well, some cynic person can interpret these sentences altogether as: you! what do you even know about pshychology? you don't even have normal emotions you are...
okay, fair enough. You completely misinterpreted what I was saying and I accept that. I wasn't yelling, and it looks like I was the one that did the offending....
How can you say psychology is good or bad? Surely nobody would say all of psychology is good, as there are a lot of crackpot theories out there. But there's...
I'm kind of reluctant to say anything now. Maybe I should just say it doesn't seem to work for me. I don't know the answer to shyness, except maybe finding the...
Hey Allan, I appologize if my remarks seemed offensive; they weren't intended that way. I'm just trying to figure out what works, and didn't want to hear...
you didn't offend me. Something I said set off someone who wrote me a long email basically telling me off, which is fine but it made me feel like I'm just...
Hi, My name is James Williams. I am currently undertaking a PhD in Psychology at Swinburne University in Melbourne, Australia. I am interested in some of the...
Was really all I said so worthless of attention? I think I suggested an idea that if is worked upon by some experienced experts, can yield really unseen...
Ok here I copy and paste some parts of my messages if you had missed it: ...for body fitness, there's a club. they never give you instructions and leave you to...
Hi! Actually, I'm sure you could find professional coach to challenge you in dating, or even just social, situations. But why would you approach fake (trained)...
The things you propose exist, or at least very close to it. I've been working on shyness for decades (I'm an older guy), and in my experience the sorts of ...
... It might be really useful for those that find even that to be difficult. I know of people that started by talking to a picture taped to their living room ...
Thank you very much. I didn't know there actually exists this type of therapy. Ah you gave me hope maybe I can really use some help to get out of my prison. I...
didn't know such a thing existed. Do they cost money? Where are they? I am curious how you're supposed to know who to approach if you don't know them. What do...
They are kind of expensive and also not 100% what you are looking for, but still quite good. Since shy guys are not a big enough market, they market the ...
Hi All, I joined yesterday and I've been reading all of the posts. I can definately resonate with a lot of the stuff you're talking about. At the same time, it...
kind of sort of, i relate a little, but I'm still in the middle of my mess and a bit too bitter to feel really altruistic, plus I feel like my advice isn't of...
I think the advantage here is, you can talk to people who haven't forgotten what it's like to be in your position. Ideally, you can get a lot of different...
From my new free site www.howtobecooler.com that I'm trying to get the word out about: How to Get a Social Life Getting a social life isn't all that hard. The...
I don't even remember at this point. The whole thing just wears me out. I just know someone misinterpreted something or took it personally or I don't know what...
Let's say for the sake of argument you ARE - or I am, in this case - a desperate lonely loser. As in love and sex starved, flat broke with no way to go out, no...
Allan, Are you in the US? I just got a statement from social security showing what I've paid so far and it said that you could draw from it under certain...
been trying. So far they just said sorry about your luck. Even unemployment blew me off. My father is trying to help but not getting anywhere. I don't know. I...
Hi, I believe we can achieve success in life but certainly not with negative thought or attitude. To change situation is to change our way of thinking (and our...
if what you want can only be achieved through the unhappiness and suffering of others you have to decide if you're truly worthy of what you want. What I mean...
Hi, I just joined the group, also. I can definitely say that it is hard for me to make friends, and to meet new people. I'm a widow with two teenage sons. I...
Hi Ruth, I just got the email notification of your post. Had a little problem with my email setup. I myself plan to become more social through dating. Since my...