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Re: Cross Talk

How do you expect me to share my ES&H if there is no 'cross talk?'
To keep the message focused on the truth that is in the book, we
have to comment on anothers share or why have the meeting in the
first place.
This term and meaning should be classified right up there with,
"My disease is out in the parking lot doing pushups."

Jay - ExAlcoholic!

Jim writes;

I never heard of this as a term until I moved to NYC from eastern
Long Island in 1997. I first associated cross talk with talking
while someone else was sharing in a meeting but have since learned
it is associated with commenting on someone elses' share.

Heavens forbid if someone might say something to someone who is
sorely mistaken about something. How do people learn - from the
experience of others hopefully. AA isn't group therapy where dumping
out one's problems is any kind of a real solution. Perhaps a
suggestion by those who have gone down the pathe before us is in
order - but don't cross talk...

How do you all feel about it?

Jim - Recovered!




Tue Jul 20, 2004 6:07 pm

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I never heard of this as a term until I moved to NYC from eastern Long Island in 1997. I first associated cross talk with talking while someone else was...
Jim K.
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Jul 20, 2004
1:21 pm

Hi Jim, I'm new to the group here. I took you up on your offer on another group and decided to see what things were like on this board. Thank you for the...
prpllady51
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Jul 20, 2004
2:18 pm

I guess crosstalk means different things in different parts of the country - In Buffalo and Central Virginia it means carrying on a conversation with the one...
Carrie
kelleysholler
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Jul 20, 2004
3:44 pm

That's pretty much what it loosely means here too - in Salt Lake City. Sometimes, people will comment on what someone said while they are sharing (not...
jedsgirl522
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Jul 22, 2004
5:31 am

How do you expect me to share my ES&H if there is no 'cross talk?' To keep the message focused on the truth that is in the book, we have to comment on anothers...
Jay Lawyer
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Jul 20, 2004
6:07 pm

well i got sober out in eastern long island back in '94 and thank god people spoke about what i said at meetings...during the meeting and afterwards...did i...
sam
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Jul 21, 2004
1:34 am

I always thought that cross talk meant an open back and forth dialogue. Sometimes it happens by accident. Like when you ask a new-comer a question...."Do you...
Tammy Cook
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Jul 21, 2004
4:24 am

In western PA, 'cross-talk' is understood as starting a dialogue with another person while sharing during a discussion meeting. Commenting on someone else's...
Bob G.
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Jul 21, 2004
12:50 pm

Thank you Bob. That was inspirational...clear, non-offensive and direct. That's why this message board is great! Stuff like that! Clarity is sweet! "Bob G."...
Tammy Cook
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Jul 21, 2004
1:09 pm

Hi Bob, Jocelyn here also from Western Pa. My home group is Parkway West in Oakdale. Where are you from in W Pa? ... __________________________________ Do you...
Jocelyn Monacelli
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Jul 21, 2004
5:54 pm

Live in the south hills, member of the Castle Shannon sunday night group! Nice to meet you, and I think I've met a few folks from the Parkway west group....
Bob G.
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Jul 21, 2004
6:43 pm

Hi Bob, I'll have to check out that meeting. Do you ever get to Bridgeville for the Sunday meeting at 3pm? Its a beginners discussion and also a BB Study. Also...
Jocelyn Monacelli
prpllady51
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Jul 21, 2004
7:31 pm

I'm a little late on the subject but that won't stop me. It is up to each individual group as to whether or not to allow crosstalk during its meetings. I don't...
Danny S
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Aug 3, 2004
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