I have just come from a meeting for the 18 locations of an alcohol and drug treatment service in Manchester. Of all the locations only one offers an abstinence...
I have been going over my fear lists for the past few weeks. I have noticed a lot of fears centered around me. For example I am frightened of; who I will...
I haven't actually made a list as such but I am becoming more aware , the longer I am away from a drink and the more clarity I have in my thinking I fear...
David , I have experienced all of those during a particular period in the Program ,too .I remember acutely the last one of 'being afraid to be me'. Unlike you...
Dave, I had HUGE fears of finding out about the real me. I've had a few shocks along the way but somehow got used myself like an old pair of slippers. It is...
Oh My gosh Dave do I ever relate. I am at this moment living in fear...it seems to be paralyzing me tonight. I need to get over this fear of mine....I am...
only every alcoholic ive ever met-lol ... From: david jones To: we_have_recovered@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thursday, December 01, 2005 8:04 PM Subject:...
Hi All Fears? Bingo ! I had "them all" First I also was reluctant with my 4th step. I was sure to find somthing so bad, so ugly and grave that I couldn´t take...
I DO like it. Gives me something to talk about. :) Sounds like what that guy is saying is "Fellowship is a treatment for alcoholism". I will tell you from...
I dientify exactly with it David. Just think for a moment about the prayer, with which we say, everyday – "Remove our fear and direct our attention to what...
Trish and Dave! Is not knowing we are afraid to discover the "real me" in itself a part of the "real me". The real me is afraid, I discover that, and process...
When I am out growing fear.....I a, certainely not outgrowing fear. Peace, Danny S Thats too good not to have been thought of before. But you can quote me on...
Finding out about myself was just one of many fears. I still need God to help me when I get lost in a strange city(big fear especially when dark) or any number...
That's it exactly Danny, these disparate fears seem to have consolidated into a fear of being me, which is real, and is the real me. I am not trying to second...
Hi Danny, yes the guy does believe in fellowship, and the traditions and altruistic service. He is a recovered alcoholic and also believes in that vital...
I can very much relate to David's fears. I have many after almost 6 years sober.. I say I have faith . . . . but faith is the best antidote for fear I can...
Hi Mark, my fears today are different to the fears I started out with. Then they were all over the place. Such as fears of: people, not drinking, fire,...
We have no monopoly on God. That guy sounds real. I guess I meant the majory of the other centers then. Peace, Danny S ... traditions ... believes ... of ... ...
Its funny though, any time I have a fear crop up - or let me make it more intense - anytime I find myself in a rut full of fear - ongoing and disrupting the...
Dave thanks so much for your honesty....about your fears. I need to share on one of my fears I do not know how to do it and the appropriate fashion. I have ...
Hi Tanya, I did not start out being this able or comfortable to discuss my fears or myself for that matter. That process began for me last year when took my...
Most definitely, we do not arrive in AA being comfortable sharing our innermost secrets, thoughts, fears and dreams. We have spent our alcoholic lives running...
On the general subject of fear, I believe for me it can mostly be traced to a lack of trust or if you like faith, that I will be safe. Fear, paranoia and...
Elsie, I don't see anything wrong with sharing through e-mail, provided it is done prudently with someone who has earned your trust. The 12 & 12 in the chapter...
My two cents, Tanya: Find someone that you trust,feel comfortable with, has worked the steps, appears to live the program (attraction rather than promotion)...
Tanya there is "made to order" process for handling fears right in the AA program of recovery. >>The answer for me in getting my fears "in check" was in...
I keep getting a virus block from W32.Sober.X@mm!zip My server gives me this message: EarthLink Virus Blocker has deleted a message sent to you because it was...
Jim F. wrote: <<Elsie, I don't see anything wrong with sharing through e-mail, provided it is done prudently with someone who has earned your trust.>> I'm not...
The whole point of my spiritual awakening has been to see that my life has been one of service? Service to self, not service to others. The program has enabled...
That's how I feel , Dave. When I work with others, I redo my steps with them (sometimes subconsciously) and we all bemefit. I have been working with others...