Have anyone else noticed that people stick together more in
small towns or communities, then they do in big cities?
I've noticed this in a small town lately. Because there are so
few people in this small city, the areas that are busy tend to
be people who know each other. If I talk to one person chances
are that person will know someone who knows me or know someone
else who knows me etc.

I find people are more likely to introduce themselves. When a
stranger comes around a few times he'll very likely get noticed
and introduced like I was. People also take more risks such as
asking personal questions (which I never mind answering).
The staff at a certain restaurant I frequently visit in a small
town have gotten to know me well by now. Every one knows where
I work and everyone knows other staff and customers who know
me etc. One night while walking home, a staff member stopped by
me on the street and offered me a drive home. I took it and had
a good conversation. And even though I was still almost a
stranger to that staff, it didn't bother her. I've never
experienced this where people are lost in the hustle and bustle
of large cities.

As a person battling shyness, I find easier to locate someone
to speak to when people appear more receptive and less weary of
strangers. As I'm typing this I'm reminded of visiting my home
town in Quebec (a very small town). I knocked on a strangers
door to ask them call a taxi, and to my surprise, was invited
inside. I was even asked if I wanted a cup of cocoa while
waiting. I was treated like I was their long lost friend. They
showed genuine interest in me. Anyone else noticed this?

And ever since having moved to a larger city, I miss that
experience. But I'm lucky to have found another small town!