Re: [SocialFitnessForum] Re: Hi from a newbie & ? about taking reasonable social risks
well, this started out an advice and support site for socializing in general. When I was last posting on it it deteriorated into a poison pen pal site, and no one has really talked on it since then that I've seen. But that was a while ago. If you want to talk I'll listen.
Sam Rau <sam.rau@...> wrote:
What is this site mainly for? I don't have much time right now, and didn't have a chance to look at it in detail, but it appears to be a site about advise for dating etc. I'm
curious as to what stuck out to you; what makes this site such a great resource for people like us? Thanks for the advice.
Hi, this is my first time posting here. I've read through a couple of posts, and this looks like a good group. Everyone seems very supportive. My question...
... Its probably best to look at this objectively unless someone has told you directly they dont like talking to you then you have no evidence that this is...
The cognitive part is crucial if you're going to be experimenting with things an it sounds like you're willing to which is great. It makes the difference...
One big thing which has improved my social skills is my initiating things more. All to often I find that I wait for someone to come up to me and talk, which...
Sam Rau
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Dec 18, 2006 8:49 pm
It's always great hearing from you again. Your words are wise....
Thanks; I appreciate that! I had to unsubscribe for a while, and I just recently signed up again. I meant to say hi to everyone, but things have been pretty...
Sam Rau
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Dec 19, 2006 7:21 pm
I haven't always been able to see this, but more recently I'll be walking away from some encounter where maybe I had some unpleasant feeling come up somewhere,...
I've learned that whenever we have bad feelings, it's usually due to us focusing on what we don't want. For example, I might be focused on not screwing up the...
Sam Rau
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Dec 20, 2006 7:33 pm
Yes, this seems to be widely accepted in the fields of psychology and spirituality. In my experience, as soon as an opportunity comes to screw up something...
Hi juls_lilly! Being prepared and knowing what to say when the opportunity arises is very important. Ask the person you want to talk to questions about ...
hi everyone please go visite www.sosuave.net I think it has what each one of guys needs to learn about relationships with ladies. if you did go there, visit...
What is this site mainly for? I don't have much time right now, and didn't have a chance to look at it in detail, but it appears to be a site about advise for...
Sam Rau
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Jan 16, 2007 5:07 am
well, this started out an advice and support site for socializing in general. When I was last posting on it it deteriorated into a poison pen pal site, and no...
Yeah, I know what ya mean. I had to unsubscribe for a while-- I had some email troubles-- and it seems that, unfortunately, it came at just the wrong time for...
Samuel D Rau
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Jan 18, 2007 7:26 pm
I'm sorry I was away from my computer for a while. I hate to reply late! but I hope you still read this. yes I totally agree with you. the price for staying...
I've found that to be successful at something, I've gotten a lot out of modeling what it is that people who are successes in the areas in which I would like to...
Samuel D Rau
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Feb 8, 2007 7:37 pm
thanks for the helpful message. there was some really good and new points. I am very much interested to get more help from you. and I appreciate it if you're...
I like talking to people who have been where I was, and who understand what I then thought nobody understood. But if you'd like help with something, you have...
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