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The White Buffalo Calf Woman Society, Inc.

"Domestic Violence Is Not A Lakota Tradition."

Shelter & Safe Home Available for Emergencies

Women's Support Group

Mon. & Wed., 7-8pm Sat. 11am-12pm

Sexual Assault Survivors

Every Monday 2-3pm

Men's Re-Education Group

Every Wednesday 6:30-:30pm

Serving Battered Women & Children Since 1977

For Men's Program please call 856-4666

Fwd: "Domestic Violence Is Not A Lakota Tradition."
Posted by: "Karaka"

*Faith leaders, tribal officials, musicians from South Dakota and
Michigan fight domestic violence: Free August 12 concert to benefit
country's first Native American battered woman's shelter*

(Custer, South Dakota) - Faith leaders, tribal officials, and musicians
from two states say supporting the nation's first battered woman's
shelter for Native Americans is the goal of a free benefit concert at a
church in Custer, South Dakota.

As domestic violence against Native Americans grows at an alarming rate,
organizers believe it's time to help the battered woman's shelter
continue its many projects to protect victims by stemming murder, sexual
assault, and other vicious attacks.

Two Michigan folk groups will perform at 5 p.m. (MT) on August 12, 2007
at the Custer Lutheran Fellowship church in Custer, S.D. Comprised of
family and close friends, White Water and Duo Borealis are based in
Michigan's remote Upper Peninsula and are known for their unique folk
music.

Organizers hope people will be inspired to donate money to the White
Buffalo Calf Woman Society (WBCWS) that provides a wide-range of
domestic violence services for all women and children and has served the
Rosebud Indian Reservation for almost 30 years.

The shelter and church are over 220 miles from each other, and the
concert was suggested by a pastor friend of both located nearly 1,000
miles to the east in northern Michigan. The concert is coordinated by
people who live long distances apart but are close on the issue of
protecting domestic violence victims.

Without reservation, faith leaders and tribal officials believe it's
important to battle domestic violence.

"Supporting a shelter on the Rosebud Indian Reservation is particularly
important and life-giving," said Rev. Dave Van Kley, Custer Lutheran
Fellowship church pastor.

The battered women and children's shelter was founded in 1980 by current
director Tillie Black Bear who then hoped domestic violence would be
significantly reduced if not stopped by the end of the century. Sadly,
she says, domestic violence has increased.

"Violence against tribal women and children is at a crisis state," said
Tillie Black Bear. "We must stand together to end violence in the lives
of our women and children."

On the Rosebud Reservation alone, eleven rapes were reported in 2006,
and at least 10 had been reported through May 31, 2007, the Rosebud
Tribal Police Department reported.

American Indians were sexual assault victims at 3.5 times the rate of
other United States residents and the rate of all violent crime against
Native American women is 50 times higher than other races, the U.S.
Justice Department reports. About 90 percent of American Indian sexual
assault victims reported an offender of a different race and nearly a
third of all American Indian victims were between the ages of 18 and 24,
the report states.

While statistics reflect an alarming rate of sexual violence in Indian
Country, some experts believe many American Indian sexual assaults are
not reported because of family reprisal, shame and other cultural
oppression, Black Bear said.

Overlapping and confusing federal, state and tribal legal jurisdictions
can hinder investigations and prosecutions, thus discouraging Native
American women from reporting the sexual violence "and leaves them
feeling helpless and fearful," she said.

Black Bear said the "historical oppression and complicated
jurisdictional issues" have "negatively impacted sexual assault victims
by increasing their mistrust," by discouraging the reporting of crimes
and "often by providing little recourse for timely justice."

Black Bear believes providing education and resources to youth is
crucial to teach that "violence and sexual assault in not okay under any
circumstances" and "they are not alone, there is help and they are able
to get it."

Some youth are confused about "the romantic notion of love" and that may
"prevent them from reporting date rape and other assault incidents,"
Black Bear said.

The WBCWS continues to battle domestic violence in three areas:
increasing safety for victims thought education and strong public
statements, providing a safe place to live, and advocating "changes in
policies, laws, services that women and their children can access for
their safety and well being," Black Bear said.

"Safety is a priority in all that we do on behalf of our sisters who
experience violence - whether it is domestic violence or sexual
violence," Black Bear said. "When safety is unattainable our sisters and
their children experience trauma, and ultimately - an untimely death."

Black Bear said tribal and community leaders should stand firmly against
the abuse of women and children including clear and strong public
statements.

"It is imperative that our relatives, communities, leadership and
advocates stand together and in strength denounce that violence against
our women and children is not acceptable and will not be tolerated,"
said Tillie Black Bear, adding that even when victims believe they have
found safety "there is never any guarantee that - as a woman - you are
safe from domestic violence and sexual assault."

Sometimes abusers get homicidal when victims leave their clutches, she said..

"We know that women leaving their abuser are at a greater risk and that
there is a higher rate of incidence of murdered women leaving their
abuser," Tillie Black Bear said.

"Safety for women and children requires a safe place to keep them safe -
and out of harm's way - and that their own and relative's homes may not
be an option," she said.

"Indigenous people know that we are all related and interconnected in
sacred ways," Black Bear said. "All individuals within a community are,
therefore, responsible for providing safety to women and children and
holding the perpetrator accountable for their actions."

Domestic violence murders claim many more lives than the latest victim
because "when a child or woman is killed that affects the generations to
come," Tillie Black Bear said.

"We have a responsibility as tribal people to make sure that we continue
to create a world that our future generations of relatives will want to
come and be safe in," Black Bear said. "When a woman is killed, it is
like whipping our most sacred bundles."

Native Americans must "reframe our views of our female relatives" and
"believe that our women and children are sacred," she said.

The church has helped fight domestic violence by supporting the Women
Escaping a Violent Environment (WEAVE) domestic violence shelter in
Custer and projects on the Lakota Pine Ridge Indian Reservation.

"We believe that God calls us to be in relationship with all people,"
Rev. Van Kley said.

The church and shelter are both in the southern part of the state, with
Custer Lutheran Fellowship on the western border and the WBCWS is
centrally located - and while separated by a three-and-a-half hour
drive, they share common issues including ending domestic violence and
helping victims.

A friend of both, Rev. Lynn Hubbard moved to northern Michigan a few
years ago and recently asked the music groups to stop in South Dakota to
perform a free concert while returning from a tour of the western U.S.

Rev. Hubbard said he's impressed with the effort of the battered women's
shelter and concerned that women around the world continue to be beaten
and murdered every day.

"Domestic violence is literally America's black eye - as the abuse is
prevalent in all segments of society - the violence crosses all lines -
social, economic, race, creed," said Rev. Hubbard, founder of the Turtle
Island Project that addresses Native American and environment issues.

"The Turtle Island Project recognizes 30 years of excellent community
service by the White Buffalo Calf Woman's Society and its domestic
violence shelter," said Rev. Hubbard, pastor of the Eden on the Bay
Lutheran Church in Munising, Michigan.

Hubbard said the Michigan musicians are eager to put on the free concert
because they hope the community will help support the WBCWS shelter.

"We also thank the northern Michigan music groups - White Water & Duo
Borealis for agreeing to hold the August 12 benefit concert in Custer,
South Dakota," Rev. Hubbard said.

The Custer Lutheran Fellowship pastor said his church appreciates the
folk bands' willingness to help people they have never met.

"Folk music is truly the music of the people--of all people--and so is
an excellent choice for a fundraising effort for the White Buffalo Calf
Woman Society," said Rev. Van Kley. "The fact that White Water, a superb
traditional folk group, has offered to perform a free concert for this
purpose, adds to our excitement about this event."

The shelter provides emergency homes to all domestic violence victims
and provides of counseling and services including a Women's Support
Group, meetings for sexual assault survivors, and men's re-education
project.

If you'd like to donate or have questions about the concert contact:

White Buffalo Calf Woman Society, Inc.

Tillie Black Bear, director

North Main St.

Mission, SD

Call the shelter at: 605-856-2317

The benefit concert is at 5 pm (MT) on August 12, 2007 at the Custer
Lutheran Fellowship, a Custer, S.D. Church located three and one half
miles east of Custer on U.S. Highway 16A.

While the concert is free donations are urged.

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For more information on the bands and others involved in the concert
here are related websites:

White Buffalo Calf Woman Society:

http://www.wbcws.org

http://calthunderhawk.tripod.com/wbcws/wbcws_index.html

Custer Lutheran Fellowship:

http://www.custerlutheran.com

Folk musicians White Water, Duo Borealis:

http://www.white-water-associates.com/music.htm

http://marybonhag.com/duoborealis

http://www.evanpremo.com

Rosebud Tribe website:

http://www.rosebudsiouxtribe-nsn.gov/

U.S. Department of Justice report: "American Indians and Crime" report:

http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/bjs/abstract/aic.htm

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The White Buffalo Calf Woman Society, Inc.

"Domestic Violence Is Not A Lakota Tradition."

Shelter & Safe Home Available for Emergencies

Women's Support Group

Mon. & Wed., 7-8pm Sat. 11am-12pm

Sexual Assault Survivors

Every Monday 2-3pm

Men's Re-Education Group

Every Wednesday 6:30-:30pm

Serving Battered Women & Children Since 1977

For Men's Program please call 856-4666

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