Reove us from your list (please).

Thanks!

>From: "punk_dude_20002" <punk_dude_20002@...>
>Reply-To: SocialFitnessForum@yahoogroups.com
>To: SocialFitnessForum@yahoogroups.com
>Subject: [SocialFitnessForum] Re: not really afraid of social environments...
>Date: Sat, 30 Jul 2005 05:04:36 -0000
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>I totally agree, im a highschool football player, and you wouldnt
>believe what all these kids ramble on about stuff, its like where is
>it coming from? I dont mind silence, but even if it was awkward, why
>whould you want to kill the silence with something stupid? But, on the
>other hand, if it was somebody that you are just meeting that would be
>a different story, if there was an awkward silence then i would just
>talk about themselves or ask questions, but nothing stupid to fill a
>gap of silence.
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>--- In SocialFitnessForum@yahoogroups.com, "avetice" <avetice@y...> wrote:
> > Hey, names Ray. I'm starting to get annoyed with my lack of
> > conversational skills. I've been called shy, quiet, all that fun
> > stuff. However I'm not really afraid of social gatherings or any of
> > that. I love hanging out with my friends and family. The thing is I
> > just dont talk much. If I knew what to talk to people about I wouldnt
> > appear to be so shy I think. It's when everyone wants to get together
> > to just sit around a campfire or something and talk, thats when I stop
> > enjoying myself because everyone is talking, and I can never think of
> > anything to talk about. There is always at least one person, during
> > these kind of gatherings that will say "whats a matter Ray, is
> > something wrong? your so quiet?". The only thing that really gets me
> > through these sort of things is that I just start observing everything
> > and taking mental visual notes, because I am an illustrator. Never
> > took a date to a resteraunt before because I dont want to bore them to
> > death with my lack of conversation. I don't even find silence awkward,
> > i don't understand why people feel so awkward when a silent moment
> > comes around.
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