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Hi
I have been a member of this group for almost sixth months now.
Last July I found out that my baby had anencephaly. As you all know
most doctors recomend terminating the pregnancy. I honor everyones
decision on this matter and woll not condem anyone for anything they
choose to do. But after careful consideration my husband and I
decided it would be in everyones best iterest if we terminated the
pregnancy. This would be a lot harder than we thought however. My
husband is in the navy and we use the medical insurance provided by
the government called Tri-care and they specificaly do not cover
abortions (gosh I hate that word) even if the child has
anencephaly. After much termoil and going all the up the chain of
command via our insurance we got an offer form the Northwest womens
law center-they offered to take our case pro bono. We won. But
that was just the beggining the declaration was only for me. So
ever since they won on my behalf in august they have been fighting
to get the law declared unconstitional-and that would benefit
everyone. Since the case involved the military it was the united
states government that my lawyers were going up against. Well I
just got the word tonight and they won-the law is declared
unconstitional. So women like me won't have to fight to make a
personal decsion. This dose not mean that I am pro choice. I am
pro life. But I also realized that carring the baby inside me could
cause great risk to me and my body and she would never live. I
would die for my baby if I could of but the situation was totaly
hopelss. -aleah





Thu Feb 27, 2003 4:07 am

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Hi I have been a member of this group for almost sixth months now. Last July I found out that my baby had anencephaly. As you all know most doctors recomend...
aleah_5442 <aleah_544...
aleah_5442
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Mar 4, 2003
9:11 pm

i am also a military wife,my husband is a marine stationed at camp lejuene.there are was tri-care would have let you terminate.but it would have been a long ...
iris shearer
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Mar 5, 2003
1:16 am

Iris, I was glad to get a response from you and would be glad to hear from anyone else. As you know, it helps tremendously to have all the support you can...
Marie Blair
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Mar 10, 2003
2:21 pm

i did not do this,i would NEVER ABORT M<Y CHILD,this was another woman not me.make noooo mistake i do not agree with abortion. ... ===== love,Suzette mom to...
iris shearer
iris_suzette
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Mar 10, 2003
3:13 pm

What exactly is so good about aborting your baby for any reasons including those of defects????? how can you say you are pro- life!! pro life means HONORING...
sloan19742003
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Mar 10, 2003
2:21 pm

he reason tri-care does not cover terminating anencephaly babies,is because it is not gaureentee they wiill be born dead.50% are born alive andlive for a few...
iris shearer
iris_suzette
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Mar 10, 2003
3:06 pm

What exactly is so good about aborting your baby for any reasons including those of defects????? how can you say you are pro- life!! pro life means HONORING...
sloan19742003
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Mar 10, 2003
2:21 pm

iam so glad you feel the same as i do,you can visit my sometribute at www.geocities.com/iris_suzette/ i was able to carry my angel til 36 weeks then i had to...
iris shearer
iris_suzette
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Mar 10, 2003
3:02 pm

I just wanted to make it VERY clear that I am not having an abortion. Why are people making it out to be that way. I too do not agree with abortion. I am...
Marie Blair
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Mar 13, 2003
7:17 pm

first off i never said abortion i said early induction .but if you fd o not carry to term or as far as you body will allow(that means premature labor not ...
iris shearer
iris_suzette
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Mar 14, 2003
6:06 am

Oh and by the way- It is true my baby had a heartbeat she also had half of her fucking head missing and no fucking brain-you fucking bitch. I think it is so...
Aleah Porche
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Mar 28, 2003
7:56 pm

Hello Iris, The first thing I would like to say is thank you. Thank you for excluding me and treating me as if my pain dosen't exsits. You obviously haven't...
Aleah Porche
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Mar 28, 2003
7:56 pm

I WILL be able to live with my decision. I thought long and hard about it. I respect your decision and others like you whom have made the same choice. I...
Marie Blair
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Mar 14, 2003
4:46 pm
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