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I was wondering where everyone had gone... I haven't heard from anyone on here, and wanted to check and see how everyone is. Has anyone had some good experiences with social stuff lately; ya know like talking good and stuff? :-) Things have been going great for me lately in all areas of life, however I'm finding that I'm much more confident in social situations now. I'm finding, hard as it may be to believe, that I'm now able to talk to people and keep the conversation going. I've noticed that, rather than feeling awkward about pauses or lags in the conversation, lately I feel good by just putting myself out there and going with it (whatever it is). I find that most often others are more nervous--ore at least as nervous--than I am, and that I no longer need to feel awkward because I don't worry about whether or not I'm doing something wrong or not. I've tried to stop evaluating things based on whether they're the "right" or "wrong" thing and rather evaluate things on whether they're resourceful for me or not--feeling anxious because I'm not sure what the "correct" thing to say isn't very resourceful--and I'm finding it easier and easier as time goes on. Dare I say fun? :-)
At any rate, I wanted to find out how others are doing and ended up rambling on about myself. Please don't let me dominate this conversation; let's hear what's up with you?
----- Original Message -----From: WillSent: Monday, June 11, 2007 7:43 PMSubject: Re: [SocialFitnessForum] Hello?
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