When I say no, nothing gets done. If I need help with something and ask for help it might get done a year later. No exageration. I asked my husband to clean...
I went to the Rheumy. With a list of everything this time. When I am in pain I can remeber what is happening but I never fail to feel just fine the day of...
That sounds terribly frustrating. I did get to a point once where I had to, for lack of a better term, lower my standards with regards to house cleaning. My...
I think getting your rheumy to listen is a pretty big step, so I wouldn't say you've accomplished nothing, just not as much as you would have liked. I think...
In a message dated 7/1/2005 12:46:42 PM Eastern Standard Time, rilynme@... writes: With a list of everything this time. When I am in pain I can remeber...
Hi I have learned NO is just not enough.I had to teach myself the word OK for now. I can no way live up to the standards set by myself as I were before my AS...
In a message dated 7/1/2005 5:14:47 PM Eastern Standard Time, no_reply@yahoogroups.com writes: It truly is unfair to be the only one who cleans a place when...
Thanks for the disclaimer, Betty! LOL! As for the buddhist thing ... that would make a good reality show, wouldn't it? "Karmic Reincarnations" ... Talk about...
This Week at the Spondy Cafe: In honor of the Fourth of July: Patriotic Pancakes! Join a splendiferous spasm of 'specially sporty Spondys for a friendly,...
Was I happy to find this group! I was diagnosed with AS over 10 years ago, shortly after I was diagnosed with Ulcerative Colitis - apparently bad luck likes to...
Betty, I was just lamenting that I have on one to help me. My husband was sick for many years and I was the one to care for him and all else. He passed away ...
Love that...don't let yesterday take up too much of today. I have been a little lucky with my family. They live with the mess...LOL, no not really the do clean...
One way of getting people to do things is to be specific. I work with young children and they need to hear each step in the process. Just to say clean up is...
In a message dated 7/3/2005 12:57:38 PM Eastern Standard Time, lyn12255@... writes: One way of getting people to do things is to be specific. I work...
I think what may be hard for people to realize is that we have limitations. They don't see outward signs of the disease until it has progressed so far. Yes,...
I just wanted to add a male voice to this discussion. I think the problem comes down to something more than husbands that are selfish or don't listen or are...
I remember one time I went to a locum, and I was complaining about my husband who was being an idiot at the time, expecting me to do heaps of things...this did...
hello Spondy... ....what exactly are the symptoms of iritis?....i have been having some eye problems and i don't know what to do....not sure if it is...
In a message dated 7/4/2005 4:31:14 AM Eastern Standard Time, bairbre.williams@... writes: For instance, when I still took ... If I were on a bus...and...
In a message dated 7/4/2005 1:31:16 AM Eastern Standard Time, no_reply@yahoogroups.com writes: It is amazing how unperceptive people can be sometimes Yes it...
I call it my bloody red eye time. At first, I thought I was getting into something allergenic, but my eye doctor saw it during a routine eye exam and put me...
When I got it I thought I had pink eye. I had taken a nap and woke up with an eye so sensitive that I could not even stand any light. Getting it examed was...
... wrote: I was diagnosed with AS over 10 years ago, shortly after I was diagnosed with Ulcerative Colitis - apparently bad luck likes to travel in pairs. I...
Hi Dan. I have not read the other responses yet, so maybe someone has already told you this, but Iritis is a serious problem. If left untreated it can severely...
Anything to do with the eyes is dangerous, especially with AS. Don't take a chance. Call your eye doctor or find one that will get you in right off. We have...
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