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Just found out that my unborn son has anencephaly   Message List  
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Re: Just found out that my unborn son has anencephaly

--- In anencephaly@yahoogroups.com, rae ek <ms_raeek@...> wrote:
.like you being at risk becaus of the babys head not being formd and
he could cut you inside and you could bleed to death.

I just wanted to comment that I have done ALOT of research on
anencephaly & found this is actually not true.The babies skull is
not sharp & there is no risk of the baby cutting the mother. Doctors
say alot of things, they arnt always true. Very sad that they do
this to people. I have also reserched many other things doctors told
women about carrying babies with anencephaly, most of those were
false as well. Any of risk to a mother carrying a baby with
anencephaly could actually be something that can happen in ANY
pregnancy, some have complications,but most dont.The major thing is
devolping poly(extra fluid) as long as this is monitored theres no
problem. I personally did not experiance any complications while
carrying my son Logan.

Im sorry everyone here has to go through this.You are all in my
prayers.
Nicole






>
> Nicole <valleyhillnicole@...> wrote:
> Nancy, I am very sorry to hear your little one has
anencepahly. This
> is such a heartbreaking thing to have to go through.My name is
Nicole
> & I lost my son Logan to anencephaly about 9 months ago. After
much
> thought & research I decided to carry Logan to full term, so as
far
> as giving advice on early induction i have no experiance. I was
very
> pleased in the end that I made that choice.I was able to have
LOgan
> in my arms for over 33 hours alive.
> My only advice would be to read others personal stories,think
about
> it & do what you think is best for you.Everyone told me that they
> thought I should induce labor because they thought it would be too
> hard on me, & it was hard, but I know either way things would have
> been pretty hard.I mean either way my baby was going to die, but I
> personally wanted every second I could possibly get with my little
> man. I have a six year old son & he was able to come meet Logan &
> hold his baby brother.
>
> I know that most mothers do go on to have healthy babies. Just
make
> sure you take the 4mg folic acid for at least 3 months before
> conception. I have not gotten pregant yet since Logans passing, Im
> bot sure when I will be ready either. Possibly after the first of
the
> year.'You will be in my prayers
> Nicole
> mommy to ~Logan Quinn~ 11/28/05-11/29/05
>
> --- In anencephaly@yahoogroups.com, "Nancy" <nluncsford@> wrote:
> >
> >
> > Hello all~
> >
> > I am new to your site as I just found out that my unborn so has
> > anencephaly. I am unsure how we are going to handle this. This
is
> my
> > third pregancy and my fourth child. All the other three were born
> > normal. Has anyone decided to terminate early and if so what
> method did
> > you choose and how did it affect your emotional self and your
> family? I
> > am concerned for me and my son. He was verry excited and wanted a
> > brother. He already has two sisters.
> >
> > Did anyone deliver a normal baby after the baby that had
> anencephaly?
> >
> > Would love to hear from you~!
> >
> > Thanks~
> >
> > Nancy
> >
>
>
>
>
>
>
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Hello all~ I am new to your site as I just found out that my unborn so has anencephaly. I am unsure how we are going to handle this. This is my third...
Nancy
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Sep 5, 2006
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Nancy - If my experience can help you, I'm happy to share. My middle child (and first daughter, Sarah) was born in Jan 2002 with anencephaly (lived for 2...
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Sep 6, 2006
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Nancy, I am very sorry to hear your little one has anencepahly. This is such a heartbreaking thing to have to go through.My name is Nicole & I lost my son...
Nicole
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Sep 6, 2006
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nancy i also had a baby with anecepaly and we decied to teraminat the pregnace and at the time my daughter was one and she to wanted her sister but what i told...
rae ek
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Sep 8, 2006
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I carried my son for as long as I possibly could, he physically left me almost 9 months ago. I don't regret a minute of my time with him. ... the pregnace and...
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Sep 9, 2006
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... .like you being at risk becaus of the babys head not being formd and he could cut you inside and you could bleed to death. I just wanted to comment that I...
Nicole
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Sep 9, 2006
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Rae - (or whoever made that RIDICULOUS post about the baby's head cutting) That is so untrue!!! Please do not post such ignorant comments in this group - these...
jenny crowe
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Sep 10, 2006
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Nancy, I have carried to babies with anencephaly to full term. This is a difficult thing to do, but I am convinced it is the right thing for the good of the...
trixmaree
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Sep 7, 2006
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... Hi, I chose to have a D & E done at 18 weeks. I do not regret my decision at all. I feel very lucky that this was an option. My husband was also very...
shairbe1
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Sep 7, 2006
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... pregant with the child that had anencephaly? Would love to hear from you again~ Thanks~ Nancy ... husband...
Nancy
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Sep 7, 2006
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Hello Nancy, I had 2 normal pregnacies before my daughter amelia then after her i am currently pregnant with a healthly little girl. (i think it is a girl) i...
Heather
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Sep 8, 2006
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It's not true that your baby could cut you. The bones are far too soft to do that. Some doctors say that as they either don't understand the condition or they...
Yvonne Holland
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... and that all said the same thing that if you carie full traem you would be at risk of intenal bleeding and as a health care profesional i wolud beleave the...
Rae
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Sep 9, 2006
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to the rumors of the baby cutting you. the babies skull even when it is a healthy baby the skull is not fully formed (soft spot on a childs head) the skull the...
Heather
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Sep 9, 2006
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... is my ... method did ... family? I ... anencephaly? ... full term or 2 terminate is a difficult to make. I chose to carry full term. The memories of...
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