I would think that it seems absolutely normal. Being angry at what they caused
or let happen to you was your only escape for the horrible feelings you were
having and the pain you were suffering.

Agreeing to let go of that anger is NOT an easy thing....especially for you. But
you can do this and it will make your life so much better in the end.

We can't always control what people do to us, but we can control how much we let
it effect us.

Let me ask you this?  By keeping a hold of that anger...aren't you causing
yourself pain and heartache? Don't you think you'vehad enough of that? Its time
to let yourself me happy, loved and live a productive life. YOU DESERVE THAT!!!!

I don't know your story, but if you ever need a friend to talk to...please feel
free to email me opal4irene@....


 
 Irene 
Life may not be the party you hoped for, but while you are here..you might as
well dance!
"The more you have and are grateful for, The more will be given you."
View My Space at :              http://www.myspace.com/free2birene




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From: orthodox_cult <orthodox_cult@...>
To: adult_children_of_child_abuse@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Tue, October 6, 2009 3:20:26 AM
Subject: [AdultChildrenOfChildAbuse] got my family back

 
I got my family back. I didn't talk to my parents for a year and they agreed to
go into therapy and we settled a lot of stuff. They are being really nice and
trying to make up for a lifetime of making my life painful. But, I miss being
able to be angry at them. I am not fully ok with everything even though we all
apologized and are friends now. Is this normal?




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