Dear Tammy, Thank you so much for those insightful words of wisdom. Most of those I probably knew or felt, but seeing it written down is so helpful. How are...
hi all, the TTSGI annual conference is coming up and I want to write and wish everyone a wonderful time - I lost my twin sister Lisa in 2001 and I went to the...
Lynn...and all....you put it so wonderfully. My first conference was in Chicago and I entered the conference with one of the stages of grief looming over...
Dear Twins, Today is not and easy day Lisa has been gone from me only 4 months.It feels like a lifetime.One minute we were laughing together and the next all I...
Does anyone have any advice on how I can begin to get my own health back in order while dealing with this intense grief? I have been having horrible headaches...
... Donna, My husband had terrible migraine headaches for years before we met each other. His first wife struggled with alcoholism and mental problems. He was ...
Hi Donna, I am Tammy, My twin was Tonia....... I was overweight when I lost Tonia........THat was leading me to having problems from my weight. I went into a...
Hi Linda,,, You are a great twin,,,, I did take my twin for granted a few times while she was alive,,,,,,but, I realized what I had done and I made it up to...
Well I'm Kelsie and this will be my first conference and I can only hope that it is as wonderful and amazing as everyone keeps saying but the pessimist in me...
Diane, I wouldn't even know how to go about finding a grief counselor let alone on who I woul feel comfortable talking to and would understand. I asked a...
Tammy, Thanks for all the ideas. Wow, weight loss is a great side effect of grief. I haven't seen any of that unfortunately. My family is suffocating me at...
Hi Donna,,,, Yeah, the weight thing was really not planned,,,,,,I just got so over run with the grief , that food didnt even have a taste to me anymore, or...
Dear Donna- This is Linda, twin to Paula. I am writing you because I saw a connection between my health and grief also. Physical problems came with the...
Hi Kelsie- You will not feel alone...Not to worry! Actually, quite the contrary - it will be a huge comfort to not feel alone. You will be with other twins...
Well I too lost quite alot of weight after my twin passed. About 35-40 lbs. Except I wasn't overweight and now i'm almost underweight for my age but hey I'm a...
Hey Kelsie, How is it going with you ?? I havent seen a post from you, I have been real busy, I am sorry,..... Are you gettin through ?? Take care,,,,,,,,,,eat...
Kelsie, Focus on getting that weight back on. My twin sister was underweight and lost more weight whenever anxiety was high. That was one factor that caused...
Donna - My heart goes out to you. I have a very good friend named Debbie - with a twin sister named Donna - so when I saw your name I immediately thought of...
Hi Linda (twin to Paula), I was wondering....have you thought of publishing your last e-mail in the Twinless Times? I think your e-mail regarding grief and...
Dear Twins, I can't stand the feeling of being so alone even though I have my family.I try to talk to my mom but she just says I'm looking for something I'll...
... Dear Linda, You are not alone in bearing that empty, heart-wrenching huge hole inside you. I had that feeling for years. As I've read what other twins have...
Hi Linda,,, Sometimes, I just want to scream and cry like a 2 year old because I feel so much like,,,,)@#$*#()# ,,,why doesn't anyone get it,,,,is there...
Linda, I just finished reading Living Without Your Twin by Betty Jean Case and would be happy to mail it on to you. It had some helpful advice, nothing...
Dear Twins, Some days are better than others as you all know.But this is what I was feeling today. Part Of Her How do you get others to understand what you are...
Dear Linda (twin to Lisa), Thank you for sharing another poem. I hope you don't mind me adding this one to a collection of twin poems (written by TT's) that...
Hi all, Irene here, So here I am at the computer, with the headphones on, listening to some music-when I should really be trying to pretend I can get some...
Hi Renie! I don't mind your ramblings at all. I think they're great. I enjoy reading them. And I like the fact that lately you're not signing off as "The last...
