Odds are your listening skills stink... Granted, I don't know you. So why would I say something so offensive? To shock you and get your attention, of course! Face it, if in fact you're not a good listener, then I need to do SOMETHING special to engage you, don't I? Not to mention, it's probably true! (There I go trying to get your attention again...) Before you get the impression that I think I'm better than you are, let me say... As a listener, I have my good days and bad days. The bad days are when I fall into my old habits, habits I ...