mary, hi, its not that having a baby is a horrible experience, labor is
just one of the hard processes of having a baby. but......everything you
go through is well worth it!!!!!!!!!!!!! having a baby grow inside of
you is a wonderful miracle! watching a child grow, teaching your child
everything about life, its the most rewarding thing you can ever do!!!
yes, at times its hard, and yes at times its scary, but....you always
get through those times. the greatest achievments i have in my life
right now, is my 2 boys!!!! and in my opinion, the only thing that will
make that different, is if i have another child to add to the
achievment, then i'll be blessed with 3. really, the greatest joys in
my life are my children, even with the pain of labor and the
uncertainties you sometimes face. so see, having children is a postive
expereince!!!!! hope that helps. love and recovery, traci