Hi Annette, I've read some of those self-help books and they're okay. But I haven't improved much, I dunno maybe I need some motivational thing. But thanks I'll look up the first one since I've read the second one already.
~Bora~
Annette _ <laprofessore@...> wrote:
You might try some books on this subject (both paperback, on Amazon):"How to Talk to Anyone, Anytime, Anywhere: The Secrets of Good Communication" by Bill Gilbert and Larry King"Shyness: A Bold New Approach" by Bernardo Carducci. Contains advice on making conversation: it's less about finding the "right" thing to say than about directing your attention and warmth toward other people rather than on yourself.Good luck,Annette----- Original Message -----From: sophiebo84Sent: Wednesday, June 02, 2004 2:46 AMSubject: [SocialFitnessForum] ShynessHi, My problem with shyness is that I try to be conversational but
people don't seem to give me a chance because I guess I say the
wrong thing and it just creates an awkward silence because I don't
know what else to say.
I've always been shy though at times more than others. I had an
overprotective mother so I never really socialized with other people
my age when I was was a child. So as I grew into young adulthood I
didn't know how to interact with my peers and throughout adolescence
I've had only one or two very close friends at different times.
I just need good advice or counselling for this sort of thing. Can
anyone suggest anything?
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