You choose the qualities you see in others

Abe:
.....
Let's say you have a friend. Whether it is a mate, former mate, a son a
friend, doesn't matter. Somebody in your experience, and they have 10
predominant characteristics. 7 of the characteristics are delightful.and
3 of these characteristics are abhorrent. And being an observer, like
most humans are .You are observing all 10 of them so you are
experiencing some of all 10 of them. But you for the most part appreciate
the relationship, because 7 of them are wonderful, and only 3
of them are abhorrent. And so you would call it basically a good
relationship. So then you decide that rather than just be an observer.
You are going to be a more selective sifter of data,and you are going to
use your power of imagination .And so the 3 things that are sort of
abhorrent to you, you notice and you feel the negative response to them.
And little by little, as we have demonstrated a bit here today, you feel
the negative emotion, you identify what you would like to exclude. Then
you identify what you want to include Now, earlier we said to you that
the formulae for creating anything that you want is
simple…….Identify the desire and then vibrationally match it. If you
cant match it through what you are observing…….and often you
cant……..as in these 3 abhorrent qualities they don't match your
desire. No problem! Match your desire through your imagination. So now
here you are.A person who has identified desire really keenly because
you have observed things you don't want which helps you to identify what
you do want. So your desires out here pulsing sort of loud and very
real.And much of your desire you can match just through observation.
Those 7 qualities, you observed those 7 qualities ……you match your
desire. Three of them you can't match through observation. No problem.
You don't observe those, you just imagine the other 3. So now you are
vibrating purely in harmony with your desire. When that happens, you
evoke from those around you that which matches your desire. And if they
are really vibrationally opposed to you, they vibrate right out of your
experience. Now your son is not going to do that. In other words your
child will join you in that vibration. But the question pointedly put to
you is…… Why do you think you are getting some of those 3 things??
It is because of your attention to them we promise you. You all keep
thinking that if somebody's got a characteristic, and they are thrusting
it at you. You are just a victim that has to take it, and that's what
makes you want to make them stop it. That's what makes you want to say
"Clean up those 3 abhorrent characteristics, so that we can have a
better relationship" And the thing that we really want you to hear
is……If you are having it in your experience, it is because you are
vibrating it! And you are usually vibrating it through observation ,but
it doesn't matter. As long as you are vibrating it ,its going to stay in
your experience. As soon as you clean up your vibration,your
relationships will all take on that new framework too.

Guest:
So in other words I just need to imagine what it is that I want?

Abe:Yes

Extracted from Abraham-Hicks tape G –4/27/96.

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