Honestly, I would like to consider shyness as a gift, but not likely
a gift that I might like and use. I have read articles suggesting
that shy people are friendly, honest, and compasionate people. Well,
I fit all of these descriptions. But this doesn't stop me from being
shivered when I am around others. How can I consider shyness as a
gift when I feel like talking, but have nothing to say? how can I
consider shyness as a gift when I see a beautiful who seems to be
interested in me, but I am too weak to approach her and talk to her.

I gotta tell you I don't consider my shyness as a gift at all. People
that I might call me friends are not really friends because If
they're going somewhere that they consider important, they are not
going to invite me because I won't talk. They likely won't introduce
me with their friends because I won't talk.

I don't mind being shy; but, I just wanna be able to talk freely and
with confidence. I just wanna be able to approach people whenever I
feel like it while having no fear whatsoever.

How silly does that sound to exchange smiles with a girl every single
day and night, and you feel that she wants you to ask her out, but
you still don't want to do because you are so scared to be in a
relationship?

Well, I think this site can help say some things that I have never
expressed before, and that will help change some negavities about my
shyness.

I hope that you can help me with your ideas.