Hi Michelle,
I'm very sorry to hear about your condition the the condition of your children. The act of putting mercury in children (and adults) and not a medical procedure, it's an act of terrorism.
Your symptoms are perfectly in line with typical cases of mercury toxicity that I've personally heard of over and over.
At this point, it may be useful to work on the symptoms while you're detoxing.
Here are some things that I learned.
Temperature control either cold can't get warm or too hot.
This symptoms went away in me when my amalgam were removed. It was gone within 24 hours.
Numbness is my right leg
This could be related to neurotransmitter disruptions. You could try Gaba to remedy this.
http://onlythebestherbs.com/InfoSys.php?PN=GABA%20Plus
Aches in my left had wrist on movement
This may be related to joint degeneration related to the disruption of vitamin C by mercury. You could try to increase vitamin C and then try a supplement to rebuild cartilage, tendons, and ligaments.
Citrus Bioflavonoids
http://onlythebestherbs.com/InfoSys.php?PN=C,%20Vitamin%20-%20Citrus%20Bioflavonoids
Joint Health/Support
http://onlythebestherbs.com/InfoSys.php?PN=Joint%20Health,%20Ayurvedic%20(JNT-AV)
Absolute fatigue has returned
This could be related to a number of causes, for example, mercury interferes with the production of T-3 (thyroid hormone). This could be helped with a supplement like this:
Thyroid Support
http://onlythebestherbs.com/InfoSys.php?PN=Thyroid%20Support
Fatigue could also be related to a thyroid that is starved of iodine, since mercury binds to iodine and renders it useless. You could try an iodine supplement for this:
Dulse
http://onlythebestherbs.com/InfoSys.php?PN=Dulse%20Liquid
Finally, this type of fatigue could be related to opportunistic infections such as mycoplasma that often occur with suppressed immune conditions often found with mercury toxicity. For this, I would use something like:
Suma
http://onlythebestherbs.com/InfoSys.php?PN=Suma%20Combination
Olive Leaf Extract
http://onlythebestherbs.com/InfoSys.php?PN=Olive%20Leaf%20Extract
Red palms of hands
Not sure about this one. I'll have to do some research.
I hope this helps. Please keep us posted and let us know how it goes.