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SHYNESS RELIEF HELP NEEDED!!   Message List  
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Re: [SocialFitnessForum] Re: SHYNESS RELIEF HELP NEEDED!!

Another thing comes to mind: after practicing the desensitization
routine for a while, I actually came to *enjoy* a slight mild sensation
of anxiety. I guess I began to associate it with growth and a sense of
new positive things. And that was way cool, because then the practice
became a life habit (aside from a few periods of retreat, as is normal
in these things).

Hopefully you too will get a similar sensation. Someone once told me
that anxiety and excitement are the same emotion, just with two
different interpretations. I believe it.

--Bob


--- stealth372 <stealth371@...> wrote:

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Thanks Bob.Ill take your advice to heart or slaughter, hehe with the
opposite sex,and try to see how it turns out.Interesting method to
use,almost to the likes of the old saying "Practice makes perfect"

I guess ill just have to overstep my comfort zone,as they sure aint
gonna force me hehe.Thanks for the genuine help.


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Hi.I was wondering if anyone could help me.I think i have been suffering from shyness within myself for a long time now,and i feel that its killing the very...
stealth372
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Aug 31, 2003
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First of all, an awful lot of other guys have been in the same situation -- really! Hopefully that can at least provide a small amount of comfort. Having been...
Bob Mayo
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Sep 1, 2003
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Thanks Bob.Ill take your advice to heart or slaughter, hehe with the opposite sex,and try to see how it turns out.Interesting method to use,almost to the likes...
stealth372
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Sep 1, 2003
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Another thing comes to mind: after practicing the desensitization routine for a while, I actually came to *enjoy* a slight mild sensation of anxiety. I guess...
Bob Mayo
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Sep 1, 2003
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stealth372, I am in the same situation as yourself EXCEPT I am a shy gay man looking for another man. Too bad that I'm gay and you're straight or we two shy...
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