It is nice to meet you! My name is April and I have a now almost 7 year old son named Devon. It is hard to believe so much time has gone by, the days can seem to take forever, although the years fly by! I would like to share our story with you, as I do see some similarities. We had a hard time getting pregnant in the first place, loosing several pregnancies before we got pregnant with Devon. I was put on bed rest from about 5 months of pregnancy on. I had a horrible pregnancy. I am diabetic, I swelled up huge everywhere if I even sat up in bed for too long. Devon was born right on his due date, but by emergency c-section. Every time I had a contraction, his heart rate would stop. I had been in labor for hours, and he would not drop down. (I broke my pelvic bone giving birth to my first son, now almost 13!, so Dr's thought this could be why) I had several ultra sounds while I was pregnant and the technicians all said he was HUGE, they measure by bone size and the water left in the sac. Devon was only 8#15oz, nut he was 23 3/4 inches long! He looked so skinny, almost like laffy taffy (do you have that there, it is a candy that strings out?) He went home at normal time, I took him for his circumcisions, and Dr's would not do it, said he was too jaundice. We spent two weeks in the hospital, only to find out it was breast jaundice, soon as I quit breast feeding it went away! He was almost going to have a transplant and blood transfusion!!! When he was about 2 months old, he started throwing up, and it would shoot out 8 feet across the room, it was very scary. He was diagnosed with projectile vomiting, secondary to acid reflux. He was put on several meds, but about a week later he got pneumonia. He was in the hospital for about a months. We were home for only a couple weeks, and he quit breathing on us at night. We live 45 miles away from the hospital, so I did CPR on my lap on the way to the hospital, he was air lifter into the big city, and diagnosed with sleep apnea. He was sent home a couple week later with oxygen, machines galore and scared parents. He was huge still, well over the 98% on all charts, but was "sickly." most of the time. When he was 10 months old a a state program suggested he was developly delayed. To be honest, I was making logical excuses. Thinking ofcourse he is not doing everything most kids his age were doing, he was HUGE and in the hospital and tied down with nachines more than not. How was he suppost to "develop" "normally"? I agreed to take him in for a evaluation at least, see what the experts thought. The first evaluation with a speech theripist was freeky, she noticed how noisily he drank his bottle, she asked to listen to him, and freaked out, asked us NOT to feed him and left the room. She came back and explained what was going on...he was silent aspirating, everything he was taking by mouth was going into his lungs, his muscle tome is very low and he had no controle (neither did the brain) on wher it went. This was why he had pnemonia ALL the time, the acid reflux did not help things we later found out. The stomach acid burnt his lung, the doc were not sure how this would turn out. He is now almost 7, still has problems, but doing better than any docs thought he would be doing! Devon was born with ingrown toe nails too! He still has them as well. He gets ingrown easily on other toes as well, his nails are thin and somewhat flat. You are ther only other mother that has said this! It is nice hearing my son is not alone. My son also has been plagued with ear infection on top of ear infection. The wierd thing is he never complained, and they never really "leaked", he just had ear infections every time we went in. We seen the ENT, she said the presure in there was not right, ear tubes would help the pressure (so he could hear & hopfully talk better) he had the tubes for about three years, It sems like after he got the tubes his ears would drain like nothing I have ever seen before,he got them out last summer and is doing fine. The upper resperatory thing is so familiar too. My sons started when he was about 2 months old, he got his first phnemonia. They say he has asthma too.Devon has had well over 30 operation and procedures done, and we know of a few more, like his nose reconstrict when he is around 9 years old, he has nasel deformities that do not help things) Sorry this has turned out so long...Devon has low muscle tone through out his body, global delays, he is also on the autism spectrum, allergies to everything, stomach issues, behavior issues, sleep apnea, obstructive and central, lots of thing I am forgetting right now. Devon is also very hyper active, does not sleep much inless it is medicine induced. Whenh we done his allergy testing, they tested for fourty things, he was NOTt allergic to pork and chocolate! he is t everything else. Same goes for enviromental allergies, allergic to everything. This last fall/winter he had a first reaction...he got 9 allergic reaction on his eye ball in a matter of three months, we narrowed it down to horses, he had always been arounf them, but all of a sudden developed reactions to them. He does thid often too, He is on many allergy medication, and gets sinus infections spring and fall. Sorry for my essay....I look forward to getting to know you and your family, welcome! We are all very happy to have you. This seems to be a lone syndrome, but at least we can talk with other parents on the internet! April mother of Devon 6
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