I carried my son for as long as I possibly could, he physically left
me almost 9 months ago. I don't regret a minute of my time with him.

--- In anencephaly@yahoogroups.com, rae ek <ms_raeek@...> wrote:
>
> nancy i also had a baby with anecepaly and we decied to teraminat
the pregnace and at the time my daughter was one and she to wanted
her sister but what i told her was that gad need her little sis to
help with the rain. little ons that are under the age of 4 only
understand god and hevan so i you tell him that his brother went to
be with god in heavn i think he will understnd you but, be prared for
lots of ????? from him . i am a nuse and have seen this before i had
our bethany 1-20-05 and it is a decison that as a mom you just don't
want to face and feel the life is unfair to you . the mothers that i
have help moust of them do teraminat the baby just because there are
some many problums that can come up .like you being at risk becaus of
the babys head not being formd and he could cut you inside and you
could bleed to death. this is the reson that we chouse to teramanat .
the main thing i can tell you is to put it in gods hands i know at
this time that you probly don't
> want to hear that but just put it in gods hands hun he knows what
is right for you and would not give you some thing that he din't
think you could handle if you ever need to talk just email ok hun
like i said i am a rn in the obygn unit as well in the nicu i have to
get back to work now so i am going to close wiht i have you in my
thoughts and prays and my god keep you and bless you .
>
>
> Nicole <valleyhillnicole@...> wrote:
> Nancy, I am very sorry to hear your little one has
anencepahly. This
> is such a heartbreaking thing to have to go through.My name is
Nicole
> & I lost my son Logan to anencephaly about 9 months ago. After much
> thought & research I decided to carry Logan to full term, so as far
> as giving advice on early induction i have no experiance. I was
very
> pleased in the end that I made that choice.I was able to have LOgan
> in my arms for over 33 hours alive.
> My only advice would be to read others personal stories,think about
> it & do what you think is best for you.Everyone told me that they
> thought I should induce labor because they thought it would be too
> hard on me, & it was hard, but I know either way things would have
> been pretty hard.I mean either way my baby was going to die, but I
> personally wanted every second I could possibly get with my little
> man. I have a six year old son & he was able to come meet Logan &
> hold his baby brother.
>
> I know that most mothers do go on to have healthy babies. Just make
> sure you take the 4mg folic acid for at least 3 months before
> conception. I have not gotten pregant yet since Logans passing, Im
> bot sure when I will be ready either. Possibly after the first of
the
> year.'You will be in my prayers
> Nicole
> mommy to ~Logan Quinn~ 11/28/05-11/29/05
>
> --- In anencephaly@yahoogroups.com, "Nancy" <nluncsford@> wrote:
> >
> >
> > Hello all~
> >
> > I am new to your site as I just found out that my unborn so has
> > anencephaly. I am unsure how we are going to handle this. This is
> my
> > third pregancy and my fourth child. All the other three were born
> > normal. Has anyone decided to terminate early and if so what
> method did
> > you choose and how did it affect your emotional self and your
> family? I
> > am concerned for me and my son. He was verry excited and wanted a
> > brother. He already has two sisters.
> >
> > Did anyone deliver a normal baby after the baby that had
> anencephaly?
> >
> > Would love to hear from you~!
> >
> > Thanks~
> >
> > Nancy
> >
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