I just got back from my own session with my therapist. She wanted to know
What I thought of mom and dad's session with me last week. Man that opened
A can of worms and she was so glad I opened up. She wished that I did that
While they were with me but glad I did today anyway. I told her how I felt
And I was showing signs of a bit of anger. I usually cry when angry but not
This time. I was strong but not too aggressive. She was proud of me to
Finally speak my mind.
She said I am of a sound mind and body that they shouldn't be bugging me as
They do. They still see a child in me its one reason they want a child in
Return. They want me independent but they don't. As my therapist and I
Said, they are conflicting themselves sending very mixed messages to her and
Me.
SHe knows I need transportation so its one reason I depend on them, and for
Everything else I should be able to handle on my own. She don't know why
They can' t see that. She too was appalled by the way that mom was handling
Things this past weekend with calling my old doctors and therapists. She
Said I could have done that myself if I felt it was warranted. There was no
Need for her to cross that line we imagine. We only could assume what was
Being said. That is still flat out wrong though...just because she told me
Days later what was said, don't mean it was really what was said.
Yes you probably can see I am anxious and excited. Be proud that I did
Speak up to my therapist and she will respect my wishes. She knows that my
Folks are not in the charts to be spoken to. Next week we're hoping we can
Come up with a plan to defend my parents when they say things to me so I don
T get so upset. With that I await a reply but its not necessary. Thanks
For listening and take care. Oh by the way, I love you :)....that as a
Friend of course.
Chris
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