going to be a ham for the camra the baby let the doc take as many
>pitcher as she wanted to. My doc told me I can stop taking the fulic
>acid, but from evey thing I have read that it is best to take it for
>the first 3 months. This worys me because what if she did notce
>something and is afraid to tell me in case she is wrong. Do you think
>I should wory? I pray for jelly bean (my baby) every night that
>nothing will go wrong. I will be happy in about 7 months when I am
>taking home a happy healthey baby. Any advice from those of you that
>have had a baby after loosing one that may help with the woring or any
>thing elce. Any advice would be helpful.
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#1738 From: "Edward" <edmollyrex@...>
Date: Tue Sep 13, 2005 6:37 am
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I went to the doc on 9/8 and found out that I am 2 months pregnant. I
hope every thing goes well and I do not have a problem with this one.
I am realy scared that something will happen. The doc said that from
what she can tell from the ultra sound that the baby's head looks how
it should, but I still wory. On my first ulra sound with Leo he would
not stay still for them to get a good look at him. So I can not go
back to his ultra sound to see if there is a diffrence. Oh this baby
is going to be a ham for the camra the baby let the doc take as many
pitcher as she wanted to. My doc told me I can stop taking the fulic
acid, but from evey thing I have read that it is best to take it for
the first 3 months. This worys me because what if she did notce
something and is afraid to tell me in case she is wrong. Do you think
I should wory? I pray for jelly bean (my baby) every night that
nothing will go wrong. I will be happy in about 7 months when I am
taking home a happy healthey baby. Any advice from those of you that
have had a baby after loosing one that may help with the woring or any
thing elce. Any advice would be helpful.
  Leo's mom Molly

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#1733 From: Marie Blair <peaches03292000@...>
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I think every child goes through the biting stage.  And if they dont then they know how it "feels".  Matthew went through this.  I think around the age of 2 1/2.  I dont recall for sure.  I just tried my best to react in a way that would get the message to him that it physically hurt me without yelling at him (which is an easy and obvious first reaction).  This stage did not last very long.  He was around other children like in daycare but at the time did not have any siblings (here on earth) so I dont know if that makes a difference or not.  Maybe its the jealousy thing with mommy that Madi is going through.  Hopefully it wont last long.  
 
Marie 

jo falor <poohqabear@...> wrote:
Madi is something else she tries to beat up poor little Meggan but Skylar my 4 year old who is going to be 5 on the 1st is mommies lil helper she does alot for meggan she wants to feed her and bathe her and just do what mommies do but Madi is into this bitting thing she left marks on skylar any help out there please love always joann Danielle mommy

Marie Blair <peaches03292000@...> wrote:
Wanting another one already....how sweet.  How is your two year old doing with Meggan?  I am sure she is in aww
 
Marie

jo falor <poohqabear@...> wrote:
I know but i was more like upset because this was the guy who was taking care of me when i was preg.. with Meggan who is now 2 months old i dont like to sound rude but meggan is getting to big already she is 2 months old and i am already thinking man i want anther one... but i am proof that you can have a heathly child i had two madi is now 2 but the whole time i was taking vicodin cause the doctor me that would take care of my head aches thanks for caring so much

Marie Blair <peaches03292000@...> wrote:
I agree!!!  It is one thing to not know what to say to someone that has lost but dang you should know what NOT to say or even think for that matter.  I am so mad for you on this.  YOU know how many children you have and I guess sometimes that is all that matters in these situations.
 
Much Love
Marie

kim flathers <sgttibbs96@...> wrote:
Joann, that's when you should have told your doctor "oh let me rip your heart out of your chest and see how well you just get over it!"
 
I am so sorry some people are just plain rude. They need to take the time to understand how you feel. They may never fully understand but at least maybe they would be more considerate.
 
Much Love to you and yours,
 
Kimberly

jo falor <poohqabear@...> wrote:
Hello how is everyone doing i went to my doctors for my six week check i am getting my tubes tied well my doctor asked me how many children i have i said three at home and one who was up in heaven well he looked at me and said you have to get over that child i wanted to look at him and said how can i get over her i can never get over her i love my Danielle i dont want to get over her what should i do thanks again joann danielle's mommie she would be 3 years old i dont cry every day just somedays are harder then others but it isnt like one day i can wake up and say oh i can just go on like i never went through that i miss her and love her

kim flathers <sgttibbs96@...> wrote:
This is Marie's cousin Kimberly.  I understand what you mean. About people pretending nothing happened. I guess one reason could be if they feel they don't bring it up you won't hurt as much.  But I think that when they don't bring it up it hurts worse. And then you have those who just don't understand. And don't know better.
 
 I never knew Brianna but before the ultrasound Marie and I talked to each others belly. So that's as close to her as I was able to get. But because she wasn't here with us like she should have been, doesn't make me love her less. I love her as much as I do Marie's boy's. I have a quilt I've been working on. ( ok ok yes Marie I have been working on it for a while but all I have left is the back!!!) It has all of  her children's intials on it. Matthew, Brianna and Andrew.  She has three children. When I get asked how many she has I tell them three. One just happens to be watching over her mommy. 
 
So for those who want to pretend that "it" never happened. Sorry but loosing a child you can't pretend it didn't happen. And that's just flat out rude and mean for someone to do that.
 
Love to you all,
 
Kimberly
 


Nikki Dobi <angelstephensmommy@...> wrote:
I hate it when people try to act like nothing happened!! It did happen! Im so sorry if I am not correct on this but I get the impression you mil tryes to pretend nothing happened. My little boy was born on March 17 2000 and earned his wings on March 18 2000 and my mil tries to do the same thing errrrrr I hate that! Like I said I am so sorry if Im wrong but I know some of you must know what I am talking about
Nikki
PS Happy Birthday Marie!! Mine is Aug 1 :D have a great day. I'll be thinking of you

Marie Blair <peaches03292000@...> wrote:
Hello everyone.  I just thought I would send a little post.  I did
not get to post yesterday but yesterday was July 28. July 28, 2003
was my due date with Brianna.  Well I induced back in March of that
year (still mixed feelings on this).  Oh how I wish I was planning a
birthday party for a little girl turning 2. (ok I just unexpectedly
teard up) *choke*  July 31 is my birthday.  When I first found out
my due date I remember saying "oh that wouold really suck if I was
in labor on my birthday."  Now I would give anything to be sharing
my birthday with my daughter.  How can someone be so emototionally
attached to someone they barely know and only seen for such a short
time----only a mother.  I feel so empty inside and I think I will
bare that feeling everyday for the rest of my life.  I have not ever
really made a big deal about my birthday but as anyone I like to
acknowledge my day.  When my birthday rolled around in 2003 my mil
wanted to have a get together for me and practically begged me.  I
stood my ground and told her that I could not do it especially that
year. 

I cant find any other words at the moment............................
.................

I celebrate her birthday the day she was born(March 17) but I cant
stand the fact that she is supposed to be here with me right now
telling me all about her birthday party. 

Well, I sit here now with a smile on my face wanting to tear up
again but I just keep picturing how she would look and I cant help
but smile.

Marie


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#1732 From: jo falor <poohqabear@...>
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Madi is something else she tries to beat up poor little Meggan but Skylar my 4 year old who is going to be 5 on the 1st is mommies lil helper she does alot for meggan she wants to feed her and bathe her and just do what mommies do but Madi is into this bitting thing she left marks on skylar any help out there please love always joann Danielle mommy

Marie Blair <peaches03292000@...> wrote:
Wanting another one already....how sweet.  How is your two year old doing with Meggan?  I am sure she is in aww
 
Marie

jo falor <poohqabear@...> wrote:
I know but i was more like upset because this was the guy who was taking care of me when i was preg.. with Meggan who is now 2 months old i dont like to sound rude but meggan is getting to big already she is 2 months old and i am already thinking man i want anther one... but i am proof that you can have a heathly child i had two madi is now 2 but the whole time i was taking vicodin cause the doctor me that would take care of my head aches thanks for caring so much

Marie Blair <peaches03292000@...> wrote:
I agree!!!  It is one thing to not know what to say to someone that has lost but dang you should know what NOT to say or even think for that matter.  I am so mad for you on this.  YOU know how many children you have and I guess sometimes that is all that matters in these situations.
 
Much Love
Marie

kim flathers <sgttibbs96@...> wrote:
Joann, that's when you should have told your doctor "oh let me rip your heart out of your chest and see how well you just get over it!"
 
I am so sorry some people are just plain rude. They need to take the time to understand how you feel. They may never fully understand but at least maybe they would be more considerate.
 
Much Love to you and yours,
 
Kimberly

jo falor <poohqabear@...> wrote:
Hello how is everyone doing i went to my doctors for my six week check i am getting my tubes tied well my doctor asked me how many children i have i said three at home and one who was up in heaven well he looked at me and said you have to get over that child i wanted to look at him and said how can i get over her i can never get over her i love my Danielle i dont want to get over her what should i do thanks again joann danielle's mommie she would be 3 years old i dont cry every day just somedays are harder then others but it isnt like one day i can wake up and say oh i can just go on like i never went through that i miss her and love her

kim flathers <sgttibbs96@...> wrote:
This is Marie's cousin Kimberly.  I understand what you mean. About people pretending nothing happened. I guess one reason could be if they feel they don't bring it up you won't hurt as much.  But I think that when they don't bring it up it hurts worse. And then you have those who just don't understand. And don't know better.
 
 I never knew Brianna but before the ultrasound Marie and I talked to each others belly. So that's as close to her as I was able to get. But because she wasn't here with us like she should have been, doesn't make me love her less. I love her as much as I do Marie's boy's. I have a quilt I've been working on. ( ok ok yes Marie I have been working on it for a while but all I have left is the back!!!) It has all of  her children's intials on it. Matthew, Brianna and Andrew.  She has three children. When I get asked how many she has I tell them three. One just happens to be watching over her mommy. 
 
So for those who want to pretend that "it" never happened. Sorry but loosing a child you can't pretend it didn't happen. And that's just flat out rude and mean for someone to do that.
 
Love to you all,
 
Kimberly
 


Nikki Dobi <angelstephensmommy@...> wrote:
I hate it when people try to act like nothing happened!! It did happen! Im so sorry if I am not correct on this but I get the impression you mil tryes to pretend nothing happened. My little boy was born on March 17 2000 and earned his wings on March 18 2000 and my mil tries to do the same thing errrrrr I hate that! Like I said I am so sorry if Im wrong but I know some of you must know what I am talking about
Nikki
PS Happy Birthday Marie!! Mine is Aug 1 :D have a great day. I'll be thinking of you

Marie Blair <peaches03292000@...> wrote:
Hello everyone.  I just thought I would send a little post.  I did
not get to post yesterday but yesterday was July 28. July 28, 2003
was my due date with Brianna.  Well I induced back in March of that
year (still mixed feelings on this).  Oh how I wish I was planning a
birthday party for a little girl turning 2. (ok I just unexpectedly
teard up) *choke*  July 31 is my birthday.  When I first found out
my due date I remember saying "oh that wouold really suck if I was
in labor on my birthday."  Now I would give anything to be sharing
my birthday with my daughter.  How can someone be so emototionally
attached to someone they barely know and only seen for such a short
time----only a mother.  I feel so empty inside and I think I will
bare that feeling everyday for the rest of my life.  I have not ever
really made a big deal about my birthday but as anyone I like to
acknowledge my day.  When my birthday rolled around in 2003 my mil
wanted to have a get together for me and practically begged me.  I
stood my ground and told her that I could not do it especially that
year. 

I cant find any other words at the moment............................
.................

I celebrate her birthday the day she was born(March 17) but I cant
stand the fact that she is supposed to be here with me right now
telling me all about her birthday party. 

Well, I sit here now with a smile on my face wanting to tear up
again but I just keep picturing how she would look and I cant help
but smile.

Marie


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#1731 From: Marie Blair <peaches03292000@...>
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Wanting another one already....how sweet.  How is your two year old doing with Meggan?  I am sure she is in aww
 
Marie

jo falor <poohqabear@...> wrote:
I know but i was more like upset because this was the guy who was taking care of me when i was preg.. with Meggan who is now 2 months old i dont like to sound rude but meggan is getting to big already she is 2 months old and i am already thinking man i want anther one... but i am proof that you can have a heathly child i had two madi is now 2 but the whole time i was taking vicodin cause the doctor me that would take care of my head aches thanks for caring so much

Marie Blair <peaches03292000@...> wrote:
I agree!!!  It is one thing to not know what to say to someone that has lost but dang you should know what NOT to say or even think for that matter.  I am so mad for you on this.  YOU know how many children you have and I guess sometimes that is all that matters in these situations.
 
Much Love
Marie

kim flathers <sgttibbs96@...> wrote:
Joann, that's when you should have told your doctor "oh let me rip your heart out of your chest and see how well you just get over it!"
 
I am so sorry some people are just plain rude. They need to take the time to understand how you feel. They may never fully understand but at least maybe they would be more considerate.
 
Much Love to you and yours,
 
Kimberly

jo falor <poohqabear@...> wrote:
Hello how is everyone doing i went to my doctors for my six week check i am getting my tubes tied well my doctor asked me how many children i have i said three at home and one who was up in heaven well he looked at me and said you have to get over that child i wanted to look at him and said how can i get over her i can never get over her i love my Danielle i dont want to get over her what should i do thanks again joann danielle's mommie she would be 3 years old i dont cry every day just somedays are harder then others but it isnt like one day i can wake up and say oh i can just go on like i never went through that i miss her and love her

kim flathers <sgttibbs96@...> wrote:
This is Marie's cousin Kimberly.  I understand what you mean. About people pretending nothing happened. I guess one reason could be if they feel they don't bring it up you won't hurt as much.  But I think that when they don't bring it up it hurts worse. And then you have those who just don't understand. And don't know better.
 
 I never knew Brianna but before the ultrasound Marie and I talked to each others belly. So that's as close to her as I was able to get. But because she wasn't here with us like she should have been, doesn't make me love her less. I love her as much as I do Marie's boy's. I have a quilt I've been working on. ( ok ok yes Marie I have been working on it for a while but all I have left is the back!!!) It has all of  her children's intials on it. Matthew, Brianna and Andrew.  She has three children. When I get asked how many she has I tell them three. One just happens to be watching over her mommy. 
 
So for those who want to pretend that "it" never happened. Sorry but loosing a child you can't pretend it didn't happen. And that's just flat out rude and mean for someone to do that.
 
Love to you all,
 
Kimberly
 


Nikki Dobi <angelstephensmommy@...> wrote:
I hate it when people try to act like nothing happened!! It did happen! Im so sorry if I am not correct on this but I get the impression you mil tryes to pretend nothing happened. My little boy was born on March 17 2000 and earned his wings on March 18 2000 and my mil tries to do the same thing errrrrr I hate that! Like I said I am so sorry if Im wrong but I know some of you must know what I am talking about
Nikki
PS Happy Birthday Marie!! Mine is Aug 1 :D have a great day. I'll be thinking of you

Marie Blair <peaches03292000@...> wrote:
Hello everyone.  I just thought I would send a little post.  I did
not get to post yesterday but yesterday was July 28. July 28, 2003
was my due date with Brianna.  Well I induced back in March of that
year (still mixed feelings on this).  Oh how I wish I was planning a
birthday party for a little girl turning 2. (ok I just unexpectedly
teard up) *choke*  July 31 is my birthday.  When I first found out
my due date I remember saying "oh that wouold really suck if I was
in labor on my birthday."  Now I would give anything to be sharing
my birthday with my daughter.  How can someone be so emototionally
attached to someone they barely know and only seen for such a short
time----only a mother.  I feel so empty inside and I think I will
bare that feeling everyday for the rest of my life.  I have not ever
really made a big deal about my birthday but as anyone I like to
acknowledge my day.  When my birthday rolled around in 2003 my mil
wanted to have a get together for me and practically begged me.  I
stood my ground and told her that I could not do it especially that
year. 

I cant find any other words at the moment............................
.................

I celebrate her birthday the day she was born(March 17) but I cant
stand the fact that she is supposed to be here with me right now
telling me all about her birthday party. 

Well, I sit here now with a smile on my face wanting to tear up
again but I just keep picturing how she would look and I cant help
but smile.

Marie


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#1730 From: jo falor <poohqabear@...>
Date: Wed Aug 3, 2005 2:59 am
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I know but i was more like upset because this was the guy who was taking care of me when i was preg.. with Meggan who is now 2 months old i dont like to sound rude but meggan is getting to big already she is 2 months old and i am already thinking man i want anther one... but i am proof that you can have a heathly child i had two madi is now 2 but the whole time i was taking vicodin cause the doctor me that would take care of my head aches thanks for caring so much

Marie Blair <peaches03292000@...> wrote:
I agree!!!  It is one thing to not know what to say to someone that has lost but dang you should know what NOT to say or even think for that matter.  I am so mad for you on this.  YOU know how many children you have and I guess sometimes that is all that matters in these situations.
 
Much Love
Marie

kim flathers <sgttibbs96@...> wrote:
Joann, that's when you should have told your doctor "oh let me rip your heart out of your chest and see how well you just get over it!"
 
I am so sorry some people are just plain rude. They need to take the time to understand how you feel. They may never fully understand but at least maybe they would be more considerate.
 
Much Love to you and yours,
 
Kimberly

jo falor <poohqabear@...> wrote:
Hello how is everyone doing i went to my doctors for my six week check i am getting my tubes tied well my doctor asked me how many children i have i said three at home and one who was up in heaven well he looked at me and said you have to get over that child i wanted to look at him and said how can i get over her i can never get over her i love my Danielle i dont want to get over her what should i do thanks again joann danielle's mommie she would be 3 years old i dont cry every day just somedays are harder then others but it isnt like one day i can wake up and say oh i can just go on like i never went through that i miss her and love her

kim flathers <sgttibbs96@...> wrote:
This is Marie's cousin Kimberly.  I understand what you mean. About people pretending nothing happened. I guess one reason could be if they feel they don't bring it up you won't hurt as much.  But I think that when they don't bring it up it hurts worse. And then you have those who just don't understand. And don't know better.
 
 I never knew Brianna but before the ultrasound Marie and I talked to each others belly. So that's as close to her as I was able to get. But because she wasn't here with us like she should have been, doesn't make me love her less. I love her as much as I do Marie's boy's. I have a quilt I've been working on. ( ok ok yes Marie I have been working on it for a while but all I have left is the back!!!) It has all of  her children's intials on it. Matthew, Brianna and Andrew.  She has three children. When I get asked how many she has I tell them three. One just happens to be watching over her mommy. 
 
So for those who want to pretend that "it" never happened. Sorry but loosing a child you can't pretend it didn't happen. And that's just flat out rude and mean for someone to do that.
 
Love to you all,
 
Kimberly
 


Nikki Dobi <angelstephensmommy@...> wrote:
I hate it when people try to act like nothing happened!! It did happen! Im so sorry if I am not correct on this but I get the impression you mil tryes to pretend nothing happened. My little boy was born on March 17 2000 and earned his wings on March 18 2000 and my mil tries to do the same thing errrrrr I hate that! Like I said I am so sorry if Im wrong but I know some of you must know what I am talking about
Nikki
PS Happy Birthday Marie!! Mine is Aug 1 :D have a great day. I'll be thinking of you

Marie Blair <peaches03292000@...> wrote:
Hello everyone.  I just thought I would send a little post.  I did
not get to post yesterday but yesterday was July 28. July 28, 2003
was my due date with Brianna.  Well I induced back in March of that
year (still mixed feelings on this).  Oh how I wish I was planning a
birthday party for a little girl turning 2. (ok I just unexpectedly
teard up) *choke*  July 31 is my birthday.  When I first found out
my due date I remember saying "oh that wouold really suck if I was
in labor on my birthday."  Now I would give anything to be sharing
my birthday with my daughter.  How can someone be so emototionally
attached to someone they barely know and only seen for such a short
time----only a mother.  I feel so empty inside and I think I will
bare that feeling everyday for the rest of my life.  I have not ever
really made a big deal about my birthday but as anyone I like to
acknowledge my day.  When my birthday rolled around in 2003 my mil
wanted to have a get together for me and practically begged me.  I
stood my ground and told her that I could not do it especially that
year. 

I cant find any other words at the moment............................
.................

I celebrate her birthday the day she was born(March 17) but I cant
stand the fact that she is supposed to be here with me right now
telling me all about her birthday party. 

Well, I sit here now with a smile on my face wanting to tear up
again but I just keep picturing how she would look and I cant help
but smile.

Marie


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#1729 From: Marie Blair <peaches03292000@...>
Date: Mon Aug 1, 2005 3:21 am
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I think that people just dont know what to say.  And that is ok.  I have been in plenty of situations where I did not know what to say to the other person.  But that does not mean that things did not happen.  One of the main reasons I talk about Brianna the way I do and as often as I do is because I want people to pick up on the fact that I AM comfortable with talking about my child.  Just because she is not here does not mean that she should be forgotten.  Dont they think it would be bad if I did not talk about her?
 
Marie

Nikki Dobi <angelstephensmommy@...> wrote:
I hate it when people try to act like nothing happened!! It did happen! Im so sorry if I am not correct on this but I get the impression you mil tryes to pretend nothing happened. My little boy was born on March 17 2000 and earned his wings on March 18 2000 and my mil tries to do the same thing errrrrr I hate that! Like I said I am so sorry if Im wrong but I know some of you must know what I am talking about
Nikki
PS Happy Birthday Marie!! Mine is Aug 1 :D have a great day. I'll be thinking of you

Marie Blair <peaches03292000@...> wrote:
Hello everyone.  I just thought I would send a little post.  I did
not get to post yesterday but yesterday was July 28. July 28, 2003
was my due date with Brianna.  Well I induced back in March of that
year (still mixed feelings on this).  Oh how I wish I was planning a
birthday party for a little girl turning 2. (ok I just unexpectedly
teard up) *choke*  July 31 is my birthday.  When I first found out
my due date I remember saying "oh that wouold really suck if I was
in labor on my birthday."  Now I would give anything to be sharing
my birthday with my daughter.  How can someone be so emototionally
attached to someone they barely know and only seen for such a short
time----only a mother.  I feel so empty inside and I think I will
bare that feeling everyday for the rest of my life.  I have not ever
really made a big deal about my birthday but as anyone I like to
acknowledge my day.  When my birthday rolled around in 2003 my mil
wanted to have a get together for me and practically begged me.  I
stood my ground and told her that I could not do it especially that
year. 

I cant find any other words at the moment............................
.................

I celebrate her birthday the day she was born(March 17) but I cant
stand the fact that she is supposed to be here with me right now
telling me all about her birthday party. 

Well, I sit here now with a smile on my face wanting to tear up
again but I just keep picturing how she would look and I cant help
but smile.

Marie


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#1728 From: Marie Blair <peaches03292000@...>
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Ashley,
Hello my name is Marie.  I wanted to let you know that I read your post and though I know how much this hurts and all the mixed feelings you are having but I wanted to let you know that it sounds like you are trying to keep a little smile on your face whenever you can.  It is so nice that people are calling you and thinking of you.  I know that meant a lot to me for those that did this.  so I take it you are inducing at 38 weeks?  I am so sorry you have to go through this.  There is nothing I can imagine saying that will make things turn out different but I wish I could.  Take care and know I will be thinking of you.
 
Marie

Ashley James <cosmoash84@...> wrote:
hey everyone it's Ashley again, just wanted to keep you guys updated. I am now 29 weeks preg with Jacob . I have nine weeks left with him. My husband and i went for a 3-d ultrasound to get a better idea of what to expect him to look like. I stilll have mixed feeling about the way ill react to seeing him for the first time, but some part of me can't wait to hold himm even if its only for a short time. my husband  felt him move for the first time two nights ago, I felt so glad for him i wish he could feel closer to him like me. but i know he was so excited to feel him kick. Ya know through this whole experience one thing ive learned is that there are still good people in this world. Everyday its like someone new calls to say they were thinking about us, and praying for us. , and that makes a big difference , i just want to thank everyonr for always listening,  i can't explain  how much it truely means to me . we are supposed to go look for funeral plots this week . wish me luck!!! ok guys nice to talk 
sincerely Ashley James Dier (Jacob's mom)

jo falor <poohqabear@...> wrote:
Hello how is everyone doing i went to my doctors for my six week check i am getting my tubes tied well my doctor asked me how many children i have i said three at home and one who was up in heaven well he looked at me and said you have to get over that child i wanted to look at him and said how can i get over her i can never get over her i love my Danielle i dont want to get over her what should i do thanks again joann danielle's mommie she would be 3 years old i dont cry every day just somedays are harder then others but it isnt like one day i can wake up and say oh i can just go on like i never went through that i miss her and love her

kim flathers <sgttibbs96@...> wrote:
This is Marie's cousin Kimberly.  I understand what you mean. About people pretending nothing happened. I guess one reason could be if they feel they don't bring it up you won't hurt as much.  But I think that when they don't bring it up it hurts worse. And then you have those who just don't understand. And don't know better.
 
 I never knew Brianna but before the ultrasound Marie and I talked to each others belly. So that's as close to her as I was able to get. But because she wasn't here with us like she should have been, doesn't make me love her less. I love her as much as I do Marie's boy's. I have a quilt I've been working on. ( ok ok yes Marie I have been working on it for a while but all I have left is the back!!!) It has all of  her children's intials on it. Matthew, Brianna and Andrew.  She has three children. When I get asked how many she has I tell them three. One just happens to be watching over her mommy. 
 
So for those who want to pretend that "it" never happened. Sorry but loosing a child you can't pretend it didn't happen. And that's just flat out rude and mean for someone to do that.
 
Love to you all,
 
Kimberly
 


Nikki Dobi <angelstephensmommy@...> wrote:
I hate it when people try to act like nothing happened!! It did happen! Im so sorry if I am not correct on this but I get the impression you mil tryes to pretend nothing happened. My little boy was born on March 17 2000 and earned his wings on March 18 2000 and my mil tries to do the same thing errrrrr I hate that! Like I said I am so sorry if Im wrong but I know some of you must know what I am talking about
Nikki
PS Happy Birthday Marie!! Mine is Aug 1 :D have a great day. I'll be thinking of you

Marie Blair <peaches03292000@...> wrote:
Hello everyone.  I just thought I would send a little post.  I did
not get to post yesterday but yesterday was July 28. July 28, 2003
was my due date with Brianna.  Well I induced back in March of that
year (still mixed feelings on this).  Oh how I wish I was planning a
birthday party for a little girl turning 2. (ok I just unexpectedly
teard up) *choke*  July 31 is my birthday.  When I first found out
my due date I remember saying "oh that wouold really suck if I was
in labor on my birthday."  Now I would give anything to be sharing
my birthday with my daughter.  How can someone be so emototionally
attached to someone they barely know and only seen for such a short
time----only a mother.  I feel so empty inside and I think I will
bare that feeling everyday for the rest of my life.  I have not ever
really made a big deal about my birthday but as anyone I like to
acknowledge my day.  When my birthday rolled around in 2003 my mil
wanted to have a get together for me and practically begged me.  I
stood my ground and told her that I could not do it especially that
year. 

I cant find any other words at the moment............................
.................

I celebrate her birthday the day she was born(March 17) but I cant
stand the fact that she is supposed to be here with me right now
telling me all about her birthday party. 

Well, I sit here now with a smile on my face wanting to tear up
again but I just keep picturing how she would look and I cant help
but smile.

Marie


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