We've had an interesting few weeks. Our son moved back home for the summer. A
couple weeks ago, my husband and I went away for our 25th anniversary and left
him to house sit and take care of the dogs. We specifically told him "no
guests." We came home to find evidence of a party, along with a condom wrapper
next to our bed! Needless to say, it upset us very much that he would have sex
in our bed. We have since found out that he had his boyfriend stay in our home
while we were away and then lied about it. He is now asking for his friend to
come and stay for a few days. We will be here and have told him he is free to
come visit and even for dinner, but not to stay overnight. We are being accused
of having a double-standard, since his oldest brother's girlfriend stayed in our
home a few months ago -- on separate floors. It may be a double-standard, but we
don't agree with his lifestyle and cannot stand the thought of having him stay
overnight, especially since we know they previously had sex in our bed. Has
anyone else had to deal with this question?