I have a 20 year old son I thought he might be gay and even questioned
him about it. He told me he was not. Well last week he told me he was
and told me he has been sexually active for 3 years.

He has been an active member of our church and played the piano. Since
he told me he is no longer playing the piano and is making really poor
choises. He is now dating men and even he says the guys he is meeting w
don't meet his values. The 2 guys he has met in the past week drinks
and is pretty much sleeping with anyone. My son was with the same
person for 3 years and that 17 year old was a friend of ours too.

I keep asking him is this the life you really want to live. He has
convinced himself that its ok. I am really scared for him and worry
what else he will get into.

I guess I need someone to talk to so I dont go totally insane