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© Wednesday Jan 10th, 2007

 

Using TLR or STLRH for Conflict Resolution

(TLR = Thanks, Love, Respect)

(STLRH = I’m Sorry. I Thank, Love, Respect and Honor you.)

(Many of you are familiar with the healing modality TLR.  If you are new to this, please download the free manual and addendum from the Be Awesome or The Allowance of The Flow group’s files section.)

TLR1.0.pdf TLR 1.0 - TLR Appreciation - An Introduction, A Beginner's Manual on the TLR Appreciation Protocols, by Dayawanti D'Sa, including the Original Classic Version of TLR Appreciation Protocol as well as the New Clearing Duality Protocol. This manual is available to all at no charge. My thanks, love, respect and appreciation to all whose participation has made this possible.

TLRAddendum1.1.pdf TLR APPRECIATION Addendum 1.1: TLR Clearing Dualities - Basic and “CH-O-S-E I-T” protocols. Free download. This is an Addendum to the Introductory TLR manual. This method is much easier, as it uses an installation for INSTANT EFT with TLR. People are getting powerful results from this Chain-of-Sensation-Emotion-Image-Thought combined with Clearing Dualities Method. For a description of Basic Recipe of EFT, see TLR Intro Manual, or go to www.emofree.com. Feedback requested and appreciated.

 

Pick a person you have recently had a conflict with.  Now the idea is to heal both of you and heal the energy of the conflict.

You will work on both yourself and the other person, by proxy.  You can either start with your own emotions or their emotions, whichever is convenient for you (or whichever is stronger).

Let’s say you start with the other person’s emotions first. So, doing a proxy session for them will surprisingly help you to heal and help you to understand the situation better. 

1. Start by proxy tapping (from their side): “I don’t TLR you. “
2. Now allow yourself to think of all their gripes against you, say them one by one in daisy chain fashion….and tap away!
3. As you find their SUDS going down to zero or almost zero, you will find their attitude towards you will shift.
4. At this point, start tapping: “I TLR you.” (or use STLRH: “I’m sorry. I thank, love, respect and honor you.”) until you surrogately feel their energy towards you has shifted at a cellular level….and they are truly sorry, and truly thank, love, respect and honor you (from the viewpoint of their Higher Self, at the very least).

 

Now do the same thing from your own side.

5. Start by tapping (from your own side): “I don’t TLR you. “
6. Now allow yourself to think of all your gripes against them, say them one by one in daisy chain fashion….and tap away!
7. As you find your SUDS going down to zero or almost zero, you will find your attitude towards them will shift.
8. At this point, start tapping: “I TLR you.” (or use STLRH: “I’m sorry, I thank, love, respect and honor you.”) until you can remember some wonderful things about this person….and you truly allow the energy to shift within you at a cellular level….you truly thank, love, respect and honor them.
9. Imagine a better and new dynamic between yourselves. What steps would you take to deal with the situation now? If you feel any anxiety about these steps, then tap on them till your SUDS are zero, and you feel at ease with a course of action that you feel at peace with.  If not, then think of another solution.  
10. Remember, in life, the solution is there before the problem ever arose….and my recent reading of Friendship with God (from the conversations with God book series) is gently reminding me of that…. J Also, sometimes it may help to relax a bit, give it some time or sleep on it before you decide on a new course of action.  J Sometimes the best course of action is to give it to God and let it work itself out in its own way.  J Listen to your inner wisdom.  Your I Am Presence is full of Love, Wisdom and Power.  Allow that to be your Inner Guide.
11. Embark upon your chosen steps.

Frequencies of Sorry, Thanks, Love and Respect and Honoring are very healing, very soothing and very calming…both for you and for the other person. Remember that despite your and their negative emotions, in actual fact, each of us is a spark of the Divine.  Masaru Emoto’s work on water and its crystals shows us how different a drop of water crystallized into a snowflake is that is imbued with love, compared to one that is imbued with hate.  You may feel you have not had an effect on the other person by doing this work, but you may be surprised at how the energy between you has shifted….and new dynamics are created between you now.

J I have found it to be very effective over the years and months that I have used it, and would like to hear YOUR comments.  Your personal feedback on this is welcome. I have found this to be an amazing modality to use in situations when things between 2 people feel “stuck”, or at times of great anger, resentment, conflict, etc. 

J Give it a go and let me know! J

J What you reap is what you sow!J

Love,

Dayu