I think that is what is called a "conundrum" - a riddle or a complicated problem!  since, in fact, the definition of an alcoholic is someone who cannot stop drinking.  doesn't that sort of mean if i "relapse" i'm being a true alcoholic?  of course, i have a solution which, if i follow it, i won't have to worry about drinking.

 

cindi

 

Relapse Prevention" at my Beginners meeting / Homegroup on Monday.   How does a person who is powerless over alcohol prevent their next relapse?     --- On Thu, 7/10/08, Jonathan Kaplan <WooDYFM@aol.com> wrote: From: Jonathan Kaplan <WooDYFM@aol.com> Subject: [We_Have_Recovered] Check-In .. Thursday 7/10 To: We_Have_Recovered@yahoogroups.com Date: Thursday, July 10, 2008, 3:39 PM The Daily Reflection today speaks about moving "Toward Peace and Serenity". The reading suggests that by asking God to remove our character defects (Step 7, it's July) and by thinking about our humility, this ultimate goal can be achieved. I agree these efforts will definitely help us reach peace and serenity, but I also believe there is a lot more that needs to be done to live that lifestyle. Each day I try to keep a conscious contact with people from AA, with my Higher Power, and doing the next right thing (now that I understand what that is). I also don't allow life's terms to baffle me - slowly I am intuitively learning how to handle these situations. What tools do YOU use to stay peaceful and enjoy serenity?? Lots of newcomers and people coming back lately in my F2F meetings. It truly helps me keep an attitude of gratitude for my continued personal recovery! Great topics at my meetings lately, too: + "First Things First" at my "Living Sober" discussion meeting yesterday, + "Seventh Step / Freedom" at my "Daily Reflections" meeting Tuesday, + "Relapse Prevention" at my Beginners meeting / Homegroup on Monday. Anyway, time to review more resumes and help people find employment! Have a terrific Thursday :) Jonathan, Alcoholic from New Jersey