I found a link online to a chapter in a book I read a few years ago and thought it was great. My lifestyle was pretty solitary at the time and I didn't have...
I've been dealing with social anxiety for a while now. I am making progress, albeit rather slowly. I've been looking around for resources, and happened upon...
I have a question dos the girls don't like shy guys ? And why ? Because whenever I talk to the girls my face color goes red and I get nervous and confused...
Hi, My name is James Williams. I am currently undertaking a PhD in Psychology at Swinburne University in Melbourne, Australia. I am interested in some of the...
Hi Everyone, Just found this group in my search for information on shyness on the web. I am 27, and have spent my teenage and adult life under the shadow of a...
Hey all, I just wanted to put it out there that I have really found that focusing on relaxation during social interaction helps me not focus so much on myself...
Hey all, I was wondering what people's thought are on making conversation. I have asked questions about this before, but they have been hidden in other...
Hey there everybody, my name's Simon and I recently found this group while searching for some advice on dealing with shyness online. I'm currently going to...
I'm interested in how you guys get feedback from people as to whether you're doing ok in a social situation. I'm unsure of how to go about doing this, or how...
Hey everyone, So I am going into my third day of college, and as I'm sure you can expect, it's not so easy for a "shy" girl like myself. I'm wondering if ...
Hello, I am currently taking a Human Relations class at Baker College Online and came across this group through the shyness.com web page. I consider myself...
Hi Group, I just found this group and joined, with the hope of continuing to improve my level of socialness. My shy/inhibited behaviour has been problematic...
Hello to all!!! I am amazed to see that i am not the only one with such problems!! Well my main problem is that i can't seem to get into any relationships with...
I've been friendly towards people who give me positive cues that they want to be friends and I'm comfortable with, but once I'm friends with a person I either...
Hey, well I've been trying to make friends with people for all my life, trying to learn new techinques and modeling others that seem to be good socially, using...
I was really pleased to receive all of your emails in my inbox this morning; it's been the most mails on here in a while, I'd be willing to bet. I'm glad to...
Since we've been talking of awareness lately, I'd like to pose an exercize for everyone here. I think that once we become aware of what's stopping us from our...
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There is a pattern with me and I was wondering if anyone else has the same problem. I cannot figure out what to say fast enough for the conversation! Many...
I hope somebody can help me, because I have a problem that no psychology book contains and I have never met or even heard of anybody with my problem. 10 years...
I'm a bulky person and i want to burn fat and maintain, whatever muscle i have what should i do. Should i do dropset or should i do moderate weights and high...
Hi, this is my first time posting here. I've read through a couple of posts, and this looks like a good group. Everyone seems very supportive. My question...
Hi All, I joined yesterday and I've been reading all of the posts. I can definately resonate with a lot of the stuff you're talking about. At the same time, it...
From my new free site www.howtobecooler.com that I'm trying to get the word out about: How to Get a Social Life Getting a social life isn't all that hard. The...
hi group I'm new here i've got something to discuss. well as a shy person I don't have any close friends, no matter guys or girls, whom I can really count on...