Joan, I'm so sorry for your loss. I know you can't GO on, maybe, you can crawl on for some time. It IS horrible but there are others crawling alongside. We're...
Hi, LInda, that letter-burning is one of the things us wombtwins are usually told to do in order to "let go" of our twin. Many report that it helps, I don't,...
I know how hard it is when you miss someone so much that you ache; but what I can say is that if you think about something that you both liked to do together;...
Linda: I don't think it's silly for you to "ceremonially burn" those letters; it's just another way to have some closure. It sounds like it helped you...
Jacqueline, Allisa,Joan, I also am in lots of pain with the holidays and the days to come. I lost Shane Aug 18 and my dad 2 yrs before on Sept 18. Our birthday...
Shannon, thank you for the part with the "long, long trucking tour". That's a beautiful way to put it and very helpful to me, too. Twin-hug Thom's twin Angela ...
Shannon, I know we haven't corresponded directly for some time. But I just read this posting that you wrote and wanted to say how beautifully and simply you...
Hi, everybody, do you know what an advent calendar is? They are all over Germany this time of the year. There are simple ones made of cardboard with a little...
Dear Angela, Thank you so much for your beautiful explanation of Advent. As a former Catholic, I vaguely remember having an Advent calendar in school. I ...
Hi Angela (Thomas' Twin),  Wow, I have not heard nor seen of such calendars in years. I remember seeing one growing up a few times, and remember the...
Dear Shannon (Twin To Shane),  Oh....I've spent most of my time as a TT wondering what the meaning of all of this is....being "the last one left", and...
Angela,  What a beautiful event to add to your advent calender! I hope you treasure this memory for a long time not just for the christmas season.  The...
Hi everyone! I just wanted to share a thought with you all on what is always a double-edged kind of day for me. Today, December 2, is my birthday ! Now...
Hello Irene, Â I know you already know the powers that exisist in our world and how manipulitve they can be, so, you need to tend to what YOU need to get...
Angela: That's just wonderful!!!! What a plesant way to start the Christmas season. You did indeed encounter an Angel in disguise. You are so blessed....
Fred, your story made my eyes water. I just felt such a deep emotional release from reading your story. Thank you. And happy birthday to you and your twin. ...
Hello everyone!!!! This is something I wrote the year before my twin died. I'd like to share it with you. CHRISTMAS IS...... Christmas is a time for peace,...
Hi, Fred, happy birthday! Even if it is one day late. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and the poem. You know what your story made me think of, the big...
Hi, Jennifer, thank you for sharing your story. It's just like that. I always marvel at the way my children manage to keep the spirit of christmas in their...
Jennifer What great poem/story. My twin Bobby loved Christmas and lights on his house. Infact this year in his memory my house is beginning to look like the ...
Thank you for sharing your story with us, it gave me a peek of your childhood and put a smile on my face. Happy Belated Birthday to both of you!! Sent via...
I'm not sure if I belong to this group. I never knew my twin brother so i have no memories to share. All I have is pain, anxiety, and fear of letting anyone...
Hello,  You most definitely belong here. I have some memories of my womb mate sister Kaytlin as she died the night before our 5th birthday. Our womb...
Hear is a Poem my Daughter wrote about my twin that she never new...... it is called Chrissy, oh dear Chrissy Althougth I've never met you I feel like I have. ...
Dear Twinless Twin, You most certainly do belong here. There are several twins who lost their twin in utero on this site. I'm suggesting a book that you might ...