I'm so sorry for what you are going threw right now,  I lost my baby girl in 11-04-04. Losing a baby to anencephaly is one of the most difficult thing to understand. No one can tell you why this happens or why you. I have seen  women who smoke, drink, and even do drugs and their babies are born fine, yet I dont smoke, drink, or do drugs and look my baby dies of a rare disease. All I can tell you is that you are at the right site. Everyone here understands what you are going threw. Sometimes talking to people who understand can help more than you think. I'm very close to my family but sometimes I found it hard to talk to them. I'm not saying they can help, I couldn't  have made it threw this without them, but this site has help me by realizing that I'm not alone and even though I dont know these people I feel that we all share a special bond and it help me at this difficult time.

cherrydreamer88 <cherrydreamer88@...> wrote: