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Re: 3 years and still crying

--- In TwinlessTwinsSupportGroup@yahoogroups.com, "fredswartzpt"
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Hi, Fred, I just found this site and I can see by reading your post and others
how we all have a form of emptiness. You say you "still" feel empty. I'm not
sure that ever goes away but the pain of it may lessen. My sister died almost
three years ago and when I let myself think about her I feel that kind of
emptyness you speak of. I agree that your physical health can be related to
your emotional health and I hope your recover quickly from your recent surgery.


> My identical twin Jeff died suddenly. I knew that something was wrong all
that day and recieved "the call" from my oldest brother. It has been just over
a year and I am still feeling empty. My health has declined over the last year.
My counseler has suggested that it may be associated with the loss of my twin.
I am at home recovering from my third surgery this year.
> --- In TwinlessTwinsSupportGroup@yahoogroups.com, "pattyjudd" <pattyjudd@>
wrote:
> >
> > My identical twin sister, Micki, died almost three years ago. She wasn't
sick in the traditional sense, she died from alcoholic poisoning. We lived in
different states and I wasn't aware that she was doing so badly because she
wasn't answering her phone. Then out of the blue I received a call one morning
from her next door neighbor saying she found Micki dead. My husband doesn't
understand the sadness I'm feeling and I feel like I have no one to talk to
about this. I go through periods of time when I feel fine and then others where
I feel like it happened yesterday. I feel abandoned and mad.
> >
>





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My identical twin sister, Micki, died almost three years ago. She wasn't sick in the traditional sense, she died from alcoholic poisoning. We lived in...
pattyjudd
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Jul 7, 2009
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Hi pattyjudd, You are in the right place. Keep sharing your thoughts and emotions with us and we will do the same. Somehow it is theraputic for all of us to...
Dr. Jerry WineBrenner
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Jul 7, 2009
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hi there i am so sorry that you feel alone,my identical twin samantha died 2 years ago suddenly too ,not too different from your story.Gosh yes the sadness...
Ms deborah watts-wilson
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Jul 7, 2009
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Hello,   Oh, I can very much relate to the anger and abandonment aspects of twin loss-something that took many a years to surface.  My womb mates left this...
Renie
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Jul 7, 2009
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Patty: The feelings you're having are perfectly normal. Any kind of loss is never easy; but Twin Loss is twice as hard. It doesn't matter if it happened...
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Jul 8, 2009
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G'day everyone i can remember when Dougy joined the army before me " "strueth" was i lost, i felt so out of whack. It was pretty hard being together all our...
grant douglass
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Jul 8, 2009
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My identical twin Jeff died suddenly. I knew that something was wrong all that day and recieved "the call" from my oldest brother. It has been just over a...
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Jul 9, 2009
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G day Fred, sorry to her about Jeff. my mate Mavis carried a pain for hell of along time, she'd seen everyone about it, tonnes of medical reasons where given,...
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... Hi, Fred, I just found this site and I can see by reading your post and others how we all have a form of emptiness. You say you "still" feel empty. I'm...
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