Sarah
Hi and welcome to the group - it is , as you will have realised,
fairly inactive alot of the time.
I think you need to ask your ped to do a height estimate based on
parental heights for your child. That will indicate whether she is
way outside of the percntile she shoudl be in for your heights. also
her head, they definitely should be looking at that too.
The only other thing I would say, is that if you are concerned you
shoudl write down all your concerns and send a letter to the ped
stating that you want things looked into as you are not satisfied and
feel that there are issues that need to be looked at in more detail.
If it is in writing then hopefully that would make them do something
if only that they now have it in writing.
Hope this helps
Miranda