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[Abraham:]

Some Examples to Help You Let Go of the Oars

In the pages that follow, we will offer examples on a variety of
subjects in which people often find themselves out of alignment with
their own desires. We will discuss desires relating to your physical
body, your relationships, your life purpose, your financial employment,
and even world events. We have gathered these examples from the
vibration of Mass Consciousness as you have been living your lives and,
in doing so, have been continually asking for improvement and expansion.

Some of these examples will dovetail with things that are important to
you right now, and some of them you may not relate to in any personal
way, but it will be helpful for you to read them, even if they are not
about "your" issue, because within these examples you will find
a complete understanding of the Science of Deliberate Creation.

It is likely that as you read these examples, you will take issue with
some of them, for you may not believe that some of the desires are
appropriate. Depending upon what you are currently experiencing and how
you are feeling, you may find some of these examples to be frivolous.
For example, if you are frightened about a physical condition and you
are reading a section regarding how to improve your relationship with
someone at work, you may feel annoyed that we are giving so much
attention to something that seems insignificant to you, given your
circumstances. But even though you may not be able to personally relate
to some of the examples that are offered here, we encourage you to read
through them anyway, for it is our knowing that in the process of
reading these examples, you will come to more profoundly understand
vibrational alignment. We do not seek to guide your desires, for your
own life has already accomplished that. It is our desire that the
following examples serve as a tool that causes you to allow your own
alignment with your own desires.

E x a m p l e 2: I cannot Lose Weight

Example: "I've been overweight for as long as I can remember.
There were a few brief times in my life when I was able to force my
weight under control through uncomfortable dieting and what felt like
deprivation, and through arduous exercise. But none of it was easy, and
I wasn't able to maintain the regimen for long, and so the unwanted
weight always came back. "I don't feel comfortable in my clothes
and dread shopping for new ones. I stand in front of my closet looking
for something to wear, and even though I have some nice things, nothing
appeals to me because I don't like the way I look no matter what
I'm wearing.

"My body doesn't move well, and I know that I'd feel so much
better all around if I could just lose a few pounds, but I feel
powerless to do anything about this excess weight, so I'm very
discouraged."

Now we want to begin this discussion by reminding you of the most
important part of Deliberate Creation: Creating is not about making
things happen through action. In fact, creating is not about making
things happen at all. Creating is about allowing the thing that you
desire to happen, and the allowing happens through Energy alignment, not
through action.

Sometimes this is a hard thing for you to hear because you know, from
your personal experience in life, that action does get results. You know
that you have been able to shed unwanted pounds by decreasing your food
consumption, and there is no question in your mind that the exercise
helped, too. And we are not disagreeing with any of that, for it is
obvious that action does have a place in the creating of many things. In
fact, without action, your society would be without a great many of its
things. But when you make action the cornerstone of your Creative
Process without considering the vibrational basis of your Being as you
are taking the action, you are working under a distinct handicap, for
there simply is not enough power in the action itself to compensate for
the competing Energies of your misaligned thought.

You may recall a successful experience where someone offered you an idea
regarding losing weight, and you felt an immediate enthusiasm toward the
idea. Your enthusiasm could be attributed to the power of the belief of
the person who offered the idea to you, or it could be that the idea
dovetailed precisely with beliefs of your own . . . but it is your
enthusiasm that we want to call your attention toward.

Your enthusiasm was the evidence that the vibration of your Being was in
alignment. And then, remember what happened next: You were eager to take
the action—and in taking it, positive results occurred. . . . It is
possible to take action because someone suggests it or encourages it or
even demands it; and once involved in the action, your attitude can
begin to improve. But the deliberate alignment of your vibration,
first—which then inspires successful action—is a much more
powerful approach to whatever it is you want to create.

During your discouraged moments as you acknowledged that your body was
not as you would like it to be, you were launching rockets of desire
about what you preferred, and within all of that processing of
life—and without realizing it—you have been adding to your
Vibrational Escrow. You have created a vibrational version of the
new-and-improved physical version of yourself.

We want to help you understand that this is not a flimsy dream floating
somewhere in your imagination. This is not a delusional departure from
reality. This is a creation in the making, and it is being created in
precisely the same way that everything you see around you has been
created: The living of life gave birth to the idea or thought—which,
in time, with focus, became what you call your "reality."

So the discouragement that you have been feeling is indicating the
discord between the continually evolving creation of your beautiful body
and the thoughts that you continue to think regarding your body. Your
body has been vibrationally evolving, but your old patterns of thoughts,
your beliefs (which are only thoughts that you continue to think), are
causing a vibrational discord. And under those conditions, successful
action cannot be inspired or performed. Under those conditions, all
action is harder, yielding little or no results, causing more
discouragement still.

The key to bringing your body to a new place is to see it differently
from the way it is. It is necessary that you focus upon the body that is
coming and distract yourself from the negative aspects of your current
physical body, for as long as you are seeing your body as it is, you are
contradicting the vibration of the idea of a slender body. You cannot
create a new reality while looking at your current reality.

So now that you understand why it has been so difficult to find the
inspiration to act and why the action, even when you did offer it,
netted you very little results, let us show you some very simple things
that you can do that will begin the process of aligning your Energies
immediately, for by understanding the Laws of the Universe, and by
understanding the basis of your creation (which is the simple alignment
of vibration), you will now be on your way to the outcome that you
desire:

• Your choices, right now, do not include whether you are at your
perfect body weight or not.

• You have no choice other than to be at the body weight you are at
right now.

• You are going to weigh about the same thing tomorrow as you do
today, and the next day, too . . . and so on.

• Changing your body weight right now is not an option.

• Changing your vibrational alignment right now is an option—a
powerful one.

• Also, you are not, right now, choosing between feeling fabulous or
terrible.

• You are not choosing between feeling enthusiasm or discouragement.

• Your choices, right now, are more subtle and more fine-tuned than
that.

• You are making the simple choice of feeling a little better or a
little worse.

• You can choose an upstream thought or a better feeling, downstream
thought.

• Those are your only choices: upstream or downstream.

• But those choices are enough.

For example, imagine you are at an outdoor shopping center. You are
moving in and out of many beautiful shops, and there are hundreds of
people moving in and out of them with you. These individuals vary in
size and shape and wardrobe, but you are predominantly noticing nicely
dressed, nicely shaped, beautiful people all around you; and as you see
them, you feel self-conscious. You are now awkwardly aware of what you
are wearing, and you are unhappy with the way you look today. You turn
to see your reflection in the window as you are walking, and you are
extremely unhappy about the way you look. You feel agitated,
discouraged, and unhappy, and you are not having a good time on this
shopping outing at all.

You have now lost interest in the reason why you came to the mall. You
do not feel like shopping anymore. In fact, the only thing that is
appealing to you right now is the idea of getting something to eat.
There are good-smelling things in the air, and you realize that you are
hungry and that you do want a snack. There are several choices within
view, and from the fragrances in the air, you know there are more
choices nearby. Any one of several things sounds good to you: ice cream,
candy, maybe something more substantial such as a sandwich. Actually,
all of that sounds pretty good to you right now.

Your urge to find a quiet place to sit while you eat something is
becoming quite strong, and while you are trying to fight the urge to
follow through on your impulse, it is much easier to just give in to it
and get something to eat. As you are standing in line at the ice-cream
counter, you notice the slender people waiting in line with you. They
are annoying, and as you are annoyed, your urge for the ice cream grows
stronger still. . . .

Before we continue with the details of this example, and before we offer
guidance to assist you in improving your situation, we want to explain
something that most people do not understand and, in fact, have a hard
time believing: Whether you gird up your willpower and walk out of the
ice-cream parlor or whether you go ahead and select—and eat—a
large tub of ice cream, there is absolutely no difference in the effect
of one of those actions over the other! Even if we are talking about
1,000 days of walking out as compared to 1,000 days of eating a tub of
ice cream, the action choice of one or the other makes no difference. It
is not your action that matters; it is your vibration. It is not your
action that makes you fat; it is your vibration. It is not what you are
doing that makes the difference; it is how you are feeling about what
you are doing.

In the beginning of your vibrational alignment regarding your body
weight, you may begin to feel enthusiasm for some changes in your diet,
and many would say, "Well, then, I don't see how this approach
differs that much from just going on a diet as I've done so many
times before." But we would ask you to notice how much easier it is
this time in the feeling of enthusiasm rather than the discouragement
that you have been acting from before. You will also notice that in this
state of improved emotion, you will find an appealing idea, and then
another. You will begin to find a sort of rolling out of a continuous
path of good-feeling new ideas. You will begin to feel carried along by
those new ideas rather than struggling to find them, and, before long,
you will begin to see physical results. Of course, upon seeing the
physical results, your feeling of enthusiasm will be even greater, and
then you are really off and running toward the outcome that you have
been seeking. And as you achieve your desired body weight (and you
will), you will say to yourself after the fact, This time it wasn't
difficult, and this time I'll keep it off. And, in any case, I now
know what to do, whenever I decide to, about achieving whatever physical
bodily condition I choose.

Consider This:

If being slender matches the emotion of happiness . . . and you were to
consistently eat ice cream while feeling happy . . . you would be a
slender person who eats large quantities of ice cream.

If your desire to be slender while you are currently not slender matches
the emotion of discouragement . . . and you were to consistently eat ice
cream while feeling discouraged . . . you would be a fat person who eats
ice cream.

If your desire to be slender while you are currently not slender matches
the emotion of discouragement . . . and you were to consistently use
your willpower to keep yourself from eating ice cream . . . you would be
a fat person who does not eat ice cream.

Some would ask, "Abraham, if being unhappy makes you fat, why are
there no fat people in an environment where food is scarce? They are
unhappy, and they are not fat. They are often starving to death."
And we would answer, if you are focused upon the current situation of
food scarcity, and you feel fear for yourself and your loved ones, you
are a match to what you do not want. It makes no difference if not
wanting to be fat is the issue that turns your thoughts upstream or if
the idea of starving to death is the issue that turns your thoughts
upstream: Your thoughts are still upstream—which is resistance to
what you desire, whether your desire is slenderness or enough food for
your family.

Being slender matches the emotion of happiness. (downstream)

Being fat matches the emotion of unhappiness. (upstream)

Having enough to eat matches the emotion of happiness. (downstream)

Not having enough to eat matches the emotion of un-happiness. (upstream)

The key to creating everything that you desire is to find a way to turn
to the better-feeling, downstream thoughts, even when the current
situation does not evoke it from you, and to use your willpower to focus
your thoughts in the direction of your desire and who-you-really-are,
rather than using your willpower to try to produce action against the
Current.

So, in the beginning, your thoughts may be something like the following:

I am fat. (upstream)

I don't want to be fat. (upstream)

I'm so tired of being overweight. (upstream)

I don't like how I look. (upstream)

I don't like my clothes. (upstream)

I don't want to shop for clothes. (upstream)

I've tried so many things. (upstream)

Nothing works for me. (upstream)

Remember, you do not have to fix everything. Just try to find a thought
that feels a little bit better:

I wish I could find a way. (downstream)

My feet would feel better for sure. (downstream)

Again, these are not earth-shattering statements, but they do feel
better, and therefore they are downstream—so your work, for now, is
done.

Whenever you find yourself beating the same old drum about your body
weight, if you would make an effort to turn your thoughts downstream and
stay focused upon the subject until you feel a slight turn, in a very
short period of time you will improve the vibrational relationship
between where you are and what you want, and you will be amazed at the
leverage this improved vibration will give to your process. Everything
about this will get easier and easier until, in time, your desired body
weight will have been achieved.

So now, let us say that you are at work. You have not been focused on
your body or your weight because you had things to accomplish and
you've been busy at those things. But now it is lunchtime, and as
you are walking past the vending machine, you feel an urge to buy a
cookie. You put in your money, the cookie drops through the chute, and
while you are unwrapping it, the feeling of discomfort comes over you.

"Here I go again," you say, feeling the discomfort washing over
you.

But the urge is strong, and you take a big bite of the cookie. You feel
worse still as a strong feeling of disappointment now rises within you.

But this time things are slightly different from ever before because you
have some positive momentum going from those statements you have been
making about the subject of your weight.

You remember, It isn't about what I'm doing. It's about how
I'm feeling while I'm doing it. So you pause and look at the
cookie, and you make the following statements:

I shouldn't be eating you. (upstream)

You'll only make me fatter. (upstream)

You are delicious, though. (downstream)

And you're not all that big. (downstream)

I could eat some of you now and save some for later. (downstream)

I like having choices. (downstream)

I like making deliberate choices. (downstream)

I like being in charge of my actions. (downstream)

If I had stopped to think, I may not have been so quick to put my money
in this machine. (downstream)

I'm really making quite a big to-do over eating a little cookie.
(downstream)

You're a tasty little cookie. (downstream)

Well, I'm enjoying you, cookie. (downstream)

I'm deliberately enjoying you. (downstream)

And sometimes I'll choose to eat you, and sometimes I'll pass.
(downstream)

Right now I'm going to eat you. (downstream)

And I'm going to enjoy you. (downstream)

You have just accomplished something that is rather unusual for you. You
are eating a cookie, and you have talked yourself into alignment with
yourself and therefore with your desire to be slender at the same time.
You are in alignment with You, which is much more significant than
anything you are doing—or not doing—with the cookie. And now, a
very slender person walks up to the machine, pulls out a cookie, and
begins to eat it. And as you watch, you can tell that this person is
truly savoring this cookie.

In the past as you watched a slender person eating a cookie, your
thoughts would be:

It's not fair. (upstream)

Her metabolism allows her to eat tasty things and still be slender.
(upstream)

She's probably unhealthy, and that's the only thing she will eat
today. (upstream)

But this time, because of the vibrational work you have been doing, you
think instead:
Ah, there is evidence of someone who's in alignment with her desire
of eating a cookie. (downstream)

It is all about vibrational alignment. Do not look for immediate
measurable physical results. Instead, look for improvement in your mood,
your attitude, and your emotions. When you feel better, you are more in
alignment—and everything else will follow. It is Law.

Abraham-Hicks
http://www.abraham-hicks.com

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