About +70% of ALL Men keep a secret! Each thinks he's virtually the "only one"! The fact is (& 50+ years of studies confirm it) that most guys think good look'n guys are "hott". Most guys love being close to hott dudes (& the closer -the better). But most guys never admit it. They hide behind women & pretend to only like chicks -all the while as they scope their hottie buds & wish the friendship could be a lot more "bonded".
And the reason why most guys feel so conflicted is because nobody wants to be called "gay" (because they don't relate to "gay" -& may even find "gay media" to be offensive). No need to apologize. Thousands of years of civilized culture (well before the accomplish-nothing political correctness movement of the late 20th century) established several cultural norms that have been intentionally forgotten/repressed by the thing called "Gay Lib".
IRREPRESSABLE TRUTHS:
1) Testosterone makes the man & male behavior is generally defined by its effects: Aggression, musculature, sexdrive, etc.
2) Men recognize the effects of the hormone in men as "normal" behavior.
3) Men who act like they don't have 'a pair' are seen with suspiscion w. their masculinity in question.
4) The "gay-male" community has tried to define "men" in terms that are antagonistic to testosterone based biology. This is UNnatural.
5) Biology declares that it is UNnatural for men to "faux the female role" via rectal penetration: #1 source of all STD infections.
It is for these sound reasons why so many men shun the term "gay". The term effectively emasculates the one who dons it.
Most men are pleasantly awestruck when they discover the G0YS (spelled w. a zer0) men's movement: G0YS are men who love men with discretion, integrity & an overwhelming respect for masculinity. G0YS know that men have been lov'n each other for millennia; -BUT, G0YS believe it's morally wrong for a man to "faux the female role". No "HeShe's". No AnalSex(It's Sick Sh1t)!
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