Birthdays and anniversary dates are just so hard. Part of me is thankful that mine are 9 days apart. I feel like I just have to hold it together for those...
Linda: I know how tough birthday's can be. That said----I'm going to tell you how I got through "our" last birthday (Jeff's and mine). I did what Digger...
oh dear am sorry to hear that,we must all be dreading august,our birthday is the 23rd.i still cant get over that im getting older and my sis will always be...
hi there everyone,wish me luck next week because ive got to pluck the courage up to go and choose a headstone for my sis sam,cant quite get my head round...
Deb tt Sam, I really can relate to that. Rhiannon will always be 22.and in a couple of years, I'm going to turn 30. It kind of creeps me out. Rachel tt...
Deb, I don't think you're crazy at all. You go ahead and put the word "twin" on your Sam's gravestone because she was your twin and you did have that special...
maybe that's why your family left choosing the head stone to you. I made special posters for jeffs funeral with just me and him. I also had bubba put on the...
So there I was in my therapist's office talking about twin and he comes up with the brilliant statement of how I will be getting older but she will always be...
g'day deb, I didn't get any say in what went on my twins headstone, the airforce did it all. Mate if you have been given the task then put what you feel is...
Hello Monique,  Hmm, I don't agree with your therapists statement either. On the one hand, Kaytlin will forever be suspended in time at the age of...
Hi, I just went through the experience of creating a headstone for my twin brother Don who died in September 2008. Everyone's situation is different, but in my...
Hi Angela,  I read last night (Thursday evening) on the Caring Bridges website that Ravyn had lost consciousness around 11 PM last night. My heart goes...
I just went through something like this in March, infact that is why I joined the group. I knew I needed support eventhough I did not write about it at the...
... Hi Deb! Today was the day my twin Vanessa's headstone was erected at the cemetery...she died in a car accident in January of this year. Choosing the...
... Monique, Grief is an interesting emotional rollar coaster. I'm not sure if it's good or bad to socialize right away? I think it's a moment by moment thing....
I found this site by accident when I was trying to find support. My twin died June 6 this year. I am not unfamiliar with grief; we lost our mom at 7 but this...
... Hi Jay! Welcome to the site. You'll find lots of support from all of us on here. I don't come on the site all the time, but I have made some wonderful...
Hey Jay, you are in the right place for support and understanding of what you are going to go through in your loss. My twin, Gerry, died June 8th of 2008. The...
She Walks A Lonely Path She walks alone in a beautiful place. Longing to see her sisters face. Together someday they will be. Completing each other again you...
I am happy you have found this group. I lost my twin to cancer April of last year. This group has been a big help in me dealing with her death. We all know...
It was a while before I was able to be around people also. I could not talk about my twin without crying. Now I can talk about her and smile and even laugh...
Dear Brenda (Linda's Twin),  I really liked this poem that you wrote for your twin. I really enjoy poetry from TT's here who have the talent for such,...
Thank you Irene. I have more that I wrote while I was taking care of her. I am starting to be able to read them again. I am making a book in memory of her....
What a beautiful poem.I hope you don't mind that I print it off. I want to frame it with a pic. of me and Bonnie. Brenda TT Bonnie ... From: Brenda...
Hello, Irene, this getting-older business bothers me a lot from time to time. Quite recently I saw and held a model of an embryo a little younger than my twin...
I had a really good week with my twin just a month before she passed away. I have not had the first birthday after yet, but am dreading it. I am glad the last...
I am glad you liked it and felt like I was writing it for all twins. Linda and I did make a pact that if she didn't make it she would wait for me and we'd...
G'day Terri, I'm glad tyour last one was so good. please darl hang onto that memory, make the next one a special time for you both. there is no doudt about it...
g'day , happy 4Th of july, i hope you all have a great time & celebrate it with lots of happyness. i know it is the biggest day in the states, soak it all up! ...
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