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I was hoping someone would step up and complain about the lack of sharing on this board. Certainly, as group founder, I am at fault for not keeping the discussion going here. That being said I figured I'd try to get somethiing going here.
 
One of the things that drives me nuts about meetings is how often I hear that some of us have the idea in their head that we could pick up a drink at anytime - if the circumstances were right. That our disease is 'doing pushups in the parking lot'. How does that make sense if we have recovered from a seemingly hopeless state of mind and body?
 
I counter such utter nonsense with the fact that, although I am just as powerless over alcohol as I was 27+ years ago I am unafraid of stepping on a banana peel, falling into a gin mill and getting drunk. In fact all the claims of "I chose not to drink today" is based in what? That we somehow gain the power of choice in drink? (Look in the book and tell me where we get the power of choice in drink - you can't).
 
Our sobriety is contingent on the maintenance of our spiritual condition - which, by the way, could mean that we attend meetings daily but is by no means the only way of maintaining our spiritual condition. Besides - what the hell do you do if there are no meetings to get to? Best develop some other spiritual practices...prayer and meditation perhaps?
 
So pick something - theres plenty to latch on to for discussion.
 
Jim - Recovered!
 
 


 
 
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I was hoping someone would step up and complain about the lack of sharing on this board. Certainly, as group founder, I am at fault for not keeping the...
Jim K
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Jan 11, 2008
1:18 pm

you r right, if we as alcoholics are spirtually fit we should not have any fear of taking that drink again. When i admitted i was an alcoholic 91/2 yrs. ago...
Doug Gamble
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Jan 11, 2008
11:21 pm

Hello ,has this rejuvenated itself and started up again . I too have no fear of ever drinking again .We are going to yet another wedding again in two weeks and...
Frank Quinlan
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Jan 12, 2008
12:22 am

i agree...but im wondering what do you say to those...that latch on to the words...all we have is a daily reprive..and not the rest of the sentence...and they...
sam
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Jan 12, 2008
8:41 am

Nothing a little reading comprehension wouldn't cure... "We claim SPIRITUAL progress not SPIRITUAL perfection" - most people miss those two words... "We are...
Jim K.
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Jan 14, 2008
1:15 pm

Those "types" do not read the book so show it to them. It gets clear, some think and are taught sadly, we just do the steps over and over again.. staying in...
terry walton
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Jan 16, 2008
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Awright, fella! In my home group, several of the folks are fond of the "push ups" saying, as well as "I have the only disease that tells me I don't have a...
Howard
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Jan 14, 2008
5:18 pm

No Meetings ? I'm an expert on not going to meetings when I could have .I got sober home on leave from the Merchant Navy. Returned to sea sober on six meetings...
Frank Quinlan
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Jan 15, 2008
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Hey Frank and others. Good to see you sir, I wrote this yesterday on this topic.. my experience on this below. I do not go to most meetings today for the same...
terry walton
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Jan 15, 2008
2:03 pm

Aw gee, you just sound like me ,shit,I'm not unique .I cant keep my mind on the meeting at all most times .Its like as you say . As for hearing God only at a...
Frank Quinlan
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Jan 16, 2008
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hey Jim, Good Morning all, I didn't know you started this group.. good deal. we kicked this around in a group I started also.. i had an athiest tell me to...
terry walton
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Jan 15, 2008
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i agree with you. i too believe there are a lot of problem drinkers and whatever in the meetings. i don't care anymore about them though. i just try to see...
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