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Re: [SocialFitnessForum] thank u guys

I think that this is excellent advice.  Also I wonder about anxiety in this type of situation.  Often times I feel anxious and imagine that the other person is just fine, when actually I imagine that you're right in that girls can't often reject people but instead act a bit weird.  I imagine that they feel anxious too, however we often leave saying to ourselves "what's wrong with me" because they always act that way.  Perhaps our anxiety matches up with girls who are pre-desposed to be anxious with guys anyway, and when we become less anxious we attract a different type of girl; one who is confident and who appreciates (and shows this appreciation) for guys who are confident.
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From: Will
Sent: Friday, May 29, 2009 12:03 AM
Subject: Re: [SocialFitnessForum] thank u guys

With practice it will come easier. Girls don't like indecisive guys.
Women run away because... the ones you talk to are assholes. There
are girls who are just plain nasty. Even girls you would not thing
are bad, they end up being so. A lot is with communication. Girls
have major communication problems. You expect them to act one way and
they act another. You can't expect girls to tell you anything. It's
best not to dwell. If you don't hear back from a girl after a
day(even if you call a day later), forget about her. she may respond
a few days later, but if she was really into you, even just as a
friend, she would make the initiative to call you or call you back.
Or make the effort to just get in touch with you and ask whats up.
They may try to be nice, even invite you places on occasion. But this
is the communication issue. They will be nice to you, but take it at
face value. She'd be nice to a total stranger. It's perhaps a subtle
hint at saying she's sorry she doesn not want to be good friends with
you, or just the way she is. The niceness does not indicate that she
is good, but she is unable to reject herself.

On Thu, May 28, 2009 at 11:42 PM, emaildjamel <emaildjamel@yahoo.com> wrote:
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> I have a question dos the girls don't like shy guys ? And why ? Because
> whenever I talk to the girls my face color goes red and I get nervous and
> confused and girl just run away can I change that or I have to live with it
> the rest of my life?.
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>



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I have a question dos the girls don't like shy guys ? And why ? Because whenever I talk to the girls my face color goes red and I get nervous and confused...
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With practice it will come easier. Girls don't like indecisive guys. Women run away because... the ones you talk to are assholes. There are girls who are...
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I think that this is excellent advice. Also I wonder about anxiety in this type of situation. Often times I feel anxious and imagine that the other person is...
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