I, too, have pondered this, but don't know how I'd respond differently. Even
today I sometimes encounter situations where I feel someone has violated my
personal boundaries but I don't know what to do about it. How aggressively
should one defend his personal boundaries?

--Box


--- Stuart Goldman <stugold@...> wrote:


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I've certainly felt that way, especially with my
parents - even though they are in their 70's and I am
in my 40's. Over the years, I've found the answer.
It is to imagine the situation, determine the best
response, and practice it - out loud. I can't say
that I do this as often as I should, but it is a
method that can bring success - if you're willing to
put in the work.

Stuart


--- phildbh <phildbh@...> wrote:

>
> Although I have looked at my life in different ways,
> over the years,
> trying to understand myself better. I never really
> considered
> shyness until recently, yet it seems so obvious now.
> In my reading
> I've started to look at the "other side" bullying
> behavior and feel
> like I've invited that type of person into my life
> because of my
> shyness. Has anyone else felt this way and what can
> be done about
> it? In the past I've tried to avoid the person but
> that doesn't
> always work especially in work situations. Any
> suggestions? Thanks
>
>
>
>


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