Thanks for the information.  I'm not online much, so I don't know how often I would check in on more than one group, so I may just stick with this one.  I' ve been able to talk in person to one mom who had two stillborn babies more than 15 years ago, and her faith in God and her resilience has really helped me.  I feel very well supported by my family and friends, and I feel that God is mindful of me and wants to help me understand.  I also think that talking to women who've had similar experiences is needed.  My husband and I both gained so much strength in talking to that other mom and her husband.  I think a lot of her peace came through prayer and seeking God's hand.  I want to emulate her.  The death of your child could break you in so many ways; but she and her husband weren't broken at all.  They were so full of love, and they were united as a couple; it amazed me -- not because I didn't think that sort of thing was possible, but because there it was right in front of me.  Perhaps I can gain something similar from this group.