Janet,

I am not Mary, but just want to point out that assumptions are not always
correct. Divorce takes years often to finalize (mine was 21/2 years), so
Mary could well have found a boyfriend AFTER the divorce started to take
place. In my situation, 1 year after my divorce was began, I started
dating, and within a couple of months, found the wonderful man I am with
now. He helped me through a very dark time (my ex had been arrested for
domestic violence, which had been witnessed for years by all 4 of our
children). My fiance and I now have a set of 17 month old twins in addition
to my 4 children of the previous marriage....I am so incredibly lucky and
blessed to have met this wonderful man. As my father used to say to me,
Don't ASSUME...It makes an ASS out of U and ME.

Blessings for a beautiful day,

Lisa



On 8/1/06, Janet B <willowtop46@...> wrote:
>
> Hi Mary..It saddens me to see you unhappy..and frustrated..This should
> be a happy time in your life..So young and 3 Beautiful children( that in
> itself is such a Blessing)..Kick me square in the butt....for what I am
> about to say...but direct it to me..nobody else...........as I am going to
> be very straighforward with you...
> You say you are in the middle of a divorce..( from husband) and you
> already have a boyfreind..of 10 months..Hmmmm...Has your husband removed
> himself from living under the same roof as you.or was it you that left
> him? I want you to answer these questions not back to me..but answer back to
> yourself...first and foremost...Were you involved with this boyfreind before
> you and your husband parted ways?? Is the boyfreind a part of the reason
> ..troubles began in the Marriage?? How old are your children? and do you
> have Parents/siblings/freinds( close ones) that you can lean on for Love and
> moral support......Unconditionally?? It is entirely up to you..whether you
> reply back to me one on one or with in the group...Janet
>
>
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> Do you Yahoo!?
> Everyone is raving about the all-new Yahoo! Mail Beta.
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