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What's New
| May 20, 21 |
New Paltz Equifest Trade Show |
Kim Cassidy www.clickandtrim.com Connie Dwyer www.eternalsunstable.com and Dolores present Barefoot, Clicker Training and the new Equine Good Citizen program - Clicker training will be the only live demo! |
| May 27 - 29 |
Dressage at Saratoga |
Marilyn Bonnett and Dolores Arste present Success Insurance Performance Coaching. Sunday and Monday 12-1 PM www.insuresuccess4u.com Supported by the Clicker Demo team. |
| Jun 3 |
Investigating Rabbit Holes |
Zen Guidance unique class combining Energy Mirrors and the Law of Attraction with Clicking for Emotions - www.zenguidance.com |
| Jun 4 |
Open House Demo Day |
White Birch Stable Exit 17 of the Northway call Dolores - 1-877-937-6248 for details. Come visit with us. |
| Jun 22-25 |
Clicker Training Problem Solving Demo |
Clayton Woosley Memorial Derby featuring the 2006 Adequan/USEF Open Reining Championships - Kentucky Horse Park, Lexington, KY |
| July 22, 23 |
Success Insurance Get-away Retreat |
Start off the Saratoga Racing season in style. Enjoy a weekend of pampering, success presentations, clicker training, horses and most of all FUN and Lots of Smiles Contact: Dolores - 1-877-937-6248 or Marilyn - 1-877-600-COACH |
| Sept 23 |
Saratoga Therapeutic Equestrian Program - STEP |
The Clicker Demo Team™ rides again to support the kids and horses. 1-4PM in Charlton, NY Contact http://www.s-t-e-p.com/ or Dolores 1-877-937-6248 |
| Oct 5, 6 |
Learning Spa™ |
Business Building Seminar, Blue Bell, Pennsylvania - Find out more here: http://tinyurl.com/eqsqc
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May Book Review
Letters to Sam A Grandfather's Lessons On Love, Loss, and the Gifts of Life By Daniel Gottlieb Published by Sterling April 2006;$17.95US/$55.95CAN; 1-4027-2883-2
Dear Sam, my life was changed the moment you were born." So begins this remarkable collection of thirty-two intimate and compassionate letters that Dan ("Pop") Gottlieb wrote to Sam, his grandson. Frank and honest, they address the same challenges we all face, each in our own way, and reading them delivers an inspiring and emotional punch.
Although the themes of the letters are universal, they draw from a highly personal well of experience. Dan Gottlieb has been paralyzed from the neck down since a nearly fatal automobile accident twenty-five years ago. His grandson Sam was diagnosed at fourteen months old with Pervasive Developmental Disability, a severe form of autism. Dan wrote these letters with the hope that Sam would one day be able to read them and, through them, get to know his grandfather.
Yet you will find no self-pity or regret in these letters. They sing with the purity of a grandfather's love, understanding, concern, and wisdom and cover universal life lessons: dealing with parents, coping with school, falling in love, living with disappointment, experiencing joy, and achieving personal success.
Written with keen intelligence and hard-won sensitivity, these are letters that illuminate the moments a man and a boy share. Dan's healing voice of tolerance, hope, and experience is inspiring and serves as a wonderful reminder that, regardless of our abilities and limitations, we all share in the human condition.
Daniel Gottlieb, a practicing psychologist and family therapist, is the host of "Voices in the Family" on WHYY, Philadelphia's National Public Radio affiliate. A columnist for the Philadelphia Inquirer, he is author of two books, including a collection of his columns entitled Voices of Conflict; Voices of Healing. He is the father of two daughters, and Sam is his only grandson. The author's royalties will benefit Cure Autism Now and other children's health organizations.
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What You Really Believe
If I said to you that every adversity carries with it the seed of an equal or greater benefit, you would probably agree with me. Napoleon Hill is most often credited with presenting that idea in his classic book “Think and Grow Rich.“ If you haven’t read “Think and Grow Rich“ I highly recommend it. It is one those pivotal works that has changed the lives of millions of individuals all over the world. But getting back to the idea that every adversity carries with it the seed of an equal or greater benefit, I find it interesting that while most people agree with this notion superficially and even say they “believe“ it, their actions tell a different story.
Here’s something to consider. If what you think you believe does not affect your behavior, then it’s doubtful that you really believe it. Read that again. If what you think you believe does not affect your behavior, then it’s doubtful that you really believe it.
I found myself thinking about this recently while coaching a high level executive about a current challenge he is facing. After a long string of major successes, my client has found himself in the middle of an unexpected situation. And while listening to him describe in detail the exact nature of the difficulty he is facing, I couldn’t help but think about the fact that adversity is a necessary and ongoing part of life. I’m sure that’s what prompted Napoleon Hill to write about this idea.
It’s so easy to forget that the raw material needed to achieve those things we want most in life is actually contained in the challeng es we face. Transforming challenges into opportunities is the essence of what success is all about.
When I mentioned this to my executive client he immediately agreed with the idea. And by the time our conversation was over, we had put together an action plan to turn this unexpected twist of events into something very positive for him and his company. He was delighted when he finally saw the opportunity that was actually hidden in the challenge.
The reason I mention this is because some beliefs require faith. And, of course, faith can be described as a belief that doesn’t always rest on logical proof or material evidence. But life without faith wouldn’t be worth living.
You see, it takes faith to see the benefit contained in any adversity. It takes faith to hold onto our beliefs when everything about us seems to be changing. It takes faith to remain steadfast to our goals while others try to tell us that what we’re after is a pipe d ream.
Faith is one of the most important skills you will ever develop in life. And one of the best ways to develop more faith is to hold true to what you really believe even if you can’t prove it. Don’t be swayed from the convictions you hold that resonate deep down in your soul.
I believe that we are bigger than anything that could ever happen to us in life. I believe that there is a reason and a purpose behind all that exists even if we don’t know exactly what it is at every moment in time. And I also know that faith that is based on what you know to be true will move you beyond any challenge that will ever come your way.
So take some time to consider what it is you really do believe and if you are living by those beliefs. Remember that if what you think you believe does not affect your behavior, then it’s doubtful that you really believe it. ____________________________________________________________________
Dogs Use Psycho-Cybernetics To Accomplish Goals
Dogs picture in their minds an event of an activity they wish to perform whether it hunting a rodent, greeting their human companions at the door or retrieving a stick. This helps them set goals similar to psycho-cybernetic human intent goal oriented human endeavors. We know dogs do this for two reasons. One, when they sleep their paws move as if they are running. Some might say that this is nervous system reactions, but fRMI scans show these are simultaneously happening with motor areas of the brain. Secondly the memory of motions for dogs is evident in the way they approach problem solving while moving toward an object such as a bone or Frisbee. If the Frisbee is thrown in a standard fashion the dog jumps and takes it the same every time and commits the action to muscle memory, which is an indication of that reflex of motion being done over and over again in its mind.
Some who have said to have connections with their animals occasionally pick up low frequency dreams of their pets. Some might say this is utter non-sense yet those who study such mind connections with animals seem to have shown a telepathy transfer of thought there. One such researcher has documented that pets and their masters do send out subconscious signals to one another. The rare occasions where humans claim they pick up visual stimuli in the form of pictures from their animals comes when both are asleep. In these dreams the humans say they see sequences of images in their dreams from the perspective of the animal. In other words a perspective from being very low to the ground and running around doing normal dog or animal activities, such as jumping into a vehicle, running around a tree or jumping off a deck and tumbling. If this is true and these dreams are in fact coming from the animal this proves the visual psycho-cybernetic tendencies of canines, perhaps all mammals, birds, fish and reptiles. This would make sense considering the memory imprinting that we believe these brains do operate. Even if the dreams are merely wishful thinking on the part of the human taken into the humans unconsciousness as one tries to empathize with their pets this would not negate the probability of such psycho-cybernetic learning and goal achievement strategies for canine intent. In fact there is enough evidence now to conclude that most all higher mammals do in fact achieve their goals this way. Probably birds too. Birds like Eagles can be fooled by their own visual memory, which fills in details of objects far away, meaning the imprintation of that memory is there? The question is only how are they using it or are they using it in their subconscious thoughts? Dream? Think on this.
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Animal to Animal Telepathy
There has been much study on Telepathy in the animal kingdom. Many have experienced telepathy from human to human. Some have experienced telepathy from pets, both sending and even on rare occasion receiving. There are so many studies that show it is not coincidence or explainable by probability. In fact the statistics are so strong that after reading only a few studies and pitting that against your own observations in your ego-centric life experience that any normal human would have to agree.
Now then let me tell you of a theory of mine. It relates to the ability to send and receive thought or signals from one animal to another and perhaps to other species. In my theory I believe that the brain, which is working at a higher level or frequency is able to send better and than the brain working at a lower level. In lower levels it is better to receive thought. In other words the easiest time to receive is when one is a sleep. Now then lets us take both the paranormal theories of the collective consciousness and the current studies being done at MIT, Stanford and other places with telepathy. It appears when joining into the collective consciousness it is best to be a low theta state of mind.
Many would disagree with the theories of sending at higher rates of cognition in the beta or hyper beta realm, yet it appears that you can send information when you mind is running at higher RPMs. Yet there appears to be much advantage at the higher frequency level, in retrieving information stored in the faithful servant side of the brain when at higher Beta Frequencies. If one is drinking caffeine it is often interesting to watch them recall facts very quickly in observing conversations almost to the point of being on a game show. If you watch two people talk both drinking coffee you will see a much faster, detailed type conversation under rapid fire of neurons.
The reason I believe that a brain going at faster Beta waves can send information better has to do with my experience racing motorcycles and in riding on the street. At times I was able to send a thought such as; “look here“ or “don’t pull out of that driveway“ and instantly the driver would stop and look. I got so good at it that I could tell it was me doing it. Even when the wind was blowing the other way and the driver had the air-conditioning and radio on, they did not hear me. This even occurred at times when I was going very fast, but coasting out of gear. Now then other experiences I have had, have been when out running or jogging, when the heart rate was high, not from adrenaline of the motorcycle or the rush of oxygen in combination in the body; but rather from high cardiovascular exercise rates where I could signal to local wildlife on a trail, do not worry, I am just going to run by. Small Squirrels, rabbits or even watchdogs would just watch and stand there as I went by. I could also signal guard dogs to not bark, but they would come running up to the fence to watch me job by. Other times I would send out threatening thoughts to the animals and they would go berserk and try to get over the fence to attack me.
It appears that when you are in hyper beta frequency ranges you can command events to occur or even people to call you that you know. You can send out thoughts to animals or people and even invade the collective with thoughts you wish to get out, information. If you have ever been at a large concert is seems the music is playing into the collective and the excitement seems to allow those on stage to collect the energy and stay in hyper beta, maybe even more so if they are on drugs, thus the send of information thru music is so powerful as they generally are also sending out emotion, which everyone who is there, is freely open to collect.
It also appears to be able to send out information to the collective if you are in hyper-beta while most others are in low or extremely low frequency states of sleep, this too has been my observation. If a dog, cat or parrot, which have all been documented to pick up thoughts from their owners sometimes hundreds of miles a way and they are running on lower frequencies than humans, then this theory makes sense. There are hundreds of thousands of cases of telepathy being picked up by animals from humans and only a few rare cases of humans picking up telepathy signals from animals. Generally these rare cases are from distressed animals at a time when their systems, bodies and mind are in hyper status for them. Animals with bigger ranges in their brain waves seems to have the greater number of cases from animal to human. I will also recommend this book to you:
“The Sense of Being Stared At and other aspects of the extended mind“ By Rupert Shelrake.
So, then after studying this and pitting it against your own observations you might come to my conclusion that hyper Beta helps in sending telepathy to others. For receiving it appears to be best for unification of the collective of minds to be at very low frequencies. However two people of similar frequencies in close proximity seem to be able to communicate with a minimal amount of difficulty fairly easily with practice. Anyway think on all this.
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